Telling My Wife I'm Bi

I can't tell the current wife I'm bi (although I've told her some stories of my experimental days). But, if for some reason I were ever dating again, it would be the first thing I mentioned.

"Honey, I love dick. I want you to love dick. I want us to love dick together."
 
I can't tell the current wife I'm bi (although I've told her some stories of my experimental days). But, if for some reason I were ever dating again, it would be the first thing I mentioned.

"Honey, I love dick. I want you to love dick. I want us to love dick together."

why can't you tell her? Just sure she'd not be supportive?

I have for years told my Gf's that I've had a few bi experiences, but I certainly wouldn't lead with that. I've dated for awhile to first decide whether they were open and trustworthy enough.
If they weren't , I'd not continue dating.
 
I told my wife on the 3rd or 4th date...20 years ago. It's been a fun adventure with toys and the occasional dabbling in swinging. There have been some fights and crying as well with her occasionally thinking I was just gay(since when it's been years since the last cock I can get antsy/obsessed about it). But we've come through it all and it is great living honestly with her. She's even arranging a bi 3some for my birthday this year. :cool:

Be sure to tell your doctor too...changes what vaccines you should have and such.
 
I told my wife on the 3rd or 4th date...20 years ago. It's been a fun adventure with toys and the occasional dabbling in swinging. There have been some fights and crying as well with her occasionally thinking I was just gay(since when it's been years since the last cock I can get antsy/obsessed about it). But we've come through it all and it is great living honestly with her. She's even arranging a bi 3some for my birthday this year. :cool:

Be sure to tell your doctor too...changes what vaccines you should have and such.

nice to read someone navigated through their partnership being true to your sexuality and your wife.
I can relate to the antsy/obsessed feeling. I desired monogamy with my now wife, and worried how I might deal with that. The openness with her and toy play has sated those feeling well enough thus far.

This forum has been a helpful outlet through writing stories or related to others on here.

A bi 3some with the right candidate would be an awesome b-day surprise. I'm envious, although at this point my bi interests might take a backseat to just wanting to give my wife a mind blowing night of pleasure with another guy.
 
nice to read someone navigated through their partnership being true to your sexuality and your wife.
I can relate to the antsy/obsessed feeling. I desired monogamy with my now wife, and worried how I might deal with that. The openness with her and toy play has sated those feeling well enough thus far.

This forum has been a helpful outlet through writing stories or related to others on here.

A bi 3some with the right candidate would be an awesome b-day surprise. I'm envious, although at this point my bi interests might take a backseat to just wanting to give my wife a mind blowing night of pleasure with another guy.

I enjoy the forum as well. A nice outlet for bi thoughts and desires
 
I told my wife that my first sex was with a guy in my teens. She asked questions and wanted to know everything. She would help me cum in my mouth. She kissed me after a blowjob. She had me lick her after sex. She knew I enjoyed cum. She always talked about watching me suck a cock but never followed through. I just didn't tell her how much I sucked at gloryholes in the late 70s.
 
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