That Very First Moment
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AvaAdore
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We met at a party in my first year of university. We talked a little, but I didn't really think about him after that. I was also in a LDR. We had a class together in 2nd semester and wound up hanging out more. At first I thought of him as just a friend (though attractive). After all, I was still in this other relationship, but I wasn't really happy in it (too much time apart with no near future prospects of living together, falling out of love, that kind of thing). Then one night I had a dream about him, and I woke up thinking "Oh crap, I think I like him!" It was very evident that he liked me, and it kind of progressed from there.
After 2 months of angst and trying to convince ourselves that we could just be friends, I broke it off with the other guy (one of the hardest things I ever did). I didn't want to go straight into another relationship right away, but it just happened! For a while we tried to maintain that we weren't a couple, but we were only lying to ourselves. It's been over 4 years and we're still together.
After 2 months of angst and trying to convince ourselves that we could just be friends, I broke it off with the other guy (one of the hardest things I ever did). I didn't want to go straight into another relationship right away, but it just happened! For a while we tried to maintain that we weren't a couple, but we were only lying to ourselves. It's been over 4 years and we're still together.
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Me and my baby met on collarme. I saw her profile, and it had some spiritual elements in it that intrigued me. We messaged a little bit, then when I called her the first time... when she said "I liked reading the book of Job in the Bible... I guess God was my first Dom"... I knew I was hooked. We went on the first date and it was amazing.
The thing that amazes me is that every day I find out more and more things we are similar at -- it's really like a Yin/Yang thing ... we think along the same wavelength more often than not, but we just express it differently.
The thing that amazes me is that every day I find out more and more things we are similar at -- it's really like a Yin/Yang thing ... we think along the same wavelength more often than not, but we just express it differently.
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Anyone with stories to add?
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MasterPhoenix said:
wow...You are bringing alot of threads back from the 'dead' You already know my story
imma go back and read the thread from the beginning 
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The Story of S
Some days not sure I should take the advice Desert Rose has put in her signature line, I tell myself it is over between S and I. Then he will call and I get that can't eat, can't sleep, over the fence, home run, world series kind of thing going on and I become a puddle of female flesh at his feet when he does finally come to me.
I was the one who first contacted him on ALT. I was alone and like many looking for something local. At the time I was seeing a couple of doms but neither local and never able to get my head around the online thing wasn't getting nearly enough "attention."
Anyway there was something about his profile that attracted me, the taunt perhaps in his byline and perhaps the fact we lived in the same zip code. There was no picture and little to go on regarding likes and dislikes as he had not completed a fetish list.
Well he contacted me the next day through the site, politely thanked me for contacting him and asked that I send him a profile as he was not a paying member of the site and had limited access.
We sent emails back and forth for a couple of days and on a rainy afternoon he offered his cell number wondering what my voice sounded like. I accepted the number but didn't call until much later that evening. He answered right away saying he usually doesn't answer unidentified callers but somehow knew it was me. He told me he was busy but would call back later on. One, two three hours went by and by that time I was thinking he wasn't going to call and went to bed.
I no sooner set that alarm when the phone rang. My heart raced when I recognized his voice. We chatted a bit about the general and he asked if I wanted to meet him that evening. I told him I was in bed already and had to work in the morning. He sort of chuckled at that and asked what I was wearing and I swear I heard a growl when I told him I sleep in the nude.
We chatted a bit more and he asked which street I lived on in the neighborhood I had told him I lived in. I told him not knowing why as I knew the rules and after all had not even met this guy yet. A little more generalized chat and he asked what kind of house I lived in. I told him and he said at that point "then why don't you throw on a raincoat and come out and meet me. I'm in my truck in front of your house.
Nervous I was but again there was something about him that rang true about him so out I went but dressed in a bit more than a raincoat. We sat on my steps a few minutes and commented on the weather, the night sky, etc and he jumped up and said you live around the corner of the hottest art section in town, let's go get a glass of wine. He went over to his truck and opened the door but for the first time, where had I been, red lights went off and I refused to get in. "OK he said then let's walk. Its a beautiful May night and beautiful it was. We walked the length of the restaurant haven, stopping here and there for a glass of wine. After the third stop I told him I had reached my limit so we went to a cafe for a coffee and dessert. The talk was stimulating and I was captivated by his charm and intelligence. When I asked at one point what time it was ,I never wear a watch, and he said it was nearly 2:00 am I nearly dropped insisting that we head back as I had to get some sleep before work. On our way back he noted I was not dressed for the cool evening air and offered his jacket which I gladly took.
The conversation on the way back moved toward D/s and he asked what made me think I was submissive. I guess my answer pleased him for at the end of my response he took hold of my shoulders, turned me to face him and kissed me, kissed me hard. He then turned and continued walking as if nothing happened . We approached the front of my house and he said "not yet, please don't go in yet. I hate to let you go so soon." We had been out for 4 hours. So we walked past my house up to where they were building a new block of condos. There he kissed me again but with more passion and before I knew what he was about he had his hands in my spandex rubbing my throbbing pussy whispering in my ear what a naughty girl I was to be unsaved and asking if I would like for him to shave me. I was nearly beside myself with lust by now but did realize he was handling me in public and I was a bit nervous about that so said "I really do need to go in now." He let go of me and agreed. We again reached my house and again he took me roughly in his arm and kissed me hard. "My neighbors I managed to stutter." He was unaffected and continued to kiss me until I was almost faint and said "Well you had better come in then before me neighbors think I'm some slut or something." He chuckled and said "Oh but you are some kind of slut and tonight you are to be my slut."
We went in and he did things to me I had only read and dreamed about. At 5:00am when my alarm clock went off I did something I never do, I called in sick and we continued to explore one another for hours. Well that was almost a year and a half ago. As we continued to see one another our relationship developed in to something which held the best of both worlds, a little vanilla and a little BDSM. Before 3 months were up I was in love and when he responded that he was not at this point in his life capable of giving anyone that much of himself I was sad but appreciated his honesty. When we are together it is though we are the only two people on earth and he has on more than one occasion pushed to my limits and past...but those are stories unto themselves.
Some days not sure I should take the advice Desert Rose has put in her signature line, I tell myself it is over between S and I. Then he will call and I get that can't eat, can't sleep, over the fence, home run, world series kind of thing going on and I become a puddle of female flesh at his feet when he does finally come to me.
I was the one who first contacted him on ALT. I was alone and like many looking for something local. At the time I was seeing a couple of doms but neither local and never able to get my head around the online thing wasn't getting nearly enough "attention."
Anyway there was something about his profile that attracted me, the taunt perhaps in his byline and perhaps the fact we lived in the same zip code. There was no picture and little to go on regarding likes and dislikes as he had not completed a fetish list.
Well he contacted me the next day through the site, politely thanked me for contacting him and asked that I send him a profile as he was not a paying member of the site and had limited access.
We sent emails back and forth for a couple of days and on a rainy afternoon he offered his cell number wondering what my voice sounded like. I accepted the number but didn't call until much later that evening. He answered right away saying he usually doesn't answer unidentified callers but somehow knew it was me. He told me he was busy but would call back later on. One, two three hours went by and by that time I was thinking he wasn't going to call and went to bed.
I no sooner set that alarm when the phone rang. My heart raced when I recognized his voice. We chatted a bit about the general and he asked if I wanted to meet him that evening. I told him I was in bed already and had to work in the morning. He sort of chuckled at that and asked what I was wearing and I swear I heard a growl when I told him I sleep in the nude.
We chatted a bit more and he asked which street I lived on in the neighborhood I had told him I lived in. I told him not knowing why as I knew the rules and after all had not even met this guy yet. A little more generalized chat and he asked what kind of house I lived in. I told him and he said at that point "then why don't you throw on a raincoat and come out and meet me. I'm in my truck in front of your house.
Nervous I was but again there was something about him that rang true about him so out I went but dressed in a bit more than a raincoat. We sat on my steps a few minutes and commented on the weather, the night sky, etc and he jumped up and said you live around the corner of the hottest art section in town, let's go get a glass of wine. He went over to his truck and opened the door but for the first time, where had I been, red lights went off and I refused to get in. "OK he said then let's walk. Its a beautiful May night and beautiful it was. We walked the length of the restaurant haven, stopping here and there for a glass of wine. After the third stop I told him I had reached my limit so we went to a cafe for a coffee and dessert. The talk was stimulating and I was captivated by his charm and intelligence. When I asked at one point what time it was ,I never wear a watch, and he said it was nearly 2:00 am I nearly dropped insisting that we head back as I had to get some sleep before work. On our way back he noted I was not dressed for the cool evening air and offered his jacket which I gladly took.
The conversation on the way back moved toward D/s and he asked what made me think I was submissive. I guess my answer pleased him for at the end of my response he took hold of my shoulders, turned me to face him and kissed me, kissed me hard. He then turned and continued walking as if nothing happened . We approached the front of my house and he said "not yet, please don't go in yet. I hate to let you go so soon." We had been out for 4 hours. So we walked past my house up to where they were building a new block of condos. There he kissed me again but with more passion and before I knew what he was about he had his hands in my spandex rubbing my throbbing pussy whispering in my ear what a naughty girl I was to be unsaved and asking if I would like for him to shave me. I was nearly beside myself with lust by now but did realize he was handling me in public and I was a bit nervous about that so said "I really do need to go in now." He let go of me and agreed. We again reached my house and again he took me roughly in his arm and kissed me hard. "My neighbors I managed to stutter." He was unaffected and continued to kiss me until I was almost faint and said "Well you had better come in then before me neighbors think I'm some slut or something." He chuckled and said "Oh but you are some kind of slut and tonight you are to be my slut."
We went in and he did things to me I had only read and dreamed about. At 5:00am when my alarm clock went off I did something I never do, I called in sick and we continued to explore one another for hours. Well that was almost a year and a half ago. As we continued to see one another our relationship developed in to something which held the best of both worlds, a little vanilla and a little BDSM. Before 3 months were up I was in love and when he responded that he was not at this point in his life capable of giving anyone that much of himself I was sad but appreciated his honesty. When we are together it is though we are the only two people on earth and he has on more than one occasion pushed to my limits and past...but those are stories unto themselves.
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Ooo Poly's get two stories?
For my husband, the first thing I ever said to him was "I bet I know where you got your screen name". We'd been part of the same AOL chatroom and he'd been hitting on my friend, "Catch", and she told me I would probably like him.
What started out as a love for Vampires --- by the way I was right about his screen name, it was from the movie, "Lost Boys", turned into a great friendship. He was the kind of friend who'd tell me anything, even if it wasnt pleasant to hear --- "Of course you're having problems in your marriage... you're having an affair"
A few months after meeting, I separated from my husband and I agreed to meet him in person. I knew I was in love with him the moment I saw him walking down the stairs at his parents house. We've been together almost 12 years, married almost 8
Master, I dont think I can remember the day or the first thing he said to me because we met almost 3 years ago while playing an online game. We were friends, though at one point I thought that he thought I was a slut on this bulletin board my husband and I manage, so I became very self-conscious around him.
With the luxury of message archiving in YIM, I can see the first thing we talked about in IM was nearly 2 years ago... where he was showing me screen captures of his house and I was complaining because his graphics were better. I guess things started for us when a bit later he asked if I had MS Word at home. He needed help with a college paper and I started helping him with it. It lead to alot of talking and suddenly there were little flirting back and forth... and I set off his "Domdar"... and then our conversations changed from IF we meet to When we meet. I would get so excited when he'd tell me his expectations for me.. or of my behavior.. The first thing he said to me in person was "Hi Babydoll" and I said, "Welcome home, Master".
For my husband, the first thing I ever said to him was "I bet I know where you got your screen name". We'd been part of the same AOL chatroom and he'd been hitting on my friend, "Catch", and she told me I would probably like him.
What started out as a love for Vampires --- by the way I was right about his screen name, it was from the movie, "Lost Boys", turned into a great friendship. He was the kind of friend who'd tell me anything, even if it wasnt pleasant to hear --- "Of course you're having problems in your marriage... you're having an affair"
A few months after meeting, I separated from my husband and I agreed to meet him in person. I knew I was in love with him the moment I saw him walking down the stairs at his parents house. We've been together almost 12 years, married almost 8
Master, I dont think I can remember the day or the first thing he said to me because we met almost 3 years ago while playing an online game. We were friends, though at one point I thought that he thought I was a slut on this bulletin board my husband and I manage, so I became very self-conscious around him.
With the luxury of message archiving in YIM, I can see the first thing we talked about in IM was nearly 2 years ago... where he was showing me screen captures of his house and I was complaining because his graphics were better. I guess things started for us when a bit later he asked if I had MS Word at home. He needed help with a college paper and I started helping him with it. It lead to alot of talking and suddenly there were little flirting back and forth... and I set off his "Domdar"... and then our conversations changed from IF we meet to When we meet. I would get so excited when he'd tell me his expectations for me.. or of my behavior.. The first thing he said to me in person was "Hi Babydoll" and I said, "Welcome home, Master".
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Can't really think of a "first moment" with my Dom.
We started by me PMing him about his stories. I think in the course of PMing one another almost all day, everyday for a week, we talked about everything that we possibly could. The conversation with him has always been light and unrestrained (even when getting orders from him), so much so in fact that I can tell him anything and feel comfortable doing that.
When he told me that I was HIS whore, one day, it felt like it was the most natural position to fall into and I have not regretted one single day.
We started by me PMing him about his stories. I think in the course of PMing one another almost all day, everyday for a week, we talked about everything that we possibly could. The conversation with him has always been light and unrestrained (even when getting orders from him), so much so in fact that I can tell him anything and feel comfortable doing that.
When he told me that I was HIS whore, one day, it felt like it was the most natural position to fall into and I have not regretted one single day.
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sinn0cent1 said:i hope it turns to more. If it does, i hope we all get to hear about it. Because it's a nice story so far .... and because i am nosey too.
I just saw this and remembered I'd posted here about my non-relationship...
Update: After 2+ years of daily phone calls, suggestions (on his part) that we spend a weekend together (only to have the idea yanked every dammed time), I pushed for us to see each other this summer - yes or no. He said "maybe", and I said I deserved better than "maybe" after 2 years of devotion. He accused me of being frigid, picked a fight about something totally unrelated to the relationship, and announced I'd never done anything but cause him pain; he never wanted to speak to me again.
I hit my breaking point and took him seriously, and didn't bother with emails/phone calls for the first time in 2½ years. He sent a very pissy email 3 days later, acting as if *I* was the one who lost her shit; I responded with some polite but firm boundaries - his accusations and manipulations weren't acceptable. If he'd apologize for the horrible things he'd said, I'd go back to daily chats (which I acknowledged I missed), but I was tired of waiting for a real time relationship that was obviously never going to materialize, so I felt it was best I look elsewhere for Romance. He told me to be careful (no apology) and hasn't spoken to me since.
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Wow I've loved reading this thread.
Particularly the moments recounted of the very first time people actually physically met their pyl/PYL.
Being in a LDR with my Master, its something that constantly crosses my mind. It actually terrifies the life out of me.
Wondering how we will both react to one another. What will be the first thing he says or does? Will he kiss me? Will we be like each other has imagined? Wondering what feelings and emotions I will experience....
I'd love to hear more from others who have been in a similar positions.
Particularly the moments recounted of the very first time people actually physically met their pyl/PYL.
Being in a LDR with my Master, its something that constantly crosses my mind. It actually terrifies the life out of me.
Wondering how we will both react to one another. What will be the first thing he says or does? Will he kiss me? Will we be like each other has imagined? Wondering what feelings and emotions I will experience....
I'd love to hear more from others who have been in a similar positions.
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I wasn't around when the thread began .... so:
I met her on AH here on Lit nearly three years ago when she asked for someone who could edit stories and who might teach some things about writing. I'd had a number of gigs like that with pretend-subs and pretend-writers with agendas that had little to do with what they asked for, so I was reluctant. Otoh, on the threads she had an engaging and challenging presence with some things to say that i'd enjoyed listening to ... so I drew a line in the sand and told her what it would mean if she wanted me to edit and/or mentor.
24 hours later my head was spinning. Still is most days.
A lot of fun to read this, by the way. Thanks to all.
ST
I met her on AH here on Lit nearly three years ago when she asked for someone who could edit stories and who might teach some things about writing. I'd had a number of gigs like that with pretend-subs and pretend-writers with agendas that had little to do with what they asked for, so I was reluctant. Otoh, on the threads she had an engaging and challenging presence with some things to say that i'd enjoyed listening to ... so I drew a line in the sand and told her what it would mean if she wanted me to edit and/or mentor.
24 hours later my head was spinning. Still is most days.
A lot of fun to read this, by the way. Thanks to all.
ST
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minx1 said:
Minx, when J picked me up at the airport it was pretty anti-climactic. LOL There were all sorts of delays in Miami, and I'd been traveling for (literally) 10 hours at that point. So I cleared customs, found my bags, went towards the gate thingie, and saw this older tall guy hanging out, drinking a slurpee, grinning from ear to ear. We hugged, he nagged me for not paying a porter to carry my bags, I told him I was perfectly capable of doing it myself, and BTW - I needed food like 3 hours ago, so feeding me would get him major ginormous bonus point thingies.
He held my hand the entire time we drove home and kept saying "You're really here... you actually came. Wow!" and I'd say "Well... yeah. I told you I would." He stopped off at the 400 year old fort that's one cove over from the house to show me the view (which was actually an excuse to stop and kiss me LOL), then we dropped the bags off at home, grabbed something to eat, went home again, took a swim, and never skipped a beat.
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CutieMouse said:Minx, when J picked me up at the airport it was pretty anti-climactic. LOL There were all sorts of delays in Miami, and I'd been traveling for (literally) 10 hours at that point. So I cleared customs, found my bags, went towards the gate thingie, and saw this older tall guy hanging out, drinking a slurpee, grinning from ear to ear. We hugged, he nagged me for not paying a porter to carry my bags, I told him I was perfectly capable of doing it myself, and BTW - I needed food like 3 hours ago, so feeding me would get him major ginormous bonus point thingies.
He held my hand the entire time we drove home and kept saying "You're really here... you actually came. Wow!" and I'd say "Well... yeah. I told you I would." He stopped off at the 400 year old fort that's one cove over from the house to show me the view (which was actually an excuse to stop and kiss me LOL), then we dropped the bags off at home, grabbed something to eat, went home again, took a swim, and never skipped a beat.
Thanks for sharing that CM. I can imagine with all that travelling it might make it slightly anti-climatic! Though the stop off on the way back to the house sounds lovely.
When you first saw him, was he like you imagined? I mean I'm guessing you already saw pics...but in the flesh was he/his characteristics what you imagined. Did you have a moment where you both just kinda stared? *laugh* you know, taking eachother in?
I think you are way more together than me, thinking about practical things like food...I will be a jibbering mess. Hyperventilating is never a good look.
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minx1 said:
Yeah I'd seen his picture, but I was a bit worried I'd not recognize him because when I thought he had to be nuts to be interested in me (and my complications), I deleted the initial email he'd sent (with all the pictures).
But I knew it was him the second I saw him, and vice versa. I actually wasn't sure I'd be very attracted to him (based on his picture), but damn he's a handsome man... it's an energy thing.
as for "taking each other in", the hallway from customs to the actual airport ticketing area (which is outside- how freaking weird is that?) is really long, so I think we sized each other up as I came up the hall. I don't know why I wasn't nervous, but I wasn't nervous... babbled on like I always do, matched him comment for comment, and held hands like we'd been doing it for 20 years already.Edited to add:
Oh and it wasn't so uch anti-climactic because I'd been traveling forever, as it was that I was in a mental place where it didn't seem important to put a lot of energy in the idea of seeing him for the first time being some magical something-or-other. No pressure, no expectations, no obligations - just feeling each other out.
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CutieMouse said:Yeah I'd seen his picture, but I was a bit worried I'd not recognize him because when I thought he had to be nuts to be interested in me (and my complications), I deleted the initial email he'd sent (with all the pictures).
But I knew it was him the second I saw him, and vice versa. I actually wasn't sure I'd be very attracted to him (based on his picture), but damn he's a handsome man... it's an energy thing.
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Oh and it wasn't so uch anti-climactic because I'd been traveling forever, as it was that I was in a mental place where it didn't seem important to put a lot of energy in the idea of seeing him for the first time being some magical something-or-other. No pressure, no expectations, no obligations - just feeling each other out.
Yeah I absolutely agree with that. I am not one too put too much emphasis on an immediate 'electricity'. I never had been, I suppose because most of my previous partners started as friends...seeing them 'romantically' or sexually was something that developed over time, as I got to know them more and what they stood for.
I have never been motivated by looks. I tend to like 'lived in' faces or faces with character. And I agree it comes down to an energy a person has about them. I think I let something that happened once before affect me and I shouldn't. A couple of years ago, not long after I had separated from my ex husband I began talking to someone I met through a dating site. We chatted a lot, got to know eachother pretty well and decided to meet. However physically I obviously didn't live up to his expectations or he didn't find an immediate attraction and I could literally see the disappointment in his eyes as he first looked at me.
Sure I know....who wants to be with someone so shallow anyway? True. Plus I can't let an incident like that shape my future, but nevertheless it has made very nervous about such meetings.
Deep down I know it will be very different with my Master. We have grown so close and I know he thinks the world of me already and vice versa....its just that now and again that doubt creeps in.
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minx1 said:
I thought mine was here, but it is only a brief mention in the post so must be on another thread somewhere....so here goes. From memory he spent about 26 hours flying to meet me, all in a suit...was he dressed to impress or what?!!...as a rule he hates wearing a suit. Anyway, I arrived at the airport with a little time to spare to make sure everything was as he wanted it. I went to the restrooms to check it all out and on leaving there one of the suspenders on my corset broke...fortunately I managed to switch them around a little so it wasn't really noticeable.
I went to the waiting area and tried to sit quietly, patiently waiting, but that just wasn't going to work so I spent a lot of time pacing and memorising the words he had sent for me to say when we met. I was so sure I would forget them because they were lengthy under such tension. When his plane arrived, I moved toward the guard rail, wondering if I would recognise him, if he would recognise me, if we would find all was as we hoped...I seemed to be waiting forever. A nice older gent was standing nearby and came up to say quietly to me, 'Whoever it is you are waiting for, he is going to be one happy fella'....abd then went back to where he had been, a smile on his dial and my tension greatly relieved by the unexpected compliment and humour. Later on, the gent gave me a thumbs up and wave goodbye while he left with his wife explaining what had happened earlier.
People started coming through the doors, but of course, he was one of the later ones, not the first, so the waiting seemed to take forever. When he came through the doors, he looked straight at me and came around to where I was standing. I remembered to say the words he had ordered, and without a mistake!! He put his hand in his pocket and then wrapped his arms around me and swept me into a deep and passionate kiss which stopped more than a few passers by in their tracks...and while kissing me, he fastened his collar around my neck. LOL, I will say I was swept off my feet considering he had spent months denying he was romantic in the slightest,,,and more than a little moist at the undeniable physical proof of his desire I felt pressed into me as he held me.
We managed to catch our breath and find where he had to exchange his money, then headed for my car in the car park where he once again swept me into his arms, this time a little more demanding and roughly. We loaded his luggage and got in the car, and I drove him to the unit I had booked up the coast. For the whole hour and a bit journey, his hand was on my thigh or my shoulder while he told me I was more than he had dared imagine, and the one he had seen in a previous vision of who he would spend his life with. Our unit was also something he had seen in a vision, right down to the colour of the furnishings.
When we arrived at the unit and I fixed him a drink, he ordered me to begin undressing for his inspection. It was tense, but also erotic as he waited for me to remove each piece of clothing as he instructed. Once he had completed his inspection and expressed his pleasure, we began an SM session that lasted hours and into the following day. The next few days were wonderful and we married as planned 2 weeks later. It was unbelieveable how comfortable we both felt with each other from the first moment of meeting. It has not been 5 years, and despite some ups and downs of varying types and degrees, we are both unanimous in that we feel it was the best decision either of us every made and that no-one else could make us as happy and content as we have become. LOL, sometime we have to shake the contentedness up a little to make sure we don't get lost in a rut, but it is better than anywhere either of us have been in previous relationships, or dreamed was ever possible.
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catalina_francisco said:I thought mine was here, but it is only a brief mention in the post so must be on another thread somewhere....so here goes. From memory he spent about 26 hours flying to meet me, all in a suit...was he dressed to impress or what?!!...as a rule he hates wearing a suit. Anyway, I arrived at the airport with a little time to spare to make sure everything was as he wanted it. I went to the restrooms to check it all out and on leaving there one of the suspenders on my corset broke...fortunately I managed to switch them around a little so it wasn't really noticeable.
I went to the waiting area and tried to sit quietly, patiently waiting, but that just wasn't going to work so I spent a lot of time pacing and memorising the words he had sent for me to say when we met. I was so sure I would forget them because they were lengthy under such tension. When his plane arrived, I moved toward the guard rail, wondering if I would recognise him, if he would recognise me, if we would find all was as we hoped...I seemed to be waiting forever. A nice older gent was standing nearby and came up to say quietly to me, 'Whoever it is you are waiting for, he is going to be one happy fella'....abd then went back to where he had been, a smile on his dial and my tension greatly relieved by the unexpected compliment and humour. Later on, the gent gave me a thumbs up and wave goodbye while he left with his wife explaining what had happened earlier.
People started coming through the doors, but of course, he was one of the later ones, not the first, so the waiting seemed to take forever. When he came through the doors, he looked straight at me and came around to where I was standing. I remembered to say the words he had ordered, and without a mistake!! He put his hand in his pocket and then wrapped his arms around me and swept me into a deep and passionate kiss which stopped more than a few passers by in their tracks...and while kissing me, he fastened his collar around my neck. LOL, I will say I was swept off my feet considering he had spent months denying he was romantic in the slightest,,,and more than a little moist at the undeniable physical proof of his desire I felt pressed into me as he held me.
We managed to catch our breath and find where he had to exchange his money, then headed for my car in the car park where he once again swept me into his arms, this time a little more demanding and roughly. We loaded his luggage and got in the car, and I drove him to the unit I had booked up the coast. For the whole hour and a bit journey, his hand was on my thigh or my shoulder while he told me I was more than he had dared imagine, and the one he had seen in a previous vision of who he would spend his life with. Our unit was also something he had seen in a vision, right down to the colour of the furnishings.
When we arrived at the unit and I fixed him a drink, he ordered me to begin undressing for his inspection. It was tense, but also erotic as he waited for me to remove each piece of clothing as he instructed. Once he had completed his inspection and expressed his pleasure, we began an SM session that lasted hours and into the following day. The next few days were wonderful and we married as planned 2 weeks later. It was unbelieveable how comfortable we both felt with each other from the first moment of meeting. It has not been 5 years, and despite some ups and downs of varying types and degrees, we are both unanimous in that we feel it was the best decision either of us every made and that no-one else could make us as happy and content as we have become. LOL, sometime we have to shake the contentedness up a little to make sure we don't get lost in a rut, but it is better than anywhere either of us have been in previous relationships, or dreamed was ever possible.
Catalina
Wow thanks Cat! That's some first meet!
Its good to hear about what was going through your mind, how you checked your appearance and nerves at the wait and of what you had to recite. I can imagine doing exactly the s.ame
I know everyones first meetings are very different, but I do find these accounts very comforting *smile*. Everyone seems to have very good memories so far.
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There should be on the BDSM checklists.
Long Winded Email : giving 012345 done? Y/N
Long Winded Email: getting 012345 done? Y/N
I'm like, a 4/5 for both
M is a 1.
Bull is Master of the loaded 1 word reply, but does his waxing poetic in person.
H is chatty and reminds me it's good that only one of them is, I don't have the time anyway.
Long Winded Email : giving 012345 done? Y/N
Long Winded Email: getting 012345 done? Y/N
I'm like, a 4/5 for both
M is a 1.
Bull is Master of the loaded 1 word reply, but does his waxing poetic in person.
H is chatty and reminds me it's good that only one of them is, I don't have the time anyway.
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tanijaana
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His email popped up in my inbox on collarme a mere few minutes before I was going to shut down my profile. Well written, really goofy, no mention of sex whatsoever. We exchanged a couple messages, met a few days later at the food court at the mall in our former city. I hung back a bit to watch him when he showed up (I was early) and he looked like a scared little kid. That was the first time I knew he would be different than the others; wore his heart on his sleeve.
Then he took me back to his place and I told him to stop being a gentleman about halfway through the movie we were watching. And I STILL tease him about being cheap and easy. *grin*
Then he took me back to his place and I told him to stop being a gentleman about halfway through the movie we were watching. And I STILL tease him about being cheap and easy. *grin*
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We played a roleplay game together. It was an old game about 15 years ago that had "taverns" on different servers. I had a following in my tavern, he had a following in his, and when I went over to visit his home tavern to take a look around, he had a woman on his arm that had a name very similar to mine.
Roleplay comments started and then wit was commented upon, and then ultimately bystanders started betting on who would "win"
It turned into an insult match and I believe I ultimately won because he didn't want to publicly insult me. I had no such restraint with money on the line...
Thus began an online friendship where he cut a swath through every woman (or sometimes not even women - me: Isn't that player a man? him: who cares? and him: Oh GOD, she's 14!)
Out of character conversations turned into wanting to roleplay together more and more often, resulting in playing newborn twins that we made pyrokinetic and concentrated on burning down the tavern and disappointing our parents...
Sharp, funny, elegant and sexually frightening roleplayer who made me reboot more times out of fear (only person who made me do so) until I'd come back online as someone else, he'd pick me out of the crowd and call me a coward, teasing.
No matter what characters we were playing, we tended to pinch each other in the ass. Which could be upsetting to his wives at the time (Woman, do you have any idea how many wives you've cost me?). We still...pinch each other in the ass. A lot.
The only person who has ever scared me. And I kept coming back. 15 years later...we're married.
Roleplay comments started and then wit was commented upon, and then ultimately bystanders started betting on who would "win"
It turned into an insult match and I believe I ultimately won because he didn't want to publicly insult me. I had no such restraint with money on the line...
Thus began an online friendship where he cut a swath through every woman (or sometimes not even women - me: Isn't that player a man? him: who cares? and him: Oh GOD, she's 14!)
Out of character conversations turned into wanting to roleplay together more and more often, resulting in playing newborn twins that we made pyrokinetic and concentrated on burning down the tavern and disappointing our parents...
Sharp, funny, elegant and sexually frightening roleplayer who made me reboot more times out of fear (only person who made me do so) until I'd come back online as someone else, he'd pick me out of the crowd and call me a coward, teasing.
No matter what characters we were playing, we tended to pinch each other in the ass. Which could be upsetting to his wives at the time (Woman, do you have any idea how many wives you've cost me?). We still...pinch each other in the ass. A lot.
The only person who has ever scared me. And I kept coming back. 15 years later...we're married.
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How we met..
I met myD through an Ad on Craigs list , I had been bored and ran through the ads and found his ad I simply replied with the word Intriqued...?? and he asked me to send him a picture, I did send him a picture of my ass and he was like from that moment he knew I was his.. We chatted online and exchanged emails which progressively moved into phone calls and then when we decided to meet face to face, I scheduled myself late for work we were going to have breakfast and meet face to face. He called I was dressed and I went to meet him, We were going to meet at a restaurant but ended up meeting in the parking lot, within 5 mins of seeing his face he grabbed me around my waist pulled me in passionately and it was all over for me breakfast and coffee went right out the window and we just spent the morning together learning about one another and a play session. It was INCREDIBLE. I wouldnt change a thing about it..
I met myD through an Ad on Craigs list , I had been bored and ran through the ads and found his ad I simply replied with the word Intriqued...?? and he asked me to send him a picture, I did send him a picture of my ass and he was like from that moment he knew I was his.. We chatted online and exchanged emails which progressively moved into phone calls and then when we decided to meet face to face, I scheduled myself late for work we were going to have breakfast and meet face to face. He called I was dressed and I went to meet him, We were going to meet at a restaurant but ended up meeting in the parking lot, within 5 mins of seeing his face he grabbed me around my waist pulled me in passionately and it was all over for me breakfast and coffee went right out the window and we just spent the morning together learning about one another and a play session. It was INCREDIBLE. I wouldnt change a thing about it..
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Hot-Dayum. This is the best thread on here! Thanks to all for a terrific, and sometimes heart-stopping, read.
Kudos,
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Kudos,
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This is an AWESOME thread....
This post and the subsequent ones in that thread are what started it for me and LC. We just chatted as friends for a few days online...and something just told me *this* one was special, and different. Then my son had to go to the ER and i was a friggin wreck. i was IMing him through my cell phone from the hospital, when i finally just said..."Why don't you just call me so i can stop typing out these messages letter by letter?!" (LOL) i didn't really expect him to, but i knew i needed to hear someone's voice at that moment...so i figured i would ask...well, he did and we talked for a bit. (i remember answering the phone and having to catch my breath...i was nervous for some reason.) Son got better and we kept chatting in IM...sometimes flirting, sometimes innuendo...but mainly just becoming good friends...
He went out of town for a week, and THAT was when i realized just how many feelings i had developed for him. BIG HUGE CRUSH going on. He came back and i managed to keep *sorta* quiet about it for a couple days. i remember slipping and calling him "Sir" in an IM, and then apologizing real quick because it just slipped out. i also remember him saying right after that he liked me calling him "Sir" as long as i was ok with it. The next day (July 4th) he asked me what i wanted and what i wanted from him...(At that point he was pretending he didn't have clue. **giggle** ) i told him i wanted him in my life as more than a friend...that i wanted to be his. (Holding my breath the entire time because i was SO afraid of rejection at that point.) Well, i didn't get rejected...thank goodness, and we have been working on building a strong, solid, relationship ever since. i no longer call him Sir. He's my Daddy and my Master...and everything i have always wanted.
(And of course, i ate a huge helping of my own words because after my ex i claimed i would never call anyone Daddy ever again...but it was completely different when i said it to LC the first time...It just fit. )
So there it is...Not as Earth-shattering as others...but the whole sequence of events leading to where we are now means the world to me...and so does he.
i love You...
This post and the subsequent ones in that thread are what started it for me and LC. We just chatted as friends for a few days online...and something just told me *this* one was special, and different. Then my son had to go to the ER and i was a friggin wreck. i was IMing him through my cell phone from the hospital, when i finally just said..."Why don't you just call me so i can stop typing out these messages letter by letter?!" (LOL) i didn't really expect him to, but i knew i needed to hear someone's voice at that moment...so i figured i would ask...well, he did and we talked for a bit. (i remember answering the phone and having to catch my breath...i was nervous for some reason.) Son got better and we kept chatting in IM...sometimes flirting, sometimes innuendo...but mainly just becoming good friends...
He went out of town for a week, and THAT was when i realized just how many feelings i had developed for him. BIG HUGE CRUSH going on. He came back and i managed to keep *sorta* quiet about it for a couple days. i remember slipping and calling him "Sir" in an IM, and then apologizing real quick because it just slipped out. i also remember him saying right after that he liked me calling him "Sir" as long as i was ok with it. The next day (July 4th) he asked me what i wanted and what i wanted from him...(At that point he was pretending he didn't have clue. **giggle** ) i told him i wanted him in my life as more than a friend...that i wanted to be his. (Holding my breath the entire time because i was SO afraid of rejection at that point.) Well, i didn't get rejected...thank goodness, and we have been working on building a strong, solid, relationship ever since. i no longer call him Sir. He's my Daddy and my Master...and everything i have always wanted.
(And of course, i ate a huge helping of my own words because after my ex i claimed i would never call anyone Daddy ever again...but it was completely different when i said it to LC the first time...It just fit. ) So there it is...Not as Earth-shattering as others...but the whole sequence of events leading to where we are now means the world to me...and so does he.
i love You...
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That First Moment with "v" had me thinking "Wow, this woman is fascinating! I've got to get to know her better!"
That First Moment with "w" had me thinking "Wow, this woman is fascinating! I've got to get to know her better!"
It's only happened twice in my life. I'm rather glad that it's that few. It runs through my life like a runaway freight train.
That First Moment with "w" had me thinking "Wow, this woman is fascinating! I've got to get to know her better!"
It's only happened twice in my life. I'm rather glad that it's that few. It runs through my life like a runaway freight train.
