The ability of the Dominants to smell a Sub

[Sass84]

I'm beginning to suspect that Dommes, and Doms all have some magical ability to sniff out, to know, to test based on a few sentences or comments who they truly want in their virtual or real harem of submissives.
Big D's is this true, do you have sub-radar?

I've been told a few times that I give off signals that advertise my submissive nature, I don't think it's quite as straight forward as them having a magical ability but more my natural attraction to a dominant partner, so unconciously I I feel my body language as well as eye contact sends a signal that I might be interested, then small hints on my behalf let's them know what they need to know.

 

[seekingAlpha]

As a Dom, I have always played privately and therefore I have met almost all of my submissive partners through "vanilla" means. I definitely do not have a way to look at a woman and know if she is submissive in an everyday setting even though I have been enjoying the D/s dynamic for almost 30 years. What I do know is that if I go out with 6 different women over the course of a month that I will hit it off with the woman that is the kinkiest and that in turn significantly increases the odds of finding a partner who is submissive or wants to explore submission.

 

[petes478]

HNGs?

Agree, conversation is the way to go. Apart from anything else, most people switch way more than Lit stories would have you believe.

Bingo like with many other things there is a range. Some move from one extreme to the other but most stay in the Ven diagram 20% DOM 20%SUB. There’s going to be slightly differing numbers as we are human.

 

[DevilishV8]

I'm beginning to suspect that Dommes, and Doms all have some magical ability to sniff out, to know, to test based on a few sentences or comments who they truly want in their virtual or real harem of submissives.
Big D's is this true, do you have sub-radar?

I definitely do. And it's many things, details of how a woman is dressed, how she looks and responds to assertive comments, tone of her voice etc. Have had this "How did you know ?? " comment a few times

 

[slavemelanie]

Dominance and submissive is a life long trait so that lends to being intuitive about the other side of what your natural inclination is. I will say from experience the levels of ability to sense submissive or dominant traits varies from person to person and again, experience in the lifestyle is a huge advantage. A older experienced Dom tends to have greater magical ablities than say a newbie younger Dom. One doesn't make the other better, they just have seen more manifistation of submission.

I'm sure this holds true for submissives being able to sniff out a Dominant.

enjoy the weekend, melanie

 

[rosco rathbone]

There's a thing I call "the smile of submission", sort of a big smile but with scared eyes.

 

[Giftboy]

I am my an owned sub Slut. When I get a chance, I go to a pub for contact between subs and Doms/ Tops/ Masters. There is no such thing as “radar.” It's all in body movement and eye contact. When I am in the pub, and I spot a man I think could top me, the first thing I use is body language. I may move my bottom in a manner that invites interest. If I suspect interest. I will sip my drink and make eye contact. If I experience an extended eye contact, I know we are getting hot. The next thing I do is turn my back on him and touch my bottom, then turn and caress one of my breasts. This signals I am horny for him. This may result, as it often does, with me soon to be in a hotel room, on my knees, naked, arms extended to his chest in submission to his body and his wonder-tasting cock planted in my mouth, in preparation of a long deep cock penetration of my Slutty tight hole.

 

[MIssMcGovern]

I can totally sense when someone is submissive in the bedroom when I meet them. Too many tells to list.

 

[MagicFlute]

I have met a couple of ladies in vanilla situations where I just knew that they were submissive and I know one of them has told me she knew as soon as I looked in her eyes that she wanted to be dominated by me - and she wasn't into the lifestyle at the point either.

I do enjoy those moments where there is a D/s connection where there are no words spoken but recognisation of a kindred spirit leads to a smile and nod with the sub lowering her eyes as she smiles in acknowledgement, whether conscious of it of not.

O it could just be my imagination

By the way, I don't think EVERY woman i meet is a little and i don't think every Little i meet is mine.