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I've been done...and ready to submit...(my opinion that is...)
Right now, I'm finishing 'A Lick of Frost' by Laurell K. Hamilton...*cough*...pure sex is quite right...
So who has finished the March BDSM BOM?
We get to start discussing it at midnight your time on Tuesday, March 31!
Me, I've read it can't wait to to discuss it! have to get my hands on next month's read though.
Yes. Overall I liked them. I certainly got horny reading them. However, the constant need for sex was a bit much. The constant orgasms were a bit much. Mostly I preferred the BDSM parts of the sex scenes.
I would have made the people less Barbie-like, and more real, i.e. described their bodies less or in less perfectionist ways. I love when it's clear a body and/or a face isn't model perfect but nonetheless is perfect for that person. When the cock is always HUGE, the women slim, the men having six packs, the women having HUGE boobs and so on, it bothers me.
I love when it's clear a body and/or a face isn't model perfect but nonetheless is perfect for that person.
I'm scampering off to write my opinion but it surprises me that I always seem to be somewhere on the same page with the both of you, in most respects, anyways...
The idea of 'one person for everyone'...The romantic side of me says 'of course there is' but the experienced side knows better. I am a strong believer in the simple statement that people are brought into our life for a reason. Those relationships aren't always good for us but they help us discover our strengths, weaknesses...learn about who we are..what drives us..As an example, I have this friend/lust relationship w/someone..I'm not even sure what you'd exactly call it. It's complicated. We play in our own unique way and it's freakin' hot. But it's about what I've gotten from it. And even though whatever we're doing is most likely not good for either of us..I think..wow..to have missed out on that..
I would have never been introduced into this lifestyle if it weren't for my ex-husband. I have always been confused about my place. Some people are so big on titles and who you are. Whether it be in real life or online, there are anxious PYL's who want to make that decision for you or sway you towards what they want you to be. I admire people who say they've known most of their life that they were this or that..but that isn't me..and it is really hard discovering that side of one's self. If I was impressionable, keyword if, the book sends a negative message. Sex will lead me or change my ways. Uncomplicated as that..As if! ..In that case, I'm just going to put out a personal, describe what I see as perfection..then have him..perfect, hot guy..do me over and over. Maybe then, I'll know my place.. IMHO, even though I get clouded with doubt, etc..Ultimately, I am what I feel in my heart..It's just a matter of listening to it and being real to what it's telling me..
Now for the perfection aspect. As much as I disagree, I understand the need and place for it. True story. Each year, I spend time at a Children's Cancer Camp. One day, I sat reading with a little girl. My heart would stop every time I looked at her. She had huge eyes and freckles. She was reading this book about a ballerina. A perfect ballerina who danced like a swan and had long curly blonde hair. When we were talking about the book..she said that the ballerina was beautiful, something she could never be. The ballerina had long beautiful hair and all her hair had been taken from her. I, of course, started crying. She was absolutely beautiful in so many ways. I said..Uh-oh! and explained that she was reading the edited version of the book. The ballerina laughed like a little wild jungle animal, causing people to stare wherever she went. She also had two crooked middle toes that she insisted on painting a different color from the rest. Her imperfections were why people adored her. They were left out because they weren't important. And even though she looked at me like I was full of total bullshit..she said that it would have been better if those things were not left out of the book. I believe had some imperfections been included, she might have found herself relating to the ballerina in the story.
As an adult..exactly how beaten up are we?..how much do we beat ourselves up?..bad relationships, lack of self confidence etc...where we need to believe in that perfection?..to pretend to be the long haired ballerina? I'm addicted to the vintage era..pure glam..but if you look closely..they almost all have quirky imperfections..which is what I love. I'm all for fantasy..finding a type of healing in a distant place. But adding a touch of reality would make all the difference in the way a story is read and perceived. I think we need that. That was a great statement Fury because it's absolutely true.
The idea of 'one person for everyone'...The romantic side of me says 'of course there is' but the experienced side knows better.
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Media and religion are both to blame for that idea IMO.
I decided not to start reading until mid-month. This way I'll have finished mid-month and not within the first week.
Enough for us to talk about?...
just wanted to say i'm waiting for House of Dark Delights to come in the mail, Master ordered it for me at the end of last week. Once it gets here i'll read it Do we know what May's book will be yet? Thanks
I think...I think that...as you put out new selections...it's harder for me to make a decision.
So, I'll choose:
1. Witchling
2. Gordon
3. The Love Slave