The "Fuck you cancer!" thread

Thank you all so much.

My mom died last night.

It's such a dark time, but she is finally out of pain, and my dad can finally stop seeing it.

Fuck you cancer.
 
Thank you all so much.

My mom died last night.

It's such a dark time, but she is finally out of pain, and my dad can finally stop seeing it.

Fuck you cancer.

DGE, So very sorry at the death of your Mom. May she be at peace, free of pain and suffering and may you feel some comfort knowing you were there for her and your Dad. Hugs, thoughts, and prayers to you and your family. :rose::heart::rose:

Be well~!
Apple
 
DGE, So very sorry at the death of your Mom. May she be at peace, free of pain and suffering and may you feel some comfort knowing you were there for her and your Dad. Hugs, thoughts, and prayers to you and your family. :rose::heart::rose:

Be well~!
Apple

DEAR Deep Green, Years have long gone by since I lost my mother that way... She said this to me the night before she died. "something gotta kill me" Cancer ain't so special. She is at peace, she won. fuck you Cancer!
Ted
 
So sorry DGE :rose:
No more pain.
Hope you, your brother and Dad can find some peace.

Lots of love xxxx

Fuck you cancer!
 
DGE, I'm sorry to hear about your mum. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family :rose:

Yesterday I took a call from a guy who sounded calm but shocked who wanted me to print an order of service for his wife's funeral tomorrow.

She was 46 and died of breast cancer.

To make it easier, I said we would deliver it to him as he had a lot of arrangements to sort out, so earlier today I went round to his house. He was just arriving home, and opened the door to call to his daughter to come look at the print. She looked about 14, the same age as my own daughter, and was obviously cleaning the house ready for tomorrow. As soon as they opened the box and she saw her mum's face, she cried.

I got back in the car and swore a lot on the drive back to the office.

What a horrible bastard fucking disease to take a mum from a young girl.

And it's happening all the damn time.

FYC. FYC. FYC.
 
Thank you all so much.

My mom died last night.

It's such a dark time, but she is finally out of pain, and my dad can finally stop seeing it.

Fuck you cancer.

My sincere condolences DGE. Sorry for your loss and for the grief you feel. Thank god she is out of pain now. It is such a hopeless feeling, watching a loved one suffer and now your family is released from that. For me, the more I remember the joy that my loved one had for most of their life, the joy and laughter we shared, and the less I think of the suffering, the better my recovery from their death. Then, I have defeated cancer a little....I have stopped it from some of the soul sucking it does on those left behind! Fuck You Cancer!!!!
 
Thank you all so much.

My mom died last night.

It's such a dark time, but she is finally out of pain, and my dad can finally stop seeing it.

Fuck you cancer.

I'm sorry, my friend. I wish peace for you and your entire family. Remember with joy when you can.
 
Thank you all more than you can know. These posts and the PMs I have received, made me sob in my car today.

Because I have freely admitted many times on this board to being a Taylor Swift fan, and because I am listening to old Hanson singles right now, I can admit this freely.

I am a lot like my mom. We were extremely close. Our interests and temperament were so similar. I will miss her more than I can ever say.

Lally, God bless you for what you did.

Fuck you, cancer, you shit.
 
You know, I have always suspected you to be a Hanson guy. ;)

I'm so sorry it hurts, DGE. Huge hug to you. :rose:

FYC!
 
You know, I have always suspected you to be a Hanson guy. ;)

I'm so sorry it hurts, DGE. Huge hug to you. :rose:

FYC!

Its true. I have the pop-culture sensibilities of a seventh-grade girl.

A nerdy one with a three-day beard and a liking for weird religious kink and daddy dom stuff. So... pretty much any teenager.

:rose:
 
DGE, I'm sorry to hear about your mum. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family :rose:

Yesterday I took a call from a guy who sounded calm but shocked who wanted me to print an order of service for his wife's funeral tomorrow.

She was 46 and died of breast cancer.

To make it easier, I said we would deliver it to him as he had a lot of arrangements to sort out, so earlier today I went round to his house. He was just arriving home, and opened the door to call to his daughter to come look at the print. She looked about 14, the same age as my own daughter, and was obviously cleaning the house ready for tomorrow. As soon as they opened the box and she saw her mum's face, she cried.

I got back in the car and swore a lot on the drive back to the office.

What a horrible bastard fucking disease to take a mum from a young girl.

And it's happening all the damn time.

FYC. FYC. FYC.

Sorry for your pain. It is a never
ending war it seems. No sooner do you get over losing a family member, before you discover a friend has his/her own battle, or one of your kid's friends and it just goes on. It is a terrible fucking, soul sucking, cell destroyer! I hate it on such a personal level. And, it is never, ever, fucking fair! But, I feel, that every time we pick our butts and our hearts up off the ground and move forward...we beat it a little. I pray, every day, for the research to find the way to crush this fucking disease, FOREVER! I look forward to tomorrow's cancer walk...to be inspired by other survivors and those who are/were caretakers and all those left behind! FUCK YOU CANCER!!!
 
I am so sorry that you're hurting right now.

Please know that your mother's journey, and your documenting of it, has given me the strength to go with my mom through another treatment, another appointment, another option.

Don't neglect taking care of yourself, my friend. You are close to my heart and in my thoughts. (not in a creepy way)
:rose:

Fuckfuckfuck you cancer
 
Pancreatic Cancer

I learned this morning that my neighbor of 2 decades and dear friend will shortly lose his brother to pancreatic cancer. 2 weeks ago he was working and apparently well.
Now they now he has mets everywhere, his liver is failing and he will be on hospice before the weekend is out.
I ache for my friend and all who love George...a lovely man...he will pass from this earth all too soon. Weeks if not days.

Fuck you cancer.
 
DGE, I am sorry for your loss.


Today, June 24, 2015 reality slapped me in the face. I spent six hours at the Siteman Cancer Center in St. Louis. I believe I have been in denial up to this point. With the permission of the participants of this forum I would like to use this thread as a catharsis. Being who I am, a control freak, tough guy, always in control and unable to admit weakness to those around me, I need a place to cry in my beer. Please, bear with me folks, I am going to use you guys as if you were a bartender who I may never see again.

Curt
 
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