The little things you've never done.

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Even though G is here only weekends there is often some one else here weekdays and I have grown to hate it. I love my own space. I can take any amount of G but I love, love, love time with just me. I'm reasonable company :) I have lots to read, there is always music to listen to ( though not necessarily what I want to listen to at the time) and the radio. There is always something to do and I even catch my self chatting to myself and I laugh a lot. I LOVE my time alone and guard if preciously. I cannot actually remember if I have ever lived alone; I think maybe not. But if anything happened to G ? Please let it not, I probably would for ever, so it's just as well that would be my preferred option!

The thing about being on your own is that it can give you a chance to meet a very interesting person and find out how much you love and care for that person.
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Oh I have learnt I can love other people. I just am not sure I'd commit to one again. G is special like that :). The other people I could love are differently special to me. I'd never, ever, ever leave G. But if I had no choice then I think it would be interesting to be properly alone with a little home of all my own that I actually live in not pass through and keep stuff in. :).

Up until recently I presumed I would not have relationships again, but I now think that's not the case and I'd be open to some people :) but I don't know if I would be wanting to let anyone into my domestic situation again. I'd also probably get a place with NO spare room :) A tiny little house just for me.

I meant being alone is a good way to find yourself. Guess I was being too obscure.:)
 
Oh I have learnt I can love other people. I just am not sure I'd commit to one again. G is special like that :). The other people I could love are differently special to me. I'd never, ever, ever leave G. But if I had no choice then I think it would be interesting to be properly alone with a little home of all my own that I actually live in not pass through and keep stuff in. :).

Up until recently I presumed I would not have relationships again, but I now think that's not the case and I'd be open to some people :) but I don't know if I would be wanting to let anyone into my domestic situation again. I'd also probably get a place with NO spare room :) A tiny little house just for me.
I still have your nest. Converting that into a one-bedroom house would probably save a lot on mortgage.
 
I have never been with 2 women at the same time..... need to rectify that soon!
 
Please don't quote I might delete this :)

I don't know that I ever really considered the labels much. What originally began as attempts to flesh out and understand the physical forms of expression/preferences I had, ended becoming like most things practiced in excess. A crutch. Covering for something. So I couldn't say if I thought of myself as anything other than straight, even when I wasn't practicing it. As for multiple partners, that's never meant anything other than a thrill to me, ego, fleeting. Not my thing.

But luckily, I'm hyper aware now of what I like, want, am, so it was all worth it for the most part. I regret nothing other than the time I wasted at certain points.

I've never been to Iceland, I'd like to though.
 
Even though G is here only weekends there is often some one else here weekdays and I have grown to hate it. I love my own space. I can take any amount of G but I love, love, love time with just me. I'm reasonable company :) I have lots to read, there is always music to listen to ( though not necessarily what I want to listen to at the time) and the radio. There is always something to do and I even catch my self chatting to myself and I laugh a lot. I LOVE my time alone and guard if preciously. I cannot actually remember if I have ever lived alone; I think maybe not. But if anything happened to G ? Please let it not, I probably would for ever, so it's just as well that would be my preferred option!

I'm more of an alone person than a together person. I've been alone / single more than I've been paired up. It was hard for me to get all tangled up with someone else. I've only been with Mr. cookie for 4 years, but he's been a patient, kind person to mesh a life with.
 
I can't see myself ever 'settling down'. Mainly because I can hardly take care of myself + a cat so how would I juggle an entire extra human on top of that??
I'd just end up forgetting to feed one of them and end up in trouble with the relevant animal welfare agency...
 
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Am I alone in my non-cabbage eating ways?

Perhaps it would feel better if you considered yourself to be in rare company? In the United States, prepared coleslaw is a $3.3Billion business. Worldwide, about 70.1 metric tons of cabbage are produced each year, only about 1 million of that in the United States. And yet, you might take comfort in knowing that the Chick-Fil-A chain recently dropped coleslaw from its menu in favor of more healthy-appearing items, such as a kale salad.
 
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