The little things you've never done.

[Farawyn]

I've never jumped out of an airplane that wasn't already on the tarmac.

I've never been to Mississippi, South Carolina, or New Mexico.

I have eaten a metric ton of cabbage.

Hence the warmth in the barn...

 

[Bluespark]

Nor have I.
I will be in August when The Kid goes to college.

I think you will find that you like it.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Bluespark]

Even though G is here only weekends there is often some one else here weekdays and I have grown to hate it. I love my own space. I can take any amount of G but I love, love, love time with just me. I'm reasonable company I have lots to read, there is always music to listen to ( though not necessarily what I want to listen to at the time) and the radio. There is always something to do and I even catch my self chatting to myself and I laugh a lot. I LOVE my time alone and guard if preciously. I cannot actually remember if I have ever lived alone; I think maybe not. But if anything happened to G ? Please let it not, I probably would for ever, so it's just as well that would be my preferred option!

The thing about being on your own is that it can give you a chance to meet a very interesting person and find out how much you love and care for that person.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Bluespark]

Oh I have learnt I can love other people. I just am not sure I'd commit to one again. G is special like that . The other people I could love are differently special to me. I'd never, ever, ever leave G. But if I had no choice then I think it would be interesting to be properly alone with a little home of all my own that I actually live in not pass through and keep stuff in. .

Up until recently I presumed I would not have relationships again, but I now think that's not the case and I'd be open to some people but I don't know if I would be wanting to let anyone into my domestic situation again. I'd also probably get a place with NO spare room A tiny little house just for me.

I meant being alone is a good way to find yourself. Guess I was being too obscure.

 

[Blue]

Oh I have learnt I can love other people. I just am not sure I'd commit to one again. G is special like that . The other people I could love are differently special to me. I'd never, ever, ever leave G. But if I had no choice then I think it would be interesting to be properly alone with a little home of all my own that I actually live in not pass through and keep stuff in. .

Up until recently I presumed I would not have relationships again, but I now think that's not the case and I'd be open to some people but I don't know if I would be wanting to let anyone into my domestic situation again. I'd also probably get a place with NO spare room A tiny little house just for me.

I still have your nest. Converting that into a one-bedroom house would probably save a lot on mortgage.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Bluespark]

Oops, sorry!

Take care of it, though I hope I do not need it. He seems hale and hearty

It's OK. I speak in riddles sometimes.
I like what you said. So it all works.

 

[JagMan777]

I have never been with 2 women at the same time..... need to rectify that soon!

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Farawyn]

I have never been with 2 women at the same time..... need to rectify that soon!

Ime it's overrated that way round. But I am not bi.

I've been with 2 men and it sucked.

I've never kissed a girl.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[_Necrosomantic_]

Please don't quote I might delete this

I don't know that I ever really considered the labels much. What originally began as attempts to flesh out and understand the physical forms of expression/preferences I had, ended becoming like most things practiced in excess. A crutch. Covering for something. So I couldn't say if I thought of myself as anything other than straight, even when I wasn't practicing it. As for multiple partners, that's never meant anything other than a thrill to me, ego, fleeting. Not my thing.

But luckily, I'm hyper aware now of what I like, want, am, so it was all worth it for the most part. I regret nothing other than the time I wasted at certain points.

I've never been to Iceland, I'd like to though.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[midwestyankee]

Hence the warmth in the barn...

This made me laugh, but I'm pretty sure there's a more likely source.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[cookiecat]

I've never jumped out of an airplane that wasn't already on the tarmac.

I've never been to Mississippi, South Carolina, or New Mexico.

I have eaten a metric ton of cabbage.

Am I alone in my non-cabbage eating ways?

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[cookiecat]

Even though G is here only weekends there is often some one else here weekdays and I have grown to hate it. I love my own space. I can take any amount of G but I love, love, love time with just me. I'm reasonable company I have lots to read, there is always music to listen to ( though not necessarily what I want to listen to at the time) and the radio. There is always something to do and I even catch my self chatting to myself and I laugh a lot. I LOVE my time alone and guard if preciously. I cannot actually remember if I have ever lived alone; I think maybe not. But if anything happened to G ? Please let it not, I probably would for ever, so it's just as well that would be my preferred option!

I'm more of an alone person than a together person. I've been alone / single more than I've been paired up. It was hard for me to get all tangled up with someone else. I've only been with Mr. cookie for 4 years, but he's been a patient, kind person to mesh a life with.

 

[cookiecat]

Just try some colslaw

It looks very unappealing.

My raccoon dog is staring at me. A walk seems in order.

 

[Blue]

I can't see myself ever 'settling down'. Mainly because I can hardly take care of myself + a cat so how would I juggle an entire extra human on top of that??
I'd just end up forgetting to feed one of them and end up in trouble with the relevant animal welfare agency...

 

[midwestyankee]

Am I alone in my non-cabbage eating ways?

Perhaps it would feel better if you considered yourself to be in rare company? In the United States, prepared coleslaw is a $3.3Billion business. Worldwide, about 70.1 metric tons of cabbage are produced each year, only about 1 million of that in the United States. And yet, you might take comfort in knowing that the Chick-Fil-A chain recently dropped coleslaw from its menu in favor of more healthy-appearing items, such as a kale salad.

 

[cookiecat]

I have never been with 2 women at the same time..... need to rectify that soon!

I'm unclear why two is better. It's just more junk to mess with. As I typed that, I guess that's the appeal...

I've had threesomes, foursomes, moresomes. Frankly, I prefer onesomes. Well - I guess that's a twosome. I'd rather spend my time, energy, focus on one person. Some of the threesomes were organized and orchestrated. Those lacked something. Energy? It was more of a performance, I guess. The organic, spontaneous group things were more fun. I did tend to get all twisted up in the logistics of what went where, who was doing what and that was a drag. If you get the opportunity, remember to relax.

I don't know that I ever really considered the labels much. What originally began as attempts to flesh out and understand the physical forms of expression/preferences I had, ended becoming like most things practiced in excess. A crutch. Covering for something. So I couldn't say if I thought of myself as anything other than straight, even when I wasn't practicing it. As for multiple partners, that's never meant anything other than a thrill to me, ego, fleeting. Not my thing.

But luckily, I'm hyper aware now of what I like, want, am, so it was all worth it for the most part. I regret nothing other than the time I wasted at certain points.

I've never been to Iceland, I'd like to though.

What you say about it being fleeting and ego is right on. I was with someone who wanted this fantasy for so long, it's like he chased that instead of enjoying me/us.

I will say I did (do) get turned on by guys who are more gender fluid. Who don't get all freaked out by looking at or having another hard cock in the room. When I've been with people where guys kissed guys as an expression of being comfortable with the sex that was happening, it was magic. It wasn't labeled.

Iceland's on my bucket list!!!