The New Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

[BiBunny]

Tiny in Different parts of the world means different things. In some cities little bed sitting room apartments sell for $£€. The crazy ones that are twelve feet by six feet but over quarter of a million in central addresses, often in some old cupboard of what was serviced apartments....and now isn't. G and I stayed in some really nice ( slightly bigger) one room apartments on longer buisness trips on the past and have been offered them with jobs we both went to, but.....not fair on the cats. If young and animal free I might have done life differently and done that. Claustrophic though if you are unwell and trapped at home, or work from home.

I think smaller places are harder to keep tidy. Unless you have too much junk like w do . And I really do mean junk. I am a bit frustrated that we have two extra basins and a broken woodburner in the lobby. I cannot lift them, but they have been there for a year . I am succeeding in not nagging.

That's true. My place is a two-bedroom apartment, so it's hardly minuscule or anything. It's just smaller than the other two-bedrooms that I've lived in.

And, lord, you're right about trying to keep it clean. I'm not a particularly exacting housekeeper to start with, and I own more junk than one person should ever, ever need. I feel like I'm always trying to hold back a flood when I attempt to clean and/or tidy.

Also, I am never mentioning my stupid air-conditioner again because it started giving me trouble again last night.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[BiBunny]

Oh poor hot bunny. I'm sorry for talking about heating.

It's ok! I obviously just jinxed myself. That's what I get for not keeping my mouth shut.

What is that cube people play with, where you try to sort the colours on the the right side.......that's what cluttered house cleaning is called. R......cube cleaning. I just cannot remember name of cube.

Rubix cube, maybe? That's probably the best description I've ever heard of that kind of cleaning!

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[desertslave]

My daughter's first place in Chicago was tiny. A compact bathroom, a kitchen with a tiny dishwasher (I swear I've seen bigger ones in RV's), a "walk-in closet" that could only be called so if one came at it crab-like, and a single 12x10 room. She HAD to have her queen-size bed from my mom's, but it completely dominated the room.

Then she moved. The rooms are larger, there's a separate kitchen and a real walk-in closet (I think a full-size bed would fit cozily in there), and separate bath. But the layout of the main room is such that, again, her bed is awkward. I suggested she sell it and get a daybed. Good thing she dances, she's great at side-stepping!

Oh, funny note on the little dishwasher. For 3 months she thought it was broken and put in service calls. Someone FINALLY bothered to tell her that it turned on with the mystery light switch by the front door.

 

[cfuhrer]

I don't have the best track record with public K-12 teachers. I had hoped to buck that trend with my son's pre-school teacher. I tired to keep an open mind and not let my past experiences color my perception going forward.

Nope.

I have left every interaction with her, beyond simple greetings, feeling disregarded and talked down to like some sort of idiot.

Luckily I have three days to get my shit together and hopefully approach Monday as a fresh start and try again... again.

 

[Aluris]

The weather has finally started to cool down here; although, I say that, but it'll rush back up next week just to prove me wrong. Autumn is my favourite season but it's very indecisive to say the least.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[desertslave]

They have gone, they have gone......they are in a barn now, not the lobby!!!

Its so exciting.

We only have one unplumbed in basin in the house, waiting in place where it will one day be plumbed in... It looks almost.....like a normal house.

Yay for more space! How big is the barn?

We spent an hour on the pantry today (and an hour a few days ago) and declared it 90% done. There is one more shelf I ought to tackle, but it's all baking goods and I know what's there. I need to do some serious baking this fall, just to get stuff gone.

But it looks GOOD now, and the arrangement makes sense again. This excites me, as does Master being pleased instead of grumpy. It is so nice to be back to working on these projects again.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[MeekMe]

So exhausted... (( _ _ ))..zzzZZ

We planned for an early morning meeting with a family member. Mister suggested she call when she arrived so we wouldn't wake up to door knocking. Well, she called...
(｡-_-｡) Mister kept his phone silenced and so he didn't answer. When he didn't answer she called my phone, that happened to have the ringer up all the way and was very close to my head. After only two hours of sleep I bolted up right and answered on autopilot. My mind was in panic mode so I was preparing to jump up to do damage control.

So tired...

 

[desertslave]

The barn we have full of junk? Hmm ( tries to think in feet of a space usually thought of in metres and reassess..) ...about two hundreds feet long . But not wide. It has some other people's junk in too. A. Friend who left her husband in a hurry, a relative of mine......, anout sixty trees worth of firewood.....but, er, yeah......lots of junk. Everytime one of us cannot resolve to throw something away it goes to the barn 'for now' which would be ok, but junk keeps ending up in other barns too....which are not spaces for junk. .

Hehe, it's okay, I'm pretty conversant with metric.

Once, many years ago, my ex and I looked at a house for sale which was really a "farmette." The property was long but narrow, but it had a proper barn, a tool/tractor shed, and a chicken coop. Oh how I wanted it! My mom took one look at it and said, "well that's a junk magnet." Sadly, it wasn't to be mine. The roof of the actual farmhouse was in horrid shape and daylight could be seen all along the ridgeline in the attic.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[desertslave]

You mean, most rooves do not have daylight? . That's what buckets are for...plenty on farmettes. I like that new word , that's what we have, farmette.

And yeah, barns collect junk. We have a couple of barns, old and new.

Today I absentmindedly looked at a horse sale adverts to see if maybe I would buy a couple of horses to drive. I am not keen on driving, I do not feel safe like when riding, but its something I might consider at this stage in my life. I saw a nice boy.

I think it makes more sense to buy the carriage first but I do not know enough about driving. I'd have to find someone to help. I'd want something I could drive year round, with a hood, but things like American doctors buggies are hard to find here. In UK its often travellers who drive, it has bad bad reputation for welfare often.

But I could do 80 % of my stuff my horse and carriage I think, if my carriage had lights

I grew up near Pennsylvania's Amish country, with many horse & buggy combinations on the roads. Lights and bright markings are a safety essential.

I've always loved the idea of having a pretty gypsy wagon for meandering. With, of course, a gorgeous Gypsy Vanner horse for pulling (and maybe riding?).

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

So exhausted... (( _ _ ))..zzzZZ

We planned for an early morning meeting with a family member. Mister suggested she call when she arrived so we wouldn't wake up to door knocking. Well, she called...
(｡-_-｡) Mister kept his phone silenced and so he didn't answer. When he didn't answer she called my phone, that happened to have the ringer up all the way and was very close to my head. After only two hours of sleep I bolted up right and answered on autopilot. My mind was in panic mode so I was preparing to jump up to do damage control.

So tired...

When I got my first stressful job we got so busy one day that I answered the phone ...
"Thank you for calling XXX, can you help me?"
Naturally it was another employee calling in, one that never let me hear the end of it..
Hope your meet up wasn't so bad

 

[MeekMe]

When I got my first stressful job we got so busy one day that I answered the phone ...
"Thank you for calling XXX, can you help me?"
Naturally it was another employee calling in, one that never let me hear the end of it..
Hope your meet up wasn't so bad

Lol, that's great. I used to have nightmares about working alone with a never ending line of angry clients. It seemed to be a common nightmare among coworkers, too. (´･_･`)

The meet was fine. We all went to breakfast and talked. Mister and I both wanted specific things and the restaurant he chose had neither, I'm thinking we'll have to do this again to correct that.

 

[the captians wench]

WTF is wrong with people?

Seriously!

Like, I can only send a message if we match, I send a message to start a conversation. You said you're working on building a forge, that's cool, what are you going to use it for?

"Heat metal"

(inside voice)Well no shit asshole.

My reply was even snottier. Was in a pissy mood when he sent the message.

His next message was just as sarcastic.

Turning it off. Fetching a whiskey. I'm done with today.

 

[desertslave]

WTF is wrong with people?

Seriously!

Like, I can only send a message if we match, I send a message to start a conversation. You said you're working on building a forge, that's cool, what are you going to use it for?

"Heat metal"

(inside voice)Well no shit asshole.

My reply was even snottier. Was in a pissy mood when he sent the message.

His next message was just as sarcastic.

Turning it off. Fetching a whiskey. I'm done with today.

Maybe you have compatible snark?

In all fairness, having some odd hobbies of my own and having to explain to people with all levels of (in)experience, he might not have meant it to be sarcastic? Just a gentle thought.

 

[the captians wench]

Maybe you have compatible snark?

In all fairness, having some odd hobbies of my own and having to explain to people with all levels of (in)experience, he might not have meant it to be sarcastic? Just a gentle thought.

Yeah. I think now it might have just been bad timing. I was in a pissy mood before the message. I've been waiting on an order of corset busks to come in, and was excited to see that they finally had, only to open the package and find that only half of the order was included. And this is the second time this supplier has done this exact same mistake to me.

I mentioned the conversation in its entirety to a friend, and his response was "you are in a pissy mood"

But I think I'm going to let this one fade off into the night.

 

[cfuhrer]

I don't know why but I am very amused by the Craigslist listing for church pews in Las Vegas.

 

[cfuhrer]

I bought two mock exams.
One is the full eight hour exam and the other is the four hour partial exam.
Both mock exams are the same.

That helps me - not at all.

 

[the captians wench]

That moment in the conversation when you realize there is no getting out of the next message containing a dick pic.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Tomorrow i get my part time house guest back after over a month with out. It was inevitable, but I know I will feel frustrated about sharing my home for some days having felt so free on my alone days.

I think you should invent a crisis that will require them to spend at least half a day in the priest hole