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I know we won't make to next week :(.

Aaww, another time :rose:

I will be ;-)
Mega tired. Did a new market run by Torture Garden, yesterday. Sooooo much latex!!

Will probably be heading to the doctor soon, I have had a raft of stuff going on, but looking at the symptoms as a whole, I would hazard a guess that I am perimenopausal. :-( need to get blood tests to confirm, but let me just scream "Bollocks! " from the rooftops.

Been working with a lovely young man, helping him set up a whip making business. He is very talented and enthusiastic, so I have commissioned a few whips from him to sell at the markets. So if anyone wants a whip, come and see his work.
I won't be at BBB this month, I need some time off to spend time with the kids, and the last couple of one's have been really hard work. Back in March.

Oh Daisy, will be lovely to see you again!
Sorry to hear you have lots of health stuff going on. Sometimes the not knowing is harder than once you have a diagnosis.

Oooo, whips :) Not that I want to experience one, but the idea, mmm.
 
Lucybee, missed some days in the middle but caught the Devi Ward talk which I really liked, yesterday, and plan to listen to at least one of today's tomorrow morning.

I'm so glad you shared the information. If you hear of similar in the future I would be interested again!

Hey Elle, my pleasure :)
I have listened to about 7 talks, but missed the one you refer to. I have got something out of all of them. I really liked Karen BK Chan's talk.

Looking forward to LAM tomorrow.
 
I missed that one. Caught the Reid one on its bonus replay, yeah, he was great, I can see why he was popular. :).


I will say there was a heavy emphasis on poly or outside relationship source as a possible solution. For G this was frustrating especially as he knows in a different scenario it would be an option I would consider. As a strict monogamist and something we committed to in our relationship and that I am allowed to explore in fantasy only (and to be clear something in my current physicalty and emotional state I think is all I could face) I think he felt a bit like he had it being thrust on him at all angles this week. :eek:.

I think it was BK Chan who talked about creating something resonant within an existing relationship. The example she gave was a couple, who, once a month, would dress up as out of towners, both drive separately to a cafe in the next town over and pretend to be strangers. Their eyes would meet from across the room and keeping within character, they would proceed to pick each other up, eventually suggesting they find a hotel and carrying on the role play there. I tought that was cool.

But yes, I can see that must have felt a bit frustrating. I guess I am exploring poly possibilities, seeing what I and Master are both comfortable with.
 
We are both really happy in our relationship, but I also do not feel shame about the shape of some of my previous relationships. I feel sad, and yes, regret, that perhaps some were not healthy but not that they were not monogamous. G is fine with my past shape of relationships, but I can also understand there are times when it feels that it feels life reaches a crescendo, if my fantasising ( which I share openly with him) is not just him and if the relationship advice includes a strong go outside of the relationship suggestion, it can be a tough time to be a monogamist. :). He is assured he is my everything. Without him, the me I am now would not be a sexual being at all, i feel utterly loved and in love with him....and fully aware that my fantasy is one that if played out I couldn't cope with now. But....that's the pleasure of fantasy!

Ah, Elle, that's beautiful :rose::heart:

I had my first public play (a flogging!) at the LAM afterparty last night. I was so excited and nervous. But it was great fun. I am writing up an account of it I will post on Fetlife. A really nice sadist (yes really) friend obliged me :) I have souvenirs on my thighs today ;)

Daisy - sorry we completely missed you. We arrived rather late to the market and Master had a shopping list to get through :eek:

Mindfondler - was great to bump into you and your wife. Glad you had a good shopping day at LAM. One day do stay for the afterparty, I am sure you would enjoy it.

Think I am coming down with a cold. Got that annoying tickling in the throat. Some ginger tea I think...
 
It sounds wonderful! I'm kind of proud of you lucybee! And a little envious!

And really impressed I remembered the password for fetlife, and amused to find out someone wants to hook up with us/me in lewisham. From a totally blank unused profile so far as I know, that's pretty ..........impressive.

Hope you get to a LAM one day and we finally meet :)

Gosh, been quiet here. I am just chilling after a little workout on the bike whilst singing along very loudly to Queen. :D

A hard week at work awaits, but then I have a holiday. Yey! :nana:
 
G and I have been to LAM, :). just on a day you couldn't make it. :(. We met cutie Belle and Mindfondler and his wife. :).

We definitely want to come back though and on a day you and I can meet! :rose: I don't see it happening for the next couple of months but hopefully after that I will feel more energetic again. :).

Helloooooooo! :heart:
 
Never been in here before! Was looking for the lovely Elle.

Hi Fata, welcome aboard. She's usually around hereabouts, and normally shows up when there's any activity. We're a friendly lot over here, and discussion can vary from the weather, to floggers, to bacon sandwiches, to electroplay, depending on how the mood takes us and who's on at the time :D
 
Hi Fata, welcome aboard. She's usually around hereabouts, and normally shows up when there's any activity. We're a friendly lot over here, and discussion can vary from the weather, to floggers, to bacon sandwiches, to electroplay, depending on how the mood takes us and who's on at the time :D

Good morning, SV!
So, this is where I should have come for information on floggers, for a story, you know? :rolleyes:
Hope your day is marvelous! :kiss:
 
Good morning, SV!
So, this is where I should have come for information on floggers, for a story, you know? :rolleyes:
Hope your day is marvelous! :kiss:

Hi BFG, sun is out now, and things are pretty good thanks. Hope all's well with you :kiss:

And yes, this is the place to come for all things flogger; Sweetdaisymae makes them for a living, and is far more knowledgeable than I :eek:. Although I will, of course, offer any help that I can :D

Promise to catch up properly soon :kiss:
 
You found me! :

You are back here! With the right name, :

Welcome, you will find a lot less humiliation, whipping, spanking, forced gender confusion etc than you are used to in here.....we operate pretty much by consent in this room. :D.

page and I have met a couple of people in here ( if there remains any doubt we are real, maybe mindfondler or Daisy or Mal might admit to having met us :D)


How does it feel in BDSM? In this little thread we are more likely to talk about bacon sandwiches. :D. In the cafe we have a food/ cooking thread, and there is a cheese thread, :).in collar's frivolity there are LOTS of cats. :)

Well I've just peaked in to say hi to you really. I can't post anything on bdsm but I might on the cats, cheese and bacon sandwiches!

Thanks for the welcome strange view. :)
 
How does it feel in BDSM? In this little thread we are more likely to talk about bacon sandwiches. :D. In the cafe we have a food/ cooking thread, and there is a cheese thread, :).in collar's frivolity there are LOTS of cats. :)

That does sound very welcoming. I have lots of birds.... well, they live outdoors on the deck.
And hello yourself!
 
Hello! Been out Again? ( ukers.....you don't mind visitors I hope?). Did you sing a buttercup yet? :D

What kind of birds? I've been trying to get pictures of 'our' birds of prey for Desertslave but they are hard to get, they come over quite often, and sit in the hedges, or increasingly in a tree in the garden, because after the terrier has 'found' I throw his catches on to a barn roof for them. Sometimes they'll swoop as I throw.

We don't have many colourful birds, a few tits, bullfinches, robins, wagtails, that's as bright as it gets here. Otherwise dear tiny little hedge sparrows, now rare. :(. Starlings, who I love despite their damage because the way they make the world stop and start. Gradually we get more corvids, I like them. Lots of wood pigeons. Oh, we have swallows living here too.

I love visitors!
Your birds sound interesting. Not much colorful this time of year in the forest-- but we have armies of chickadees right outside the window at the feeder. And woodpeckers. Red-bellied woodpeckers, and occasionally the crow-sized pileated woodpecker.

We have fresh snow and I've been out-- but not to where I want to go yet. I whistled "Buttercup" and thought of you!
 
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