KoPilot
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And that's about the best explanation I've ever seen of it.
Thanks, everyone. Y'all for real did make me feel better.![]()
Yay, glad it helped!
You might be interested in reading up on some "relationship anarchist" perspectives too.
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So, wow, jesus christ the past few days have been absolutely nuts.
Yes I came out to my mom about being trans, and she was completely accepting. I told her that I didn't want any way that she treated me to change at all (so far, I may feel differently later) so I think that helped. It was basically like "ok that's cool, can we go get some beer now?"
S and I also came to the realization that we might benefit from opening up our relationship a wee bit. I gave him my enthusiastic blessing on finding a camgirl he jives with on My Girl Fund, much to my own surprise. I guess I figured out that I'd rather have him interacting with a real person than just watching vids all the time. Especially if she's nice and understands his situation.
Asked him how he'd feel if I got to have an equivalent opening up, and he wasn't so keen on it. Said I could bottom for women if I wanted to, but that he'd want to be present if it were a guy. (Present and, probably, learning from him too lol.) I summarily discovered how much I liked the idea of both him AND an experienced D going at me together. Non-sexually for the D of course.

But yeah, sez he'd like to call the shots when it came to my extramarital relations. I am 100% ok with this.
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