Todger65
Usually Horny
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Well what a find this thread is.
I have had a rounded tummy since I was a little girl and as such it has been a cause of constant concern to me as I've always felt it to be unattractive. I have had plenty of lovers and not one of them has been derogatory, but my lack of self worth over it has lasted all my life.
About 12 years ago I went through extreme dieting and exercise. I lost over 2 stone. My entire body shrunk...but all I saw was a fat tummy. I look back now at photos and see that wasn't the case...My then tiny daughter once hugged me and said 'mummy you're all hard and not cuddly now. Out of the mouthes of babes...
I've had two sections, and now with menopause and that I've put on some weight. I feel even worse about it. But my wonderful husband said if I was double my weight now I'd still be me, he would still love me. My kids say I'm just an average woman.
Oddly enough, I love curvy people. My husband is squishy (Not fat, he runs, he's just normal), and as a bisexual I much prefer curvy women. I love big tits and round cuddly bodies. I just don't see how anyone could find that attractive on me.
We have swung, and at swingers clubs I strut around confidently. I feel sexy and empowered, when I'm naked and being licked out or fucked I don't feel disgusting. My husband says it is the sexiest thing when I am confident in my own skin.
I've posted a pic of a night when we swung. This is me with another woman, our husband's watched, so turned on. I walked naked round their house, not even considering what I think of as my disgusting tummy. I was just sexual.
So this is how I look when I'm getting off with another woman. How do I look?
You should listen to your daughter. Kids generally telll the truth. Cuddly is good. I much prefer to cuddle up to someone like you than have bones diggingbin me.
You are absolutely gorgeous.