Nzerxx
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https://www.scarymommy.com/caitriona-balfe-outlander-stomach-photo-viral/
'Not pregnant. Not flat. Not your business.'
While i agree with what they're saying, i like to put a positive spin on things when i can. Lately I've taken to looking at myself in the mirror and declaring, 'Bombshell, baby!' Because i need to feel beautiful, and we are our own best advocates.
Whether i was ever smaller in the past (i was), or will be in the future (who knows?), this body is who i am now. Right now. I want to own it as much as i can, love it as much as i can, determine to see the beauty in it as much as i can, exactly how it is, right now.
I've stopped taking pictures of myself, mostly. I should probably change that. Whether i choose to share them here or not, it's good for me to feel photo worthy. And more than that, to feel love worthy, success worthy, partner worthy, happiness worthy. I don't feel that way most days, but maybe if start saying it more often, and with more conviction, maybe if i start behaving in ways that back that up, those words will find a little crack in my hard head and start to seep in and become my truth.
Here's to all you bombshells out there. You are worthy. ❤
Thank you Honey, I totally respect you and what you have done in this thread, and although I have not been brave enough to post, I have been reading watching and thinking and just have to let you know it has had a positive effect on me and it has made a difference. (although I still have a way to go....)
Thank you so much
Bombshell baby!