Also, would like to tell him to go down on me. I know he doesn't like doing it, but dammit I need it sometimes!
I can understand where you're coming from (no pun intended) I love going down, and I know she's good at it, but it's getting to be a lost art, she doesn't hesitate about grabbing me by the ears, or hair and telling me what a good job I'm doin', but in 40 plus years of marriage, and six years of great pre marital sex I can count on my fingers the times she's given me great head, and on one hand how many times she's let me cum n her mouth, even though most times we have sex, she gets hers off orally before I get to start, and for the past couple of years if I take more than a few minutes I'm stopped, and we used to have 30, to 45 minute marathons of straight sex after 69, or me doing her to her first orgasm. This getting older is not fun at all, she spoiled me with a very active sex life, and now sex is something to argue about. Any ideas?
I'd love to tell her that sex is not just me jumping on and getting off. I need to have some romance, and really miss the long petting sessions, lately I just miss it all, once every two or three months isn't enough for any living man, especially after she got me used to two or three times a week as normal.
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