Things you want to say to your significant other but won't

Also, would like to tell him to go down on me. I know he doesn't like doing it, but dammit I need it sometimes!

I can understand where you're coming from (no pun intended) I love going down, and I know she's good at it, but it's getting to be a lost art, she doesn't hesitate about grabbing me by the ears, or hair and telling me what a good job I'm doin', but in 40 plus years of marriage, and six years of great pre marital sex I can count on my fingers the times she's given me great head, and on one hand how many times she's let me cum n her mouth, even though most times we have sex, she gets hers off orally before I get to start, and for the past couple of years if I take more than a few minutes I'm stopped, and we used to have 30, to 45 minute marathons of straight sex after 69, or me doing her to her first orgasm. This getting older is not fun at all, she spoiled me with a very active sex life, and now sex is something to argue about. Any ideas?

I'd love to tell her that sex is not just me jumping on and getting off. I need to have some romance, and really miss the long petting sessions, lately I just miss it all, once every two or three months isn't enough for any living man, especially after she got me used to two or three times a week as normal.
 
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I want to tell her that her sexual repression is killing me. There's so much more fun we could be having if she would just open her mind a little. We've been stuck in the same pattern for 20 years and I'm often left wondering what could have been. I love her dearly, but her rigid views on sexuality leave me with an empty feeling.
 
I want to be honest, tell her that although I understand the cocktail of medication she's on affect her mood & libido...I'm not OK with the drought we're having again.

We spent a month fucking like rabbits, kinks explored too. Now we're back to "you have a hand, do it when I'm not about"

She's gorgeous, I just want to get her naked and let our inhibition fly. Not be having "stealth wanks" when she's asleep or out, so it doesn't offend her.
 
I want to be happy... I want a baby... I want to get married... I want to be in love, and not hate myself.
I can do this with you...
 
I had sex with at least 50 men before we got married and I've cheated on you many times... but I love you, I really do. I can't tell you about it but I can't help myself either. I have to have other men. Don't worry about it baby... no one will ever find out. I'm very discreet.

I have sort of the same problem...she thinks that she's still the only women I've slept with. I can't tell her that I've been with 15 women in the past ten years. And, those were mostly just so that I could have something for ME.

SG
 
i love how you treat me like a queen but god dammit fuck me like there's no tomorrow and go down the right way. I can't last on quickies and giving you fast blowjobs every time. and fucking on public places gets old.
 
I love you and you're an amazing mother, I will never leave you...but I need more. I need passion, I need to feel desired, I too have needs and desires...butnyoure too focused on yourself to recognize that. So I will co tjnue to stand by you, bored and unfulfilled, just to make you happy.
 
Dear ex SO....If only you could have turned me on and made me cum like he does with words... imagine how wet that bed would have been. :rolleyes:
 
Stop bitching about the time we had anal drunk. I'll be much gentler this time.
 
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I had sex with at least 50 men before we got married and I've cheated on you many times... but I love you, I really do. I can't tell you about it but I can't help myself either. I have to have other men. Don't worry about it baby... no one will ever find out. I'm very discreet.

Wow! Exactly what I would want to hear. If my wife were to make that confession there would be another man in our bed later that night!
 
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