Thoughts on spanking?

[beingtrue2me]

My partner likes spanking, but not as hard as I love to give it. It's hard to restrain myself once we get going...

Really? Most guys stop when the tears start to show in our eyes. Few get it that, that's when some of us really start to enjoy it.

 

[Asian_Flower]

Not to hard please!

 

[basic_desires]

Aren't we all? I mean to define a whore in my mind means someone that gives themselves in exchange for something from someone. Who here doesn't do that? Does it have to be sexual? Can't we whore ourselves for a promotion, or maybe a new pair of boots? Yup done both. Ok we'll keep it sexual then cause I doubt too many dudes want to talk about boots. Truth is I sometimes like playing the whore. And yes I like being spanked. Hard sometimes. Guys usually stop at the first sign of me acknowledging the pain. *sigh*

Dudes don't want to talk about boots? It depends....puss in boots holds interest for me...

 

[RawHumor]

I'm guessing my stance on this issue is pretty clear.

 

[beingtrue2me]

Dudes don't want to talk about boots? It depends....puss in boots holds interest for me...

My puss can be between my boots but IN my boots?

 

[ShyMaleSub]

What about ladies spanking men?

 

[TheProprietress]

Truth is I sometimes like playing the whore. And yes I like being spanked. Hard sometimes. Guys usually stop at the first sign of me acknowledging the pain. *sigh*

I've had the same issue in the past. They either stopped at first wince or reduced spanking to a few light love taps....

Boring.

I am a female. I am not a porcelain doll. Not every woman has a tolerance for pain, some women have super sensitive bottoms, but that is not me. I am content with having pink cheeks and feeling my ass burn....slightly flushed and glowing from a thorough, proper spank....

So, my feeling is, if someone is going to spank me, be man or woman, they better put some balls into it! Be stern with how I'm positioned, make my ass anticipate the wait, then make it blush!

Oh, and foreplay....with a little detail added to the scene....I like spanking foreplay....a lot.

 

[victoria_cummings]

Love it a lot, the feeling of hand against my skin causing me to jump a bit, love every minute of it

 

[FGB]

First let me say that ANYTHING that makes a woman's pussy drip hot juices gives me a raging hard on!

I also like restraining them.

Hand, belt, paddle or even a Cane.

I remember on woman ..middle eastern decent that gave me free run of her "Toy Box"

I had her hands cuffed together above her head and chained to the headboard.

She had a spread bar that worked well ankle to ankle restraining her feet.

I was a little hesitant at first having never used a flogger. This one was leather small stranded made out of a tapered whip purchased at a feed store, cut down form six feet and unbraided until about four inches from the handle. I guess the over all length was about thirty inches.

I worked over both sides. I was being too gentle at first, unsure of how much force to use. With her cries of OH, God...yes harder please! to urge me on I went from her hair line on her neck to her toes and back until she was nice and red.
My arm was getting tired, I had a hell of a hard on there was a giant wet spot in her bed.

At this point she wanted some Dick Bad!

But I made her wait dragging the flogger over her tits, belly and legs occasionally giving her a light lash until I had my breathing under control again.

I went to the hassle of getting her on her knees before sinking myself into her and giving her ass a swat with my hand from time to time.

That woman came quit bit and often. Got me some ass too!

Damn, I slept good that night!

What were we talking about?

 

[CBHunter]

Love laying a bare-bottomed woman over my lap and watching my red handprints spread over that bottom as I slap it over and over. Varying the location and pressure so she doesn't know what to expect next. Pushing her to the point where she's not sure whether to beg for more or beg me to stop.

 

[fma20fma]

hi

Spanking is rather dull and slow.i like the thin rattan, long and flexible type, delivering sharp stings to motivate for voluntary submission to anal immediately . my ex bf was crazy to do it always..after caning

 

[KinkyKeira90]

mmmm i love my having my plump little ass spanked

 

[MasterM13]

Like it / hate it? Giving or receiving.

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I'm not much for reciveing spankings, but I do love giving them. What I love about them is that you can change and control what kind of spanking you're doing depending on the person and the situation. For instance, a gentleman could be with a woman who likes light spankings while he pulls her hair. On the other end of the spectrum, it could be a Dom(me)/Sub relationship where the sub gets their ass beat so bad it turns black and blue.

Personally I like giving the spanking while I'm fucking a woman doggy style. There's just something about making her think that she's a bad girl while I'm fucking her like my life depends on it. I know lots of people use items like a brush, flog, or paddle, but I haven't had the pleasure of using them, unfortunately.

 

[Jenna2641]

The idea of receiving from a woman, a man, or a T-girl is very erotic.

 

[jackofthedawn]

I'm a male who learned to love being spanked by my dominant female partner. It really turns her on, and it almost always leads to great sex.

 

[Harold_Hill]

It is difficult to get a spanking right on the first try, sometimes even by the second or third session. Every woman, (or man), is different, and it takes time to learn what is not enough and what it too much. As with many things, communication is the key. Discuss the expectation beforehand, and critique the results afterwards. And adjust the reddness accordingly.

 

[kingkoll]

so much fun bending a girl over my lap and giving her ass a slap.especially if she is wearing a skirt and it starts to ride up her ass

 

[MissJW]

I'm growing quite fond of giving hubby dearest a good spanking every now and then... I've been slapping his dick almost as long as we've been together but it's only been during the past six months that I've began to understand the beauty of his ass cheeks glowing red hot He himself seems to think it's especially delicious when there's a plug involved, reminding both of us what a naughty and needy behind he's got!

 

[wildchild24143]

I'm growing quite fond of giving hubby dearest a good spanking every now and then... I've been slapping his dick almost as long as we've been together but it's only been during the past six months that I've began to understand the beauty of his ass cheeks glowing red hot He himself seems to think it's especially delicious when there's a plug involved, reminding both of us what a naughty and needy behind he's got!

Lucky guy

 

[greystardust]

Really? Most guys stop when the tears start to show in our eyes. Few get it that, that's when some of us really start to enjoy it.

advanced mind - if the understanding is there, this is hot

 

[Jenna2641]

I'm growing quite fond of giving hubby dearest a good spanking every now and then... I've been slapping his dick almost as long as we've been together but it's only been during the past six months that I've began to understand the beauty of his ass cheeks glowing red hot He himself seems to think it's especially delicious when there's a plug involved, reminding both of us what a naughty and needy behind he's got!

Lucky guy

I agree! Sounds like sweet torture!

 

[makelovetome]

I've never actually been spanked, but just the thought of having my bare ass stuck up in the air while someone else prepares to beat it for being naughty turns me on so much! I think it's just the vulnerability and not knowing what to expect that excites me and so many others.

 

[bluesky496]

Like it / hate it? Giving or receiving.

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i love receiving a nice spanking, i find it a very erotic experience .

 

[cryingalien]

i love receiving a nice spanking, i find it a very erotic experience .

I agree. Nothing like a good spanking while the level of intimacy is going higher, and higher.....

 

[Zorber]

Love it, both giving and receiving