Threesome Advice

[Mrlighthouse]

Best advice for a threesome, be the one in the middle....

So us make 2, you are in the middle... who's the 3rd?

 

[magic_rat]

Join Fabswingers. Make a female profile, you'll get way more interest.

Lay out exactly what you're looking for in your profile, and don't be afraid to be picky, you'll get plenty of offers. If anyone piques your interest, meet them for coffee somewhere neutral. Maybe 2 or 3 times if you want, you set the rules.

Through Fab find out where the socials are - usually a purely social meet and greet in a bar somewhere where you can mingle with like-minded people. You'll get to meet all kinds of intertesting folk without making any commitments. Even if you don't find Mr Right straight away, you'll make friends and grow your social circle.

Set your own ground rules, what you do and don't want from an encounter, what you expect from each other and a potential 3rd.

Be open and honest with each other. If you have fears or reservations, now isn't the time to be hiding them away.

When you do finally hook up and introduce a new person, have fun, stay within agreed boudaries (if you decide in the heat of the moment you want more, save it, discuss it later, and do it next time if you both agree).

And finally, what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. It's just extra-marital fun. Never make a drama out of it.

Have fun.

 

[magic_rat]

If you are looking for a single bisexual woman to join you as a couple, you will find that there are a LOT of men pretending to be women!

This is true - the elusive unicorn!

I met my current partner through Fab - we met for sex, she never went home! (Yeah, it was almost that quick). We've had the wildest adventures since. We were never looking for a unicorn, MMF and couples was our thing) but through social meets we made friends with a single lady swinger who now often joins either or both of us in bed. Life is good.

Personally, I wouldn't recommend a swinger club for meeting single women, but you may have some luck meeting couples. But then you are more likely to be invited to take part in a foursome than a threesome. But clubs are fun anyway, and worth a visit at least for the experience and to get to know some people in your local scene.

Clubs can be fun. Remember you don't have to do anything, the first time we went we didn't play, just absorbed the atmosphere and made some friends. You'll find (depending on the theme and the night) there will be mainly couples, very few if any single ladies, but usually a reasonable selection of single men. Treat it like a social situation, mingle and chat, only in this scenario chances are you'll get to watch others fucking too.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I say stick to sex toys. If your hubby is anything like mine, any involvement of a fifth wheel will be at his direction and bidding and under that sort of limitation might as well be a blow-up doll or a dildo.

My ex had worn ladies clothes for years. When they (male) decided to transition to her, she started in HRT.
When the male parts stopped working, I suggested an open marriage. Let me keep have sex by penetration, and she could explore her sexuality with someone who would appreciate it.

I was told I couldn't date. She would select and communicate with the candidate, set up boundaries, set up the meeting, and she wanted to participate.

That's not an open relationship. That's me being forced to be her sex slave.

We separated 4 yrs ago.
Left a 34 yr marriage.

 

[RipleNStllWtr]

My ex had worn ladies clothes for years. When they (male) decided to transition to her, she started in HRT.
When the male parts stopped working, I suggested an open marriage. Let me keep have sex by penetration, and she could explore her sexuality with someone who would appreciate it.

I was told I couldn't date. She would select and communicate with the candidate, set up boundaries, set up the meeting, and she wanted to participate.

That's not an open relationship. That's me being forced to be her sex slave.

We separated 4 yrs ago.
Left a 34 yr marriage

 

[curioustxn]

My ex had worn ladies clothes for years. When they (male) decided to transition to her, she started in HRT.
When the male parts stopped working, I suggested an open marriage. Let me keep have sex by penetration, and she could explore her sexuality with someone who would appreciate it.

I was told I couldn't date. She would select and communicate with the candidate, set up boundaries, set up the meeting, and she wanted to participate.

That's not an open relationship. That's me being forced to be her sex slave.

We separated 4 yrs ago.
Left a 34 yr marriage.

A wise decision! After you were accepting of your husband's needs, then for her to tell you that you could only have who she selected, you would have indeed been her sex slave. You deserve better!