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I often find myself asking that same question, but on this one I think I know where she's coming from.

It's mostly semantics: while most of us define racism simply as "prejudice based on race", there's a school of thought that factors power imbalances into the definition - "racism" involves a systematic pattern of oppression, so you can't be "racist" if you're not powerful enough to oppress somebody.

(IMHO, the latter is an important concept and ought to have a name of its own, but I'm not sure that attempting to co-opt "racism" for that purpose is likely to go anywhere productive.)

So when QV says she can't be racist, under that definition, not saying she isn't prejudiced. She's saying that as a black woman she isn't in a position of power where her prejudices can lead to oppression of others.

Still prejudiced, though.

That's gets as much a tilt from me as Vicki's statement. A black person can be just as racist against some other race (which Vicki's posts clearly show she is) as anyone of any other race can be against a black person.

So, the issue isn't about racism, it's about the pernicious thought that it can only be played against black people. Nuts to that.
 
I often find myself asking that same question, but on this one I think I know where she's coming from.

It's mostly semantics: while most of us define racism simply as "prejudice based on race", there's a school of thought that factors power imbalances into the definition - "racism" involves a systematic pattern of oppression, so you can't be "racist" if you're not powerful enough to oppress somebody.

(IMHO, the latter is an important concept and ought to have a name of its own, but I'm not sure that attempting to co-opt "racism" for that purpose is likely to go anywhere productive.)

So when QV says she can't be racist, under that definition, not saying she isn't prejudiced. She's saying that as a black woman she isn't in a position of power where her prejudices can lead to oppression of others.

Still prejudiced, though.


Thank You for being very smart. And I even mentioned that whack ass false definition was NOT true
 
This thread shows you to be clearly racist by any reasonable definition, Vicki. If you're really a black woman, then, ipso facto, black woman can be racist--because you clearly are--by your own posts to this thread.
 
there's a school of thought that factors power imbalances into the definition - "racism" involves a systematic pattern of oppression, so you can't be "racist" if you're not powerful enough to oppress somebody.

That's bullshit. That is just their way to justify their own racism. Oppression and racism are not synonymous.
 
Even if her definition of racism was correct, id say that the day obama was elected president was the day that her argument lost all of its legitimacy. I believe that the president and his wife have a bit of power.

Qv did you ever think that your problems dont stem from being a black woman, but are due to the fact that you're a miserable delusional prejudice whackjob?
 
That's says more about you being a shitty human being than me as a person. why would you knowingly be a homwrecker?Do you think that's shits funny?Just because I hate cheaters, and I believe any man who cheats on their wife(especially with a man) with anyone should be castrated, does not make me uptight. You know with you gay guys saying the things you wrote above helps reinforce the stereotype with you gays. The stereotype that all gay men want straight men,that they hate women,and that I should not be trusted around straight men since they are horny 24/7. Thanks for painting yourself in a stereotypical light, dear. Hmm, and you gay guys wonder why straight men do not want to befriend you. Hell,if I was a straight man I would avoid being friends with a gay man such as yourself.

P.S. I am manless.I have been that way for a long time now

I am bisexual not gay , I enjoy sucking cock and have become quite good at it. I like sucking married guys cocks who have not gotten a blowjob in a while, there's nothing like closing your lips around a guys cock who has not had that pleasure in a while and you hear him moan, I enjoy it.
 
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