Totally Turned Off

[niteshade]

Let me clarify, in my usual blunt manner.

Shave the pussy, please, I do.

Thank you for playing.

~anelize







*LMAO*

You mean there are savages out there who DON'T? Oh, NO, I am not getting near that pussy.

 

[yaspis]

Ugh. Non-shaved subbies. Gods. They should be at least neatly trimmed. Trimmed is way better than the back-to-the-bushes-look. People should get glasses if they think messy, tangly pubic hair dangling about their knees is nice or, Gods, appealing to the eye.

Dammit, it must be hot and unhygienic to have such a jungle down there. And then they have right to expect to som,eone look or feel them down there. I don't want have monkey bites on my hands.

Men and bushy pubic hair. Does the possession of that small, leaky toy give them any better right not to be neat? I didn't think so. Wildly growing hair near the crack of the ass is a definite turn-off. Anyone who shows up to me not neatly shaven/waxed is in for rough-handed treatment of warm wax and stripes... or they can just plock the hair out with tiny tweezers by themselves.. Either way, the grimacing on their faces makes something up for the ickiness..

Make them hop around the room with a piece of ginger up their asses, singing the chorus of "Bob the builder" or "True colors" and have them do ten push-ups on the floor between the repeatings of the chorus. That's at least going to put your mind away from the unpleasant things.

 

[yaspis]

Ugh. Non-shaved subbies. Gods. They should be at least neatly trimmed. Trimmed is way better than the back-to-the-bushes-look. People should get glasses if they think messy, tangly pubic hair dangling about their knees is nice or, Gods, appealing to the eye.

Dammit, it must be hot and unhygienic to have such a jungle down there. And then they have right to expect to som,eone look or feel them down there. I don't want have monkey bites on my hands.

Men and bushy pubic hair. Does the possession of that small, leaky toy give them any better right not to be neat? I didn't think so. Wildly growing hair near the crack of the ass is a definite turn-off. Anyone who shows up to me not neatly shaven/waxed is in for rough-handed treatment of warm wax and stripes... or they can just plock the hair out with tiny tweezers by themselves.. Either way, the grimacing on their faces makes something up for the ickiness..

Make them hop around the room with a piece of ginger up their asses, singing the chorus of "Bob the builder" or "True colors" and have them do ten push-ups on the floor between the repeatings of the chorus. That's at least going to put your mind away from the unpleasant things.

 

[Ebonyfire]

ok. I'll play. LOL.

I can't stand long hair on men, or those awful mullets (when will that haircut ever go away?!?!) I want that hair military short dammit!! *grin*

Long hair belongs on women. And THAT is where I enjoy it.

~anelize

Now see;

I like long hair on my subs.

I like short hair on my subs.

I like no hair on my subs.

It just depend on the sub, really.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Now see;

I like long hair on my subs.

I like short hair on my subs.

I like no hair on my subs.

It just depend on the sub, really.

I am just verrry happy He LIKES keeping His hair extremely short, since of course, being a sub, I am in no position to demand anything. *chuckle*

~anelize

 

[Croctden]

You mean there are savages out there who DON'T? Oh, NO, I am not getting near that pussy.

Actually I don't mind a racing stripe so long as it's not blonde.

 

[yaspis]

I have a racing stripe. It's sort of a compromise - Brazilian isn't just really me. But are there any better stress toys than shaved balls? Squeeze, squeeze, squeeze, 'till all that stress goes away..

 

[Zaudika]

For some people in the heat of the moment, or in the right situation.. they like it... I personally will get immediately turned off, and out of subspace from an insult.

I'm not talking about being told I'm bad, or that I didn't do something correctly, or something that might be said during a punishment.

I'm talking about a flat out degrading insult. And unforunately have come across a couple people who tried using it as a tactic with me.

 

[FungiUg]

I'm not good with insults either. I take them too personally, so I'd find it hard to deliver them. Unless it's in a tone of voice that makes it obvious that I don't mean the insult.

 

[Ebonyfire]

I'm not good with insults either. I take them too personally, so I'd find it hard to deliver them. Unless it's in a tone of voice that makes it obvious that I don't mean the insult.

I am very good with insults. my little worm boys know they deserve it.

 

[DVS]

I am very good with insults. my little worm boys know they deserve it.

I don't DO insults, I DO torments. And, I guess some of my torments could be seen as insults to some. Oh, well. I still get my way, whatever...

 

[FungiUg]

I do filthy language though. And I love calling a submissive a "slut". I suppose that could be viewed as an insult, even though I still respect her in the morning!

 

[Ebonyfire]

I do filthy language though. And I love calling a submissive a "slut". I suppose that could be viewed as an insult, even though I still respect her in the morning!

Since when did slut become filthy language?

I can do a lot better than that. one of my subs is named punk assed bitch or punk for short.

 

[LovingDaddy]

Online I'm Totally Turned Off by so called submissives who question my being a "real dom" because I am artciulate and polite and don't spout that online "get on your knees bitch" bullshit.
In r/l without a doubt lack of personal hygiene is a deal breaker!

 

[yaspis]

Lack of personal hygiene is an obvious eww factor for me. Another is dull conversational participation. I wouldn't torture, let alone fuck, anyone who isn't able to show some signs of brain operation.

... On the other hand, dull-minded people invoke a desire in me to wallop their asses black and blue just to get a clear, heartfelt response of screaming. It would be so satisfying, though it is often impossible. *sigh* To spank all you want, that would be a dream come true.

 

[erotic_writer_girl]

Online I'm Totally Turned Off by so called submissives who question my being a "real dom" because I am artciulate and polite and don't spout that online "get on your knees bitch" bullshit.
In r/l without a doubt lack of personal hygiene is a deal breaker!

As a sub I am totally turned off by someone presuming I like hearing "get on your knees bitch" or that that kind of comment will immediately turn me on.

Honestly if I'm in a sub/dom situation/relationship with a person I know (or want to know) Yepp! I could handle that...

But.. when it comes from people who have no idea about sub/dom it is just plain irritating...

EWG

 

[sweetnpetite]

A wondering eye.

Weather sexual or not, I find it entirely irritating for someone to talk to me, and look past me at someone else. I mean it's natural to look around, it's not natural to act like I'm not there, and expect me to pay attention to your ass!

(I had this happen when I worked at a convienience store with a rather attractive co-worker. I've also had it happen with a female 'friend' who would look past me when she talked to me, and I've had it happen with guys who are trying to flirt or pick you up, but still swivel there head when someone else walks by and even comment-eww-. In all cases it's SO rude)

 

[dreaming_lilith]

What are some of your turn offs?

A dominant without
1. selfconfidence/selfknowledge
2. empathy
3. humor
4. strenght
5. intelligence

...or calling a strange sub for slut/cunt/etc, which is pretty much the same as mentioned earlier - someone demanding submission without deserving it.

 

[LovingDaddy]

Re: Re: Totally Turned Off

A dominant without
1. selfconfidence/selfknowledge
2. empathy
3. humor
4. strenght
5. intelligence

...or calling a strange sub for slut/cunt/etc, which is pretty much the same as mentioned earlier - someone demanding submission without deserving it.

Very well said

 

[DVS]

Re: Re: Totally Turned Off

A dominant without
1. selfconfidence/selfknowledge
2. empathy
3. humor
4. strenght
5. intelligence

...or calling a strange sub for slut/cunt/etc, which is pretty much the same as mentioned earlier - someone demanding submission without deserving it.

Actually, a person who doesn't have these traits isn't a Dom. That's just a person who likes to beat on people and control them because they can. They have no self confidence, no empathy for others. The only humor they know is when they laugh at their cowering victim. That alone is their strength, and that is the limit of their intelligence.

 

[dreaming_lilith]

Someone who enjoys giving pain but lacks empaty is simply a sadist.

Anyhow, i can mention a few superficial turn offs as well.

Female bodylanguage (REALLY freaks me out)
Long nails
Long, thin hair
Bad posture
Biased vocabulary
Very hairy back

 

[landcruisergal]

Real life : racists, radicals of any breed or belief, bigots,hypocrits and tailgaters. Being patronised.Door knockers.Do not try to sell me a vacuum cleaner, insulation,your religion nor ask me to be in a survey or donate $.
Net wise:and I agree with a lot of women it seems....dick pics on adult contact sites, poor spelling, esp in a profile.The ASL or ASK thing shits me too.Men who think because you are submissive you would like to dom them online...what is it with that?