Training a Sub (both male and female)

[teknight]

Really? This is a surprising result for a shy person who has trouble trusting. About how many Doms do we talk and isn't this a very confusing process?



Why do I think this thread is not as altruistic as you try to make it look like?

She is a complex person (like everyone else). The complexity comes across in seemingly confusing statements. That doesn't invalidate anything. Maybe the Doms were a way for her to overcome her shyness and trust issues?

Why must the post be altruistic in order to have value?

 

[raj1995]

For us, the goal is to make his life easier which sees me doing many things including taking care of the financial side of our relationship....he earns the money, I pay the bills and bank. If I am sick he usually takes care of me if he sees it is necessary, if he is sick I take care of him. And yes, I love pain deliverd by him, and he loves to deliver pain...it works.

Catalina

But that is exactly what I mean by saying that in a relationship people have diff needs and get diff outputs.
A Lot like ur situation, I earn, she would manage, we would take care of each other when Ill, and some teasing, some pain would enhance love making. Thats a win win situation

 

[NomadLady]

Well, I think he does have a point.

If an ad in the profile is the sign of a bad Dom, then being overweight is a sign for a bad health worker.


But maybe both statements, which two people wrote without thinking, are just complete bullshit.

What do you think is the truth?

I don't think making your profile read like a personal ad makes you a Dom....and I do believe this OP is nothing but a troll. I am not a nurse, nor a doctor so my weight is irrevalent to my position unless it were so bad that I couldn't walk and function...which is isn't.

I thought about my post and what I wanted to write about the OP before I posted it. I'm not looking for truths on this thread...but I have noticed that more of your posts lean towards bullshit.

 

[NippleMuncher]

How DARE you attack someone's physical appearance? What right do you have? Each of us has flaws. Should we pick on you for your apparent lack of social skills? No. Instead we were trying to politely correct your mistakes in the best way we could. If you find it so easy to pick at other's personal flaws while refusing to see your own, I don't believe that you belong on this site. Obviously my own personal opinion, but a very strong one.

Oh don't be such a buzzkill! He's only able to type with one hand for God's sake, while he wanks to his own thoughts of grandeur. Give the guy a break, he's not even left handed!

I'm surprised you guys aren't able to handle your trolls around here better. Anyone as full of shit as karma9 should be shown the curb in short order.

Karma, sticks and stones dude, fire away, you won't be getting any more of my time.

 

[lana316]

Oh don't be such a buzzkill! He's only able to type with one hand for God's sake, while he wanks to his own thoughts of grandeur. Give the guy a break, he's not even left handed!

I'm surprised you guys aren't able to handle your trolls around here better. Anyone as full of shit as karma9 should be shown the curb in short order.

Karma, sticks and stones dude, fire away, you won't be getting any more of my time.

True, its just that comment got under my skin. Troll away and I'm fine, attack someone's physical appearance when no one is perfect? Nuh uh. Sigh I'll work on it. Personal flaw and all lol

 

[NippleMuncher]

True, its just that comment got under my skin. Troll away and I'm fine, attack someone's physical appearance when no one is perfect? Nuh uh. Sigh I'll work on it. Personal flaw and all lol

I take offense to that. I'll have you know that I'm quite perfect in every way! Just ask my reflection in the mirror!

 

[lana316]

I take offense to that. I'll have you know that I'm quite perfect in every way! Just ask my reflection in the mirror!

Awww well as long as you love yourself then its all good

 

[Hentaijohn]

My methods

I use a combination of loving affection, bondage and degrading. The more a sub pleases me, the more affection and personal attention. If a sub is disobedient I can be harsh, but I make sure the punishment becomes sweet pleadure for the sub. I also make sure there's no telease until I'm satisfied of their obedience.

 

[Primalex]

If a sub is disobedient I can be harsh, but I make sure the punishment becomes sweet pleadure for the sub.

So you reward her for disobedience?

That's the most stupid thing I've read recently.