SXCRgirl
Tickled Pink
- Joined
- Feb 26, 2002
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To Bashful, Richard and others who have gone through this,
I'm so sorry that you're going through a really rough time. I've been there myself. I too have been told is his everything and that I'm the ONE. I've been told that he can't live without me and that he's never loved anyone like he's loved me. I have re-read all his ICQ messages, all his email messages trying to find an answer as to what has changed.
He was separated when I met him, but because of financial issues, he moved back in with his wife. He said it was just temporary and that she knows what is up with both of them. He calls her his *roommate* saying that he doesn't make love to her. Needless to say, our relationship became very hard to manage and he's still with her. We had to end it and even though I miss him terribly, it was a godsend.
I know that it's tough to walk away but you owe it to yourself to be happy. You will always have these feelings for him, and the sooner you accept it, the easier it would be to move on. Today, I'm okay even though I still think about him everyday. We try to be just friends, but I'm the one incapable of doing that. I know that we need time, but I just take it one day at a time.
Okay, I digress. I'm sorry. I meant to make you feel better and it turned out to be a venting session. *chuckle* Forgive me. You're not alone - we're all here and we will listen to you vent anytime.
Chin up and take care of you!
*hugs*
I'm so sorry that you're going through a really rough time. I've been there myself. I too have been told is his everything and that I'm the ONE. I've been told that he can't live without me and that he's never loved anyone like he's loved me. I have re-read all his ICQ messages, all his email messages trying to find an answer as to what has changed.
He was separated when I met him, but because of financial issues, he moved back in with his wife. He said it was just temporary and that she knows what is up with both of them. He calls her his *roommate* saying that he doesn't make love to her. Needless to say, our relationship became very hard to manage and he's still with her. We had to end it and even though I miss him terribly, it was a godsend.
I know that it's tough to walk away but you owe it to yourself to be happy. You will always have these feelings for him, and the sooner you accept it, the easier it would be to move on. Today, I'm okay even though I still think about him everyday. We try to be just friends, but I'm the one incapable of doing that. I know that we need time, but I just take it one day at a time.
Okay, I digress. I'm sorry. I meant to make you feel better and it turned out to be a venting session. *chuckle* Forgive me. You're not alone - we're all here and we will listen to you vent anytime.
Chin up and take care of you!
*hugs*
