Try This & Report Back

[jordansgirl74]

I have read this entire thread and I plan on sharing it with my man when he comes to visit me next week, he's been able to hit my Gspot once before, which was new to me, so with instructions.....should be awesome. I hope it is. I will report back next week with results!!!

 

[Hhot]

Is is possible that I may not be able to have g-spot orgasm? It's been tried on me twice and while both times felt nice (one was with oral - so, not that intense) the other was quite intense stimulation (maybe it wasn't a long enough time?) It did feel close.

I'm starting to feel left out! And sad!

 

[jordansgirl74]

Is is possible that I may not be able to have g-spot orgasm? It's been tried on me twice and while both times felt nice (one was with oral - so, not that intense) the other was quite intense stimulation (maybe it wasn't a long enough time?) It did feel close.

I'm starting to feel left out! And sad!

I didn't feel, what I think, was my first one until I was 35...and that was almost 20 years after losing my virginity!!!!

Takes the right guy, the right situation, the right time, and it can happen.


T

 

[Mr.G]

Delicious

Is is possible that I may not be able to have g-spot orgasm?

Anything is possible considering you are human. My feedback however indicates that if you both want this to work and you don't concentrate JUST on this then it likely WILL happen. If you are stimulated other ways and now and then the G is poked and your lover pays attention to any changes in YOUR reaction then they can feel their way through to making this happen.

The ones with the biggest problems achieving this are young women and control freaks. The first is likely as a result of vag wall thickness when they're young. The second, although they "want to lose all control" they have a problem with being THAT vulnerable with their lover. That, as Jordan's girl stated, can change with a new partner, a new attitude or just a combination of the right things happening at the right time.

I would DEFINITELY keep trying. The research is a blast and the goal is to make her feel loved and sensual and horny and adored and delicious and that's what this is ALL ABOUT!

 

[Hhot]

control freaks. The first is likely as a result of vag wall thickness when they're young. The second, although they "want to lose all control" they have a problem with being THAT vulnerable with their lover.

I would DEFINITELY keep trying. The research is a blast and the goal is to make her feel loved and sensual and horny and adored and delicious and that's what this is ALL ABOUT!

I think that's my issue. But at least I'm aware now. I do hate being vulnerable. The guy I'm seeing now did everything right. He asked me exactly what I liked in every way and set it all up. The fact he concentrated so hard on it made me feel like I put him work and I hate feeling that way - making someone work for me basically. Hard to explain... I do "mentalise" love and sex too much. This I know.

Would love to read research if you ever have the time.

 

[Mr.G]

I think that's my issue. But at least I'm aware now. I do hate being vulnerable. ... I do "mentalize" love and sex too much. This I know.
Would love to read research if you ever have the time.

Try combining what he's doing with fantasizing something that has always turned you on. That way you may feel still in control ... until you aren't ;-))

Research? I think THIS site is probably some of the best "research" out there. The funded research that is published and all the experts go, "Ahhhh." is mostly CRAP, IMHO.

There was one study where they carved up 13 (female- at least they got that right) cadavers looking for evidence of G-things. The response was dead to say the least and once again they announced conclusively that the mythical G-Spot was just that ... on par with the Loch Ness beastie and Sasquatch.

My research has been interrupted by a few nasty turns in life but hopefully one day (again) soon I will have wrinkly thumbs and some lady with a large grin on her face, sleepy/horny eyes that say "finally ..." and THAT feeling in my heart again. maybe I'll wait for my next life. Who knows.

 

[Hhot]

Try combining what he's doing with fantasizing something that has always turned you on. That way you may feel still in control ... until you aren't ;-))

I'll try but I can never be "out of the moment." I'm too focused on the guy and I've always envied people who can make up happy scenarios in their head. Plus, I'm a little self-conscious. I admit.

Research? I think THIS site is probably some of the best "research" out there. The funded research that is published and all the experts go, "Ahhhh." is mostly CRAP, IMHO.

I agree with you. This post for instance is probably the best thing I've read on the g-spot anywhere. THANK YOU. I now have hope.

There was one study where they carved up 13 (female- at least they got that right) cadavers looking for evidence of G-things. The response was dead to say the least and once again they announced conclusively that the mythical G-Spot was just that ... on par with the Loch Ness beastie and Sasquatch.

Don't they have sex? These scientists need to be a little more social/fuck more....

My research has been interrupted by a few nasty turns in life but hopefully one day (again) soon I will have wrinkly thumbs and some lady with a large grin on her face, sleepy/horny eyes that say "finally ..." and THAT feeling in my heart again. maybe I'll wait for my next life. Who knows.

I feel for you. I've read your situation and I think you're doing such a great thing by imparting your wonderful experience and making it essentially live on by multiplying it for others. Very selfless -and I hope it (eventually) brings you happiness in the future again. It will never be the same, but it will be unique in it's own manifestation. Karma will come back to you. Bless you.

 

[BrownEyes26]

Pressure

Hey all
I am a regular squirter and have an issue of a build up of pressure, almost a female version of blue balls if I haven't squirted in a while. It's been over a week for me and it feels as if my uterine area is full and I am ultra horny. Any other women feel this way if they haven't had a gspot orgasm in a while?

 

[alcwkat]

I think that's my issue. But at least I'm aware now. I do hate being vulnerable.

Some reluctance to surrender can, of course, be fear of peeing. Beyond that, a good slow massage always helps. And the grapeseed oil is a great lube. Regular karezza also frequently helps reduce emotional & energetic blocks. Lots of good info on Marnia's site: www.reuniting.info/

 

[Hhot]

Some reluctance to surrender can, of course, be fear of peeing. Beyond that, a good slow massage always helps. And the grapeseed oil is a great lube. Regular karezza also frequently helps reduce emotional & energetic blocks. Lots of good info on Marnia's site: www.reuniting.info/

Thanks a lot!

 

[Mr.G]

That was sweet - Thank you

This post for instance is probably the best thing I've read on the g-spot anywhere. THANK YOU. I now have hope.

.... I've read your situation and I think you're doing such a great thing by imparting your wonderful experience and making it essentially live on by multiplying it for others. Very selfless - and I hope it (eventually) brings you happiness in the future again. It will never be the same, but it will be unique in it's own manifestation. Karma will come back to you. Bless you.

That was sweet - Thank you.

 

[Mr.G]

OFTEN or NEVER or horny/achy ??

Hey all
I am a regular squirter ...... I am ultra horny. Any other women feel this way if they haven't had a gspot orgasm in a while?

I found the post kinda funny in a great way. According to many stats taken from polls from thousands of women, only about 17% of women have consistent orgasms from intercourse. For all the others orgasms come from tongues, toys, fingers ... or they don't cum at all. Sad.

Of the 17% who orgasm easily and often, only a tiny fraction of them even know about G-Gasms or have them. Or have them routinely.

You're question is directed at the room and granted THIS room IS special but considering probably less than 2% of women overall know about or have G-Gasms the question makes it sound as if G-Gasms or not having them for awhile is as common as blue balls at an Amish square dance (do they even dance??). Everybody HERE knows what you're talking about. Ask this in another venue and many women would call you insane or want to rip you apart.

Enjoy and I hope your "blue balls" condition has ended in a glorious series of G-Gasms.

 

[Semlvr]

Read this thread and was very helpful.

SO and I stumbled upon a different method than described...but its worked 3x in last couple months much to our surprise and delight!

You absolutely must both be comfortable with whatever may happen ( cause it really does feel to me like Im going to pee just before) and you must will yourself to totally let go...

Good luck to all still trying! It's worth the effort

 

[Mr.G]

For Those Alone And

The ones who want to perfect this general TECHNIQUE BEFORE they have a lover try it.

A NEW TOY!!

http://kissinbluekaren.com/2011/06/07/berman_venus_g/

Several ladies have mentioned that the thumb/fingers pushing hard on the G area was what did it for them and NOT a vibration on the area.

IF the G/A Spots are triggered, as I suggested a loooong time ago, by a bambino coming down the canal, then it would be triggered by pressure. The body might not really react to a baby equipped with a pneumatic hammer.

Just wondering if any have tried this contraption. Have you tried a regular vibrator? With the right angle held a woman should be able to hold a vibe against her GSpot. Do you prefer the vibration or the pressure from a finger or thumb?? Does it change the dynamic of the orgasm(s)?

 

[Saucyminx]

Read this thread and was very helpful.

SO and I stumbled upon a different method than described...but its worked 3x in last couple months much to our surprise and delight!

You absolutely must both be comfortable with whatever may happen ( cause it really does feel to me like Im going to pee just before) and you must will yourself to totally let go...

Good luck to all still trying! It's worth the effort

Hi Mr G,

No Amish do not dance, that is a no-no.

As to the toy thing--I haven't tried the one you are showing, but I can do it with a regular vibe, without the buzz. Just have to hit the right angle.

 

[LivelyLilly]

Hey all
I am a regular squirter and have an issue of a build up of pressure, almost a female version of blue balls if I haven't squirted in a while. It's been over a week for me and it feels as if my uterine area is full and I am ultra horny. Any other women feel this way if they haven't had a gspot orgasm in a while?

Even if I don't g-gasm because I'm not horny enough, I am still able to squirt out my fluid whenever I'm feeling full. This helps to reduce the feeling of fullness in the uterine area.

 

[MissBehavin278]

Something to Own Up to...

So, I have a confession. I've been with my fiance (we're getting married in 17 days!) for over two years now, and not once has he given me an orgasm. I know I should have just been honest with him the entire time or at least admitted he never has given me one SOMETIME in the past two years, but I just couldn't bring myself to do it. So, reading some of these posts (I only got around to reading the first 5 pages and the last page), I tried to find my Gspot myself. Well, that didn't work out too well. I couldn't seem to get a handle on it, and I want my fiance to try it.

But how can I get him to try it when (as far as he knows), he's never had any problems getting me to the big O through intercourse alone? I know many people might be screaming JUST TELL HIM! But at this point, I might be a coward, but I'm NOT going to tell him, especially this close to the wedding. I've always been content with the way sex feels without the orgasm, and if I'm antsy I'll just go back later and finish the job. So.... any suggestions at all??? Other than telling him?

PS Let me iterate in NO WAY am I blaming him or saying he's not a good lover because it's entirely my fault that I haven't been honest enough to tell him it's not working for me.

 

[Mr.G]

O's during Intercourse

As you're probably aware there are only something like 17% of women who report orgasm during intercourse routinely. Another few report it happens occasionally but for most it just never happens.

Your problem is something that almost all women have faced. I would certainly suggest honesty. It is a foundation of a good marriage IMHO. Lie about something so intimate between you two and ... "what else is she lying about?"

One thing that worries me is that you say he's never EVER given you an O or maybe once in two years. Many men are aware that women rarely orgasm during intercourse so either before or after they orgasm it's time to get down and make sure by whatever means works, your partner gets you off too. MOST women react rather explosively to a good tongue lashing. Are you saying he's NEVER given you an orgasm or he's never given you an orgasm during intercourse?? If that is NEVER as in NEVER I'd have even more concern because he sounds rather ignorant of how women work or how difficult it is for women to cum. That revelation may bring on feelings of hostility so be very careful how you bring it up.

Now to the good part.

MANY MANY women after having their GSpot discovered and realize what it is capable of under the right thumb, they find their ability to orgasm during intercourse goes waaaay up too.

Approach this subject like it is something new to try that one of your girlfriends told you about - or delete this and show him the thread. Play around and hopefully it will work for you. If it does I'm hoping your out of control G-Gasms will resemble your FAKE O's during intercourse. Either way it will increase intimacy and allow you to work on orgasming easier both during GSpotting and intercourse.

Hope you have a great wedding and an even better wedding night. What a wonderful present that would be for both of you ... to start orgasming with him on your wedding night. Good luck.

 

[MissBehavin278]

The more I think about it, the more it makes me feel guilty for not telling him. He knows I've faked them in the past before (just a few times to his knowledge) when I wasn't as enthusiastic as I normally would be, but as far as I know to his knowledge I am definitely fulfilled on a regular basis. I've dug my own hole, but I think honesty at this point could be a serious hitch in our relationship that I don't want to test this close to the wedding. Some things, in my opinion, are really better left unsaid.

As for him being ignorant, he said his previous girlfriends have been completely honest about when they did and didn't have an orgasm, and that they had orgasms about half of the time. I don't know how true this is, but I don't want him to be seen as an inconsiderate lover. He really really tries, and he listens to what I like and what I want him to do, and the sensations I feel always are super intense, but never like I'm on the edge or even close. I don't really understand how it can feel that amazing and yet I'm still so far away from the precipice.

In any case, I want him to try to find my G-spot, because I can't find it by myself to show him. Hopefully it'll be something he'll be more than willing to try, since oral is definitely NOT his cup of tea, which I totally respect.

 

[BrownEyes26]

Even if I don't g-gasm because I'm not horny enough, I am still able to squirt out my fluid whenever I'm feeling full. This helps to reduce the feeling of fullness in the uterine area.

Thanks

 

[BrownEyes26]

[\QUOTE]Enjoy and I hope your "blue balls" condition has ended in a glorious series of G-Gasms.[/QUOTE]

It certainly has! Thanks Mr. G

 

[Patchouli]

has anyone ever found that too much gspot stimulation irritates their bladder?

 

[BrownEyes26]

Yup

has anyone ever found that too much gspot stimulation irritates their bladder?

Yes, after a long session on the G Spot, I will have a very irritated bladder. I just try to make sure I drink lots of water, pee a lot and try not to irrirtate it for a few days

 

[Hhot]

Thank you, thank you, thank you Mr.GGG. Where do I send the cheque?

Forget the cheque. Where do I send myself to Mr.GGG?? I just realized he lives in my city AND I happen to still be a G-virgin...

 

[Mr.G]

Might I suggest ...

Yes, after a long session on the G Spot, I will have a very irritated bladder. I just try to make sure I drink lots of water, pee a lot and try not to irrirtate it for a few days

Once the G is firing properly the active party should go a little more shallow and not quite so high or deep up the vagina. The deeper / higher you go the more likely you're going to have the NECK of the bladder affected which is even more sensitive than the bladder itself.

I've found that once initiated the pressure does not have to be as strong as when you're just stoking the fire so to speak. A lighter movement, more shallow and closer to the mouth of the vag should eliminate that irritation which is more likely deep bruising.

With the lighter movements the G-Gasms MAY be slightly less intense but you will be able to enjoy more of them over a period of time AND not be worried about the after - effects.


Hhot, thanks. I have on very rare occasions given private lessons but I am also a believer in LOVE and all that so if you can get whoever your are WITH to try this it is even more fun to just enhance the love life that you're having now. The research and new explorations and target effect is worth every second of being unsure ... until it works. There is also a VERY real problem with trust, letting go and being able - emotionally - to let your lover take COMPLETE CONTROL of your body. It is quite RARE for relative strangers to be able to do this because the mental / emotional involvement is needed as a base before that release can happen. That's my observations to date so ... find somebody in Toronto or Mississauga (hint) and GET'ER DONE!!!