um...is this normal?

[Pure]

yes, take the highway...

if you feel the need to protect others, then post notes about him, giving screennames, describing him in as much detail as possible, city he lives in, etc. his 'lines' etc.

keep in mind that his 'heinous' acts may be all talk. and he may be 14 years old.

 

[TaintedB]

Originally posted by canadiancutie
ok, so this guy adds me to msn and is telling me he's a dom and stuff so i was thinking "thats super, good for him." but then he started talking about how he wants me to move in with him, and he wants to find 6 other girls, to breed them and give up all the boys for adoption and raise the little girls as slaves, which kinda sorta scares the living fuck out of me. so i was just wodering, is that at all considered normal in dom/sub relationships? because i didnt think it was but he keeps saying it is and thats its the basis of it and blah blah blah. i'm still disturbed so i'm hoping someone will answer quickly.

If by normal you mean should you expect this or have to put up with it, then the answer is no way. It is, however, a very common attitude and fanatsy to come across, especially in the chat medium where one's ideas are not held up to group scrutiny...and derision. Nine times out of ten such an individual is just a harmless fantasier who wants you to believe his silly dreams are reality; one time of of then they'll be crazy enough to try to make their fantasy real, but it ususally fizzles badly before they ever get started because real people don't act like the mindless little service drones they imagine in their wetdreams.

I've encountered lots of breeder fantasists in my spins around the net. Most aren't stupid enough to admit their fantasies involve children, anythough I'm sure many secretly think about it. Your Ignore button will usually keep you safe and unbothered by these fools--just be sure you don't give them any real info. about yourself first. Next time someone starts to broach a really offputing topic to you in a private chat or who even tries to push you quicker than you feel comfortable with, the thing to do is to instantly stop responding and click Ignore. Don't feel obligated to talk to them. You owe nothing to a rude an offensive stranger. You are not there to service people whose fantasies are boring or ugly to you, you're there, I imagine, to look for friends or for people whose sexual needs are compatible with your own. After a few weeks or months on chat systems you develop a sort of instinct about this. You know from one or two lines of conversation whether you and the stranger have anything in common at all. Often you know just from the way they try to start up a chat with you.

Your message sounds perfectly real and honest to me, for what it's worth, and if I were in your situation, a public board like this is the first place I'd have asked my questions. I've known dozens of people who found themselves in the same boat as you. When I went on my first chat service, I found myself servicing the needs of a foot-fetish transvestite, which was about the farthest thing in the world from what I was interested in. I felt soiled afterwards, not because there is anything wrong with their desires, but because they had nothing to do with _my_ desires, I only cooperated because I felt I had to be nice to people who talked to me. What I got for my trouble with self-anger at being such a cyberwhore. I got off relatively easy. If my first experience had been that breeder you ran into, it might have ran me off chat forever (not that that would have necessarily been a bad thing ).

--Taint

 

[DarkLadyOfDeath]

I'de report it to moderators and the authorities ect.. but I for one would not slam the guy in public forums you know he will frequent. Simply put..

Who wants a possible psycho pissed off at them?

Noone I'de wager.

Not to upset anyone but haveing just gotten out of a failing relationship with a Hacker. There are ways of getting your info if someone wanted to bad enough. Not that he would be capable of it, but it's not hard to find someone that could get such info though it is Illegal to do.

The web can be a dangerouse place.

 

[Netzach]

sounds like the Top jackoff equivalent of "and I need you to remove my testicles with a knife and feed them to me and keep me in a cage under your bed and make me suck of 200 of your best friends every night"

all just net fantasy stupid shit.

 

[catalina_francisco]

ok, so this guy adds me to msn and is telling me he's a dom and stuff so i was thinking "thats super, good for him." but then he started talking about how he wants me to move in with him, and he wants to find 6 other girls, to breed them and give up all the boys for adoption and raise the little girls as slaves, which kinda sorta scares the living fuck out of me. so i was just wodering, is that at all considered normal in dom/sub relationships? because i didnt think it was but he keeps saying it is and thats its the basis of it and blah blah blah. i'm still disturbed so i'm hoping someone will answer quickly.

Did this guy live in Australia? I ask because I came across one there with the exact same idea as you described..and he openly admitted to having sex with underage girls. He thought of himself as Dom, but there were a lot of things which didn't seem Domly at all to me, just opportunistic.

Catalina

 

[canadiancutie]

Re: Re: um...is this normal?

Did this guy live in Australia? I ask because I came across one there with the exact same idea as you described..and he openly admitted to having sex with underage girls. He thought of himself as Dom, but there were a lot of things which didn't seem Domly at all to me, just opportunistic.

Catalina

nope, pheonix, arizona.

 

[shy slave]

I'm not sure I'm buying this post, sounds suss to me.

Anyone with brain enough to use the computer knows that there are heaps of perverts & fools out there trolling. It's easy enough to ignore them, what are they going to do, jump through the computer at you?

Anyone with a brain knows that the described scerario is not normal, even for B&D kinksters, so why ask us on a public forum instead of asking the many B&D friends?

Why continue to reply to this idiot if you are so very disturbed by his fantasy?

Anyway, you have your answers from the others.

Yes this guy sounds weird/creepy/odd.
Can't help but wonder why a 'nilla person would end up here asking about him, if he is not from this site, or is he...?

His name is not Bytor is it?

Like incubus I am not sure how you can be scared of someone online. They don't know who you are or where you live. Its a big world out there.

Also you cannot simply be on someone's msn you have to agree, so what sort of site did he come from.

Even 7 yrs know about trolls and the ignore feature on computers, and they don't mean the troll from the book Three Billy Goats Gruff either.

If this is an honest post, my advice don't be so daft as to add people to your msn without knowing more about them if it makes you uncomfortable.

As for other kids being caught up, well the 'net sites will catch up with him if he's a peodophile but its sounds like overactive imagination to me, just not sure who's.

 

[canadiancutie]

i have the email for my msn on my little website thing so i'm assuming thats where he got it from. weird people have added it from me before, but they were just weird, not creepy

 

[James G 5]

(Yea, I know, I don't sound real subbie, do I?)

See, IRL this can be solved by simply keeping my cock in your mouth all the time
Whimpering and moaning ALWAYS sounds very subbie

 

[James G 5]

His name is not Bytor is it?

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

 

[A Desert Rose]

See, IRL this can be solved by simply keeping my cock in your mouth all the time
Whimpering and moaning ALWAYS sounds very subbie

You say the loveliest things to me...

 

[James G 5]

You say the loveliest things to me...

Well, a lovely thing like you deserves nothing less

 

[SweetDommes]

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

yeah, I had about the same reaction HAHAHAHAHA

 

[A Desert Rose]

Well, a lovely thing like you deserves nothing less

You make me blush in all the right places.

 

[James G 5]

You make me blush in all the right places.

I hope that's not the only juice I get flowing