What about anal sex turns you on?

[redelicious]

actually *blushes* my other hole is tighter he says *Blushes* keep in mind I'm 4 foot and my pelvis well.. is small.. so my entry/pubic bone is set narrow and small to LOL
you have no pubic bone in the back. lol and plus I'm shaped differently then most people
BF really embarrased me there while fucking me he was like "well your probably the only girl who can claim to have a tighter pussy then ass" well geez just what I girl wants to hear while there being fucked.
and I know he keeps telling me "Relax" but I'm sorry as much as I want to.. its not so easy to just "relax". and we do that. He also licks me there. and starts with one finger then 2. last try went reallly badly. I made him promise that next time hed take more time getting me ready and use more KY.

Its good to know he wasnt making stuff up!!!! LOL
I'm realeved. I just keep hearing from so many girls how anal is awesome.. and frankly.. I dont see it. I love being licked and fingers but more... *shrugs* he did say I have to get used to it.

Hi pixie-

I am just expounding on what Wyn said a bit.

Sometimes cumming before you attempt anal sex can help you relax. I don't know if your BF allows you to touch your clit while he is playing with your ass, but it definetely helps me.

It's true that some of my most mind blowing orgasms have been a result of anal sex, but that is in addition to clit stimulation. I know there are girls out there who can cum just from anal stimulation. I just don't happen to be one of them.

And one last thing, if you are at the point where you are bleeding you need to stop.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

Well yes I am aloud to touch it LOL but see.... my cumming is something we are working on I have a problem with cumming with someone else in person or phone. Only way he managed to make me cum when he was here was with a vibrating egg on my clit. YOUCH!!!!! lol he says if he gets to cum I get to. at least most of the time. sometimes mylegs where just too sore for him to use that egg on me. I'm not aloud to masterbate unless with him now. Hes hinted at no play for 2 weeks before he gets here.. I hope hes bluffing LOL hes determinted at getting me to cum without a toy LOL stubborn fellow.
at least he wasnt making that up about anal sex giving big orgasms also thuoght do keep in mind just cause one person deoes the next may not. everyone is different. I just wanted to know if it was true. as for blood we didnt know till after. Oddly didnt hurt that much.

Hi pixie-

I am just expounding on what Wyn said a bit.

Sometimes cumming before you attempt anal sex can help you relax. I don't know if your BF allows you to touch your clit while he is playing with your ass, but it definetely helps me.

It's true that some of my most mind blowing orgasms have been a result of anal sex, but that is in addition to clit stimulation. I know there are girls out there who can cum just from anal stimulation. I just don't happen to be one of them.

And one last thing, if you are at the point where you are bleeding you need to stop.

 

[redelicious]

Well yes I am aloud to touch it LOL but see.... my cumming is something we are working on I have a problem with cumming with someone else in person or phone. Only way he managed to make me cum when he was here was with a vibrating egg on my clit. YOUCH!!!!! lol he says if he gets to cum I get to. at least most of the time. sometimes mylegs where just too sore for him to use that egg on me. I'm not aloud to masterbate unless with him now. Hes hinted at no play for 2 weeks before he gets here.. I hope hes bluffing LOL hes determinted at getting me to cum without a toy LOL stubborn fellow.
at least he wasnt making that up about anal sex giving big orgasms also thuoght do keep in mind just cause one person deoes the next may not. everyone is different. I just wanted to know if it was true. as for blood we didnt know till after. Oddly didnt hurt that much.

You would be amazed how many women have a similar problem cumming. It's great that he is working on it with you. I have gone through the orgasm control thing myself a bit (even started a thread on it months ago).

Anyway, if the toy is too powerful you can try dampening the vibration with a sheet or something.

We are indeed all different. I guess that was the point I was trying to make when I talked about combining clit and anal stimulation. That works for me. Some women may not need that. Others may not be able to cum from anal no matter what they try.

I am not any kind of medical professional so I really can't say anymore about the blood except that accidents do happen. If they happen a lot I would be concerned though.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

You would be amazed how many women have a similar problem cumming. It's great that he is working on it with you. I have gone through the orgasm control thing myself a bit (even started a thread on it months ago).

Anyway, if the toy is too powerful you can try dampening the vibration with a sheet or something.

We are indeed all different. I guess that was the point I was trying to make when I talked about combining clit and anal stimulation. That works for me. Some women may not need that. Others may not be able to cum from anal no matter what they try.

I am not any kind of medical professional so I really can't say anymore about the blood except that accidents do happen. If they happen a lot I would be concerned though.

I have no idea what my problem is he says I need to chill and learn to let go.. Well its kinda hard when you have someone on the phone saying "I want you to cum for me.. cum hard" on and on and on. LOL hes trying to motivate me but it just frustrates me more LOL I try!!! but at least now I CAN cum since I dont masterbate. before even without him Id pla so much it could take me about 2 hours to cum. So now I only masterbate with him. He didnt say I wasnt aloud but sometimes people make it clear without actually saying it.
as for blood it only happened that once. Surprise I wasnt bleeding like hell the last time. I had to make him stop it hurt way too badly for me to just grin and bear it. I will tollerate anal for him but not to that point. I made him promise to be nicer to my ass next time LOL he said hed use alot more KY and work on getting me ready more first.. Last try at it was BAD I have had 500 bone fractures 3 surgeries. 8 piercings and 3 tattoos. if I complain it is not to be taken lightly LOL
Next time I use a toy on him I wont be so gentle (long story)

 

[Hexiegirl]

That sounds like fun. You probably know this but its difficult for a man to piss while he has an erection and I would say any targeting is out of the question. I guess about 30-60 secs after a man cums and has softened a bit is a good time for a golden shower. Having marked you with his cum he can then have the satisfaction of marking you with his urine. Actually I could do with taking a shower do you need one at all (smile) ? At what point does it become "a human toilet" ? What would be too much for you ?

Hi Rough! Hmm, yes, last time I had a "golden shower," I was the one taking a shower and he came in and wanted to pee on me. LOL, I knew it would make him so happy! So I let him! Don't know if he had an erection before or not. I knelt down and let him pee on my breasts while I rubbed it in and giggled, heh. But the idea of a man cumming on me and then peeing on me, esp. in conjunction with bondage etc. is a real mental turn-on. I'm naughty... And I always need a shower! LOL
The human toilet thing I've read about. It's were people (even strangers) piss and shit into someone's mouth. the person/slave is used, just like a toilet. That isn't my thing. And shit definately is not either.

Hi Pixie!!! Hope all goes well for you! I juts wanted to say that I am also one of those gals that needs clitoral stimulation in order to cum anally. But when I do, boy its a biggie!!!! Very well worth the trying! Good luck!

 

[Sir James A]

I seem to be in the minority here, somewhat. Anal intercourse, for me anyway, is good but I would much rather have her mouth or her pussy surrounding my cock.
That's not to say that I don't enjoy stimulating her anally. Quite the contrary, when I have two fingers on one hand in her pussy, my mouth driving her clit crazy, and insert a finger in her bum, the pleasure for both of us is incredible. She has a mind blowing orgasm, when I allow it, and I enjoy having that control.
But, honestly I'd much rather fuck her mouth or her pussy.

 

[~ Emmeline ~]

::Edited to remove the silly smilie::

I don't mind taking Him in my bottom at all, it can be incredibly erotic if the moment is right for both of us.

I also enjoy it when He requests to be anally stimulated while I make love to His cock. I love feeling the intensity of His orgasm as He shoots His cum so very deep inside of my throat... ~grins~

We also hope to explore prostate milking while I savor His cock one day soon. The thought of being able to extend His pleasure over a long period of time sounds quite wonderful. I do understand, however, that this technique requires care and patience to learn.

 

[RoughPlay]

Hi Rough! Hmm, yes, last time I had a "golden shower,"

Hi Hexiegirl, nice post.

I suspect that if I had not cum recently and I went up to a girl and
pissed on her then I would probably start to get an erection and it
would cut the flow off. Still there's a simple solution to that problem.

I agree that where this really starts to get interesting is when you
combine everything together. I would add numerous strong men and two
other women to what you mention. Some of the men would be holding the
woman down with strong arms rather than rope. The other men would cum
over her face and body except for two who would cum into the mouths of
the women. The women would then spit their cum onto the face of the
woman being held down and rub it it. All the men would then piss on the
woman's face and body. Not bad for an evenings entertainment.

Perhaps I'm being naive but piss in the mouth doesn't seem that bad to
me providing the person keeps their throat closed, don't swallow any and
allows it to cascade back out the mouth. I've seen it done a few times
and it looks neat. At the end I think it's reasonable etiquette to spit
the last bit out even if it is impolite to spit in the South.

Anything to do with shit is just plain unpleasant and definitely not
for me.


> I just wanted to say that I am also one of those gals that needs
> clitoral stimulation in order to cum anally.

What do you use for clitoral stimulation during anal sex ?

Apart from intensity does cumming anally feel different in any other
respect than cumming vaginally ?

 

[Hexiegirl]

Oooh Rough! Actually I like that scenario you laid out~~~ Masturbatory material for me there! I would definately beg to touch myself to orgasm during that scene. I'd be dripping wet~

Let's see, during anal sex (which I regularily beg for), I usually use my finger to stimulate my clit. Or I use a vibrator of some sort, like an egg maybe.

Actually, I must agree that with a special partner, the peeing into the mouth might not be so bad (have never done it). Perhaps having a dental gag to keep my mouth open and then seeing it dribble down the front of my breasts?

Yes, orgasm during anal sex is much stronger. It also seems to last longer and take over more of my body. I shake from head to toe

 

[RoughPlay]

Oooh Rough! Actually I like that scenario you laid out~~~

Hi Hexiegirl

I'm glad you liked the scenario. In an ideal world I would participate
in something like that most evenings but sadly that world doesn't exist.
Fortunately there is always the Literotica stories plus my imagination.

Yes a sub definitely ought to beg for privileges like touching herself.
It builds character. Providing you put your heart into it I would probably
give permission after a while. I may be harsh at times but I'm also fair.

As for begging for anal sex, well what can I say, I'm blessed with a
serious anal obsession. I just can't get enough of it (I've tried). You
wouldn't need to beg much with me.

The dental gag sounds interesting. I guess that would take all control away
from you and force you to accept the piss in your mouth whether you liked it
or not. Just the way a sub ought to be treated.

So anal orgasm's make you "shake from head to toe". Excellent, I would love
to see that.


As regards "seeing it dribble ..." would you like there to be a large mirror
in front of you so you could see what was being done to you more clearly ?

Would you like your clit to be stimulated by someone else during anal sex
or do you prefer to do it yourself ?

 

[Hexiegirl]

Roughplay:

Yeah, I agree that the scenario is good in imagination but not easy to get IRL. I am taking a BDSM class once a month out here, so who knows? Maybe, something similar will come up? ::keeps fingers crossed::

Yup, yup on the begging and the use of the gag. Puts one in a VERY submissive position!

LOL, my orgasms were getting a little loud there for awhile, but not anymore. My parents are staying at my house 'till their house is finished being built. That kind of puts a damper on things~

As regards the mirror, oh no! I'm too shy for that! It's more for the onlookers pleasure

Hmm, I'd like both during anal sex: rub my clit myself or have another

 

[DVS]

Re: two cents from a non anal person

I have since learned that if you need to be drunk to do something, then you shouldn't do it.

I think I know way too much about bacteria and whatnot to enjoy it. Besides that, my current boyfriend has a very large penis, and I am afraid it would hurt.

I am also concerned that poop could get on him, or worse, inside my vagina.

Guess I'm a butt- prude.

There is no problem with someone who does't like anal sex. There are many things BDSMers like that I don't. There is no list everybody MUST like to enjoy life.

And, for the record, bacteria is a minor problem. I make sure I don't mix anal with vagina, or there could be a problem. Going from vagina to anal is fine, but the other direction is not. That may cause an infection.

And, if someone is concerned about cleanliness, use a condom. But, if you're not into it, you're just not into it. Don't let anyone force you to do something you feel that strongly about.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

everyone is different.. What maybe right for one may not be for another. people have different likes. I can assure you LOL the average person would frown on the sexual things I've done. they maybe tame compared to most in this forum but compared to average society well LOL anyway the point is I dont care what people think. If I enjoy something and no harm done. Then why not do it? I personally dont like anal.. well only reason I do slightly is cause it pleases him he really likes anal LOL I gave him a 2nd chance.. if he messes it up I dont think I will let him again. but my point is.. to each his own.

 

[DVS]

My opinion on anal sex? It is wonderful! Simply wonderful!

Her submission to allow me to take her there makes me hard. I sometimes bind her in a kneeling position and force her head down to the floor. This obviously brings her ass into the air, and I sqeeze lube out into the crack of her ass.

Then, while the heat of her body makes the lube slowly run down her ass crack I ask her if she wants me to fuck her there. finally, she gets to the point of begging me, twitching her ass hole as the lube slowly makes its way down.

Finally, I give her the wish she is begging for. She loves the submission and I love her tight little ass.

Other times she gets down and asks for my cock. Kneeling and holding her ass cheeks open. I have her lube her own little hole, and while she is bent over and waiting, I watch her glistening ass twitch in anticipation. God, the power that runs through me is sexy!

 

[Pixie Mischief]

hmm I like anal play but not anal sex hehe

 

[DVS]

hmm I like anal play but not anal sex hehe

Pixie, these things take time. Don't let him try to rush it. And you have a sort of stage fright, when you have a problem cuming. It goes along with your shyness. Spending more time with your boyfriend will help that, too.

I am a little concerned about the blood you mention, and the pain. Sure, anal sex will hurt a little, but as much as you seem to mention is not good. Because you are such a small girl, do you think it is possible his cock is too large for you?

I would suggest you have him purchase a small and THIN dildo and lube it up very well. Then, have him work up to that, using the 1 finger, 2 finger method you have been trying. Then, after you are OK with this, move up to a slightly larger one.

Don't let him use his cock until you can take it without so much pain. And, if you are in such pain with bleeding after, you shouldn't continue. Something in your anal canal could be torn, and that is not a good thing.

You can get very sick from an infection of that nature. A woman died recently, after her anal wall was severely punctured and her system infected. Always use smooth, rounded and flexible objects, taking precautions not to over do.

Don't let a bad experience ruin an otherwise potentially enjoyable experience.

 

[DVS]

I don't mean to force you to say anything, but may I assume this smilie is an approval for anal sex?

 

[Pixie Mischief]

DVS: I only bleed once and only once was it VERY VERY painful.. the other times where.. tolerable LOL
He says "you need to get used to it". *Sighs* he keeps telling me to relax but LOL its not so easy!!!
and the toy he got us.. isnt TINY LOL I would have thought hed have gotten something smaller you know for beginers.
On a good note LOL I made him take his own medicine LOL as for him being too big. If he fits in my pussy he has got to fit in my ass LMAO pussy is less stretchable LOL and takes more time. For me. First 2 weeks of intercourse where painful. my body has to adapt. right when it was going well he had to leave SUCKY! any bigger and I couldnt take thought. Not without tremendous pain and dangerou.. Not to say I couldnt in the future.. body adapts over time. but not right now LOL so no. Hes not too big. But I am small. I think he forgets that. His ex was a big girl. hes a big guy. and I've had worse pain there trust me.. due to my health.. I'm cronicly constipated. I'm taken shits so painful that I'm cried and not be able to sit for days.. Now THATS being torn up. Excuse me for being blunt about this LOL
but you asked and I need to explain LOL anyway I use to use suppositories and that just was sucky they hurt and burned on the way out and would take an hour of waiting (I cant go at all wthout some form of help such as this) and then I'd be on and off the toilet for hours.. Bf got here and that wasnt acceptable to him LOL he made me get these enemas. tiny well 150 ml I think I dont know I dont really count there not very fun LOL he lectured me saying this would hurt less and wont burn and blah blah and how its natural online meds. I wasnt happy about the idea. he was saying how it makes people wait. and this way it would be over and done with. mom had been trying to get me to do this for ages but I'd refuse.. But can I refuse my sweetie?? no actually I have trouble LOL I protested.. but not much. I was refusing to roll over and he said "my dog obeys better then you!" well that ticked me off and I rolled over. cant compare me to his dog! LOL GOD! anyway just saying I've torn myself pretty badly before. Hurt worse then anal sex. I will admit. I dont regret anything I did with him BUT I do regret the why I had anal sex to begin with. I did it before I lost my virginity. I regret doing it for him not for me. I dont think I was ready that night. I did it because I didnt want to disapoint him. I didnt feel ready to loose my virginity and so rolled over and let him fuck my ass althought he didnt finish he said I had t oget used to it. and so didnt finish.

 

[DVS]

the other times where.. tolerable LOL

OK, as long as you understand what could happen. It is your job to keep him under control. You know how we men are!

 

[Pixie Mischief]

OK, as long as you understand what could happen. It is your job to keep him under control. You know how we men are!

You know.. I always felt men had to be trained.. seriously.. how ironic the tables have been turned on me.
and yeah I tried to teach him a lesson and use a toy on him figured maybe hed leave me alone with anal sex after LOL
It didnt work guess he was eager to please me. LOL
something hes done for me. I dont think I could return the favor which is... lick... there. LOL OMG THAT FEELS AWESOME didnt think it could LOL he showed me alot of different interesting pleasures. Hmm even anal sex SOMETIMES felt a little good. till this day I wonder if he enjoyed it when I did that to him or he did it just for me as he said. I was told if he really didnt enjoy it he wouldnt have told me to "you can use toys on me anytime you wish to"
But I really dont know. He didnt seem to be enjoying it LOL I really got the empression he only did it for ME.
Hey I wont complain and deny a willing ass in front of me LOL it was... interesting.

 

[calypso_21]

There are a lot of women on this board who talk about how much they love anal sex, and I was wondering what specifically about it turns you on so much? I think most women who do it enjoy the feeling, but what about the idea of anal do you like so much? I often wondered what turns me on about it and I think I have come up with some reasons:

1 It's taboo, and therefore feels naughty

2 Assholes are dumb tight (even though this is more a feeling, the idea of me penetrating something that tight is a big turn on)

3 On some level I like the idea that I am gaining pleasure from something my partner may find displeasurable.

4 Most women wouldn't let just anyone there, so there is a certain feeling of being special when I am allowed to enter a woman there. It's like a showing of trust and in some ways submission.

5 I love ass! I guess some guys are breast-men and some guys are ass-men. I am definitely belonging to the second group and it is such a turn on to bury my dick and feel it surrounded by the object of my lust.

For all these reasons...but mostly because of HIM!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

It is a submission thing...smacking her ass, pulling her hair, thrusting(not TOO hard!) into her tight little asshole, while calling her a slut....good times!

 

[Ebonyfire]

It is a submission thing...smacking her ass, pulling her hair, thrusting(not TOO hard!) into her tight little asshole, while calling her a slut....good times!

Replace her with his/him in the appropriate places, I can agree with you.

 

[VIKING511]

Count me in !!!

Replace her with his/him in the appropriate places, I can agree with you.

Where can I volunteer for this kind of riding from you ebony??

 

[DVS]

Replace her with his/him in the appropriate places, I can agree with you.

You know, Eb, I'd like to see you in action, some time. But, from a safe distance. Yes, at times I can be a bit of a voyeur.