What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

I’m gonna risk a whole heap of flak because it’s not my place to say it - but neither of you have been ‘discarded’
I know from what you’ve said, Desiree, and from what I saw and heard, Scot, that you were both very much cared about by the people inspiring these comments. And probably still are in some form that I couldn’t speculate on
I don’t say that to suggest unfair things haven’t happened, or to minimize the hurt
But above stands
Gonna toss this in. The person I was with is very nice, and liked me at the very least. Neither of which stopped her from discarding me. Not mean, not angry, nor cruel, but thrown away none the less.

Which may be worse, as I'm still a little in pain with it far longer than had I seen a better reason.
 
Gonna toss this in. The person I was with is very nice, and liked me at the very least. Neither of which stopped her from discarding me. Not mean, not angry, nor cruel, but thrown away none the less.

Which may be worse, as I'm still a little in pain with it far longer than had I seen a better reason.
I’m sorry you experienced that
All I was trying to say was that I had no doubt in Scot’s case, and had the strong impression in Desiree’s case, that both of them were very much cared about and valued
I’m really sorry for your pain. And theirs
I won’t risk offense by saying anything more, because it’s important to vent too
Other than, I don’t believe ‘discarded’ is likely to be a fair way to describe it if they let you close enough to care like that; even if it feels like it
 
I’m sorry you experienced that
All I was trying to say was that I had no doubt in Scot’s case, and had the strong impression in Desiree’s case, that both of them were very much cared about and valued
I’m really sorry for your pain. And theirs
I won’t risk offense by saying anything more, because it’s important to vent too
Other than, I don’t believe ‘discarded’ is likely to be a fair way to describe it if they let you close enough to care like that; even if it feels like it
I'm not offended. I'm just offering a different perspective. You don't need to have the other person tear you apart to bleed. You don't have to have the other betray you, or go out of their way to hurt you, to be discarded. It doesn't have to be dramatic. But when you are dropped and replaced easily, I think "discarded" is as accurate as a word as I can find.

Lit is easy for disposable relationships.
 
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I'm not offended. I'm just offering a different perspective. You don't need to have the other person tear you apart to bleed. You don't have to have the other betray you, or go out of their way to hurt you, to discarded. It doesn't have to be dramatic. But when you are dropped and replaced easily, I think "discarded" is as accurate as a word as I can find.

Lit is easy for disposable relationships.
I’m not denying the bleeding, at all
I’m v sorry if what I said seemed insensitive, was with the best intentions
 
...23 years ago today I was sitting in front of a computer working and looking out of a big window. Much like I am today, but I probably won't remember today in a year or two. I will remember that day 23 years ago... I will never forget.
Happy memory or sad I'm glad you have moments to hold, life is made of memories.
*Edit* I just realized it is 9/11 and my comment isn't an appropriate response to that memory
 
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No surprise that Dawn is the one dirty minded enough to invent the game all over! 😉😂
The sauna game involves a solitary skittle being placed on the ‘interested’ man’s ‘expression’
Participants then use only their tongue to retrieve said candy
Usually followed by what you would expect in such a situation
This is sorta underwhelming, I gotta admit.

Like a rainbow party only worse.
 
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