What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

[Desiree_Radcliffe]

In high school I played Renfield on stage. As an adult, I dressed and Dracula for Halloween.

Are you trying to make me swoon? Also, the second best Renfield (after the one in the Lugosi Dracula) is the one who was in the Leslie Nielsen Dracula: Dead and Loving It. It may be my favorite Mel Brooks movie...

 

[SassySheDevil]

I am not sure if you're joking but just in case… and no, its not just cause I post tons of selfies

I've had a photography business for over 25 years. Its been big and small. I used to do tons of team, sport and school photos in my county, weddings, quinceañeras, bar/bat mitzvah’s and commercial photography. I had a handful of other photographers/employees and it was so fun! But it started small and it is back to that now. My focus is on small intimate gatherings and body positivity and inclusivity.
Oh, and I am a girl.

Have you thought about doing boudoirs? I feel like you would be really good at making the women comfortable.

 

[MindYaBitness]

I could go on, but it'd just be a bit unseemly. I aspire to Morticia but probably end up being more female Robert Smith? Or female Nick Cave...

Random fact: When I was a kid, I dressed as Morticia for Halloween. As an adult, I dressed as Wednesday.

I dressed as Elvira in the 3rd grade, put apples in my mom's bra fill it out

 

[Photog1rl]

Have you thought about doing boudoirs? I feel like you would be really good at making the women comfortable.

First, thank you!
Second, this is my main area of focus. I call it transformational boudoir and it is about removing the layers literally and figuratively. It is a process and the goal is to awaken the inner fire that we all possess. Working with someone and helping them see themselves as powerful, sensuous, sexual and so much more than enough is what drives me.
I think of it as boudoir without the focus being on the male gaze.
I mean men and women will want to gaze but my goal is for my clients to look at themselves and see their beauty.

 

[UnquietDreams]

Are you trying to make me swoon?

But of course!

 

[RideFl71]

First, thank you!
Second, this is my main area of focus. I call it transformational boudoir and it is about removing the layers literally and figuratively. It is a process and the goal is to awaken the inner fire that we all possess. Working with someone and helping them see themselves as powerful, sensuous, sexual and so much more than enough is what drives me.
I think of it as boudoir without the focus being on the male gaze.
I mean men and women will want to gaze but my goal is for my clients to look at themselves and see their beauty.

This is awesome.. I'd love to shoot boudoir or erotic photos.. Like you have said to bring the fire out of them.

 

[UnquietDreams]

I dressed as Elvira in the 3rd grade, put apples in my mom's bra fill it out

Think you still need the apples?

 

[SWR101]

I am sorry to read about what is going on. I won't say anything else other than it makes me both sad and confused.


Having said that....Ya girl Desiree now has an extra job.

CONGRATS!

 

[SWR101]

man, why is this line taking so long…

 

[DannieB]

Is it fast food on a Friday night?! Doomed!

 

[SassySheDevil]

First, thank you!
Second, this is my main area of focus. I call it transformational boudoir and it is about removing the layers literally and figuratively. It is a process and the goal is to awaken the inner fire that we all possess. Working with someone and helping them see themselves as powerful, sensuous, sexual and so much more than enough is what drives me.
I think of it as boudoir without the focus being on the male gaze.
I mean men and women will want to gaze but my goal is for my clients to look at themselves and see their beauty.

I did one several years ago and nothing made me cry as much (ok a few other things made me cry more but this was for a different reason) as seeing my beauty that she could capture through the camera. I felt so comfortable with her and she made every pose look amazing. Many of them felt super weird but I trusted her and in the end they came out amazing. It is something that I would like to do again but right now is not that time

 

[MiaBabe23]

Loving the rationale behind the names
Any guy wanna hold my hand while I watch something scary?! I get very scared lol

 

[DannieB]

Keep a light on, Mia!

 

[Desiree_Radcliffe]

CONGRATS!

Thank you so very much!

 

[Apisto42]

I am not sure if you're joking but just in case… and no, its not just cause I post tons of selfies

I've had a photography business for over 25 years. Its been big and small. I used to do tons of team, sport and school photos in my county, weddings, quinceañeras, bar/bat mitzvah’s and commercial photography. I had a handful of other photographers/employees and it was so fun! But it started small and it is back to that now. My focus is on small intimate gatherings and body positivity and inclusivity.
Oh, and I am a girl.

I was partially joking, but I had seen you post somewhere before about being a pro (not that kind of pro).

Apisto - is the first part of the Latin name for a South American fresh water fish that I used to have in an 80 gallon tank. 42 because I fucked up the original login and needed to add a number, and 42 is the answer.

 

[Desiree_Radcliffe]

But of course!

You're really bad (good) at that. I get all blushy.

 

[Photog1rl]

I was partially joking, but I had seen you post somewhere before about being a pro (not that kind of pro).

Apisto - is the first part of the Latin name for a South American fresh water fish that I used to have in an 80 gallon tank. 42 because I fucked up the original login and needed to add a number, and 42 is the answer.

I kind of figured but I can't help but overshare

Now I have to look up that fish. They say people resemble their pets…is that true in your case?

 

[Desiree_Radcliffe]

I dressed as Elvira in the 3rd grade, put apples in my mom's bra fill it out

This is literally the best idea ever.

Which leads me to think that this video has probably the best target audience here. Elvira is the Mae West of goth. I love the fuck out of her.

 

[DannieB]

Remembering why I don’t talk about certain things anymore. There’s somebody out there that has had it worse.

 

[SWR101]

Is it fast food on a Friday night?! Doomed!

Pretty much, got stuck in the drive through at Taco Bell…

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

Remembering why I don’t talk about certain things anymore. There’s somebody out there that has had it worse.

A really wonderful point that I heard a couple years ago, and I found it very empowering in dealing with some of my challenges head-on: Our brains, functionally, do not discriminate or categorize trauma into 'big' and 'small'. The physiological reactions to fear and danger, ext are essentially the same. Do not diminish your experiences based on your perception of others stories.

 

[Desiree_Radcliffe]

Remembering why I don’t talk about certain things anymore. There’s somebody out there that has had it worse.

There is, but that doesn't make your feelings less valid. Misery is not a competition. Your feelings, whatever they are, are valid.

 

[Desiree_Radcliffe]

A really wonderful point that I heard a couple years ago, and I found it very empowering in dealing with some of my challenges head-on: Our brains, functionally, do not discriminate or categorize trauma into 'big' and 'small'. The physiological reactions to fear and danger, ext are essentially the same. Do not diminish your experiences based on your perception of others stories.

What he said, as well.

 

[crazychemgirl]

Ah I don’t have Netflix! I’ll see if I can find it, thank you!

It’s genuinely terrifying. I’ve already seen it and I still jumped a thousand feet in the air at a scary part

 

[barefootgirl69]

I'd love to know the origin of people’s usernames.

Barefootgirl because it's who I am. I hate foot prisons. I only wear them if I  have to. And I needed a number because someone already had my name.