What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

Liberal use of the ignore button is going to be my friend from now on. I used to not like to put people on ignore because I didn't want to be mean, but now I think it's going to be the best thing for my sanity here, so that I don't have to feel angry and upset all the time.
You do you girl! You and your mental health should always come first
 
I’m so sorry! That place is just….unpredictable, that’s all I’ll say to sum it up.
Very, very accurate. I'd been on it for about 20 years--originally when I was exploring my sexuality as a college student. I feel it's gotten a lot worse since then. There are so many blatant misogynists there, and other argumentative, unpleasant sorts. Not everyone there is bad--obviously I got something from it when I was there a lot. But the quality of the chat has decreased a lot. Sometimes I am afraid of going into some of the rooms and making myself known.
 
In picking between 2 jobs that pay really well. 1 is a growing company, but then I have to return to the office (I've been remote for 7 years), the other is a unknown company and I get to work remote. Ahhhh
 
In picking between 2 jobs that pay really well. 1 is a growing company, but then I have to return to the office (I've been remote for 7 years), the other is a unknown company and I get to work remote. Ahhhh
Good luck. That sounds like a hard decision.
 
Liberal use of the ignore button is going to be my friend from now on. I used to not like to put people on ignore because I didn't want to be mean, but now I think it's going to be the best thing for my sanity here, so that I don't have to feel angry and upset all the time.
Absolutely feel this. There are some ghouls around here that don't deserve attention.
 
Hmmm. I'm feeling both dominant and submissive. I want to dominate my husband, but I also want him to soft dom me. He knows this, but this is also what I'm thinking.
 
Liberal use of the ignore button is going to be my friend from now on. I used to not like to put people on ignore because I didn't want to be mean, but now I think it's going to be the best thing for my sanity here, so that I don't have to feel angry and upset all the time.
By all means, curate your experience here. Not everyone is going to be in "our tribe". And there's no shame in having a large ignore list.
 
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