What do women fantasize about?

I guess it depends a lot on her personality, how was she raised, if she’s married. Divorced or single.
I will mention the case of 3 women friends of mine who trusted me enough to talk about the subject and my exwife.

Woman 1: very Catholic, in her early 40’s, single, very successful professional. Sex in public (obsessed with it since she saw a couple in Uni), with a young guy (probably reflecting the guy’s age and her’s when she experienced it) being taken roughly.

Woman 2: Catholic but unhinibited woman, single in her mid 40’s, professionally frustrated, she likes 15 years older men (usually with some level of power): very romantic & vanilla scenario, evolving to being discovered by someone she knows. Watching hetero porn and try to do something similar to what’s she’s watching. Avid erotica reader specially bondage and Stag/Vixen genere.

Woman 3: just turned 50. Used to be a fashion model, but after 2 daughters she got extremely fat, unhappy marriage, professionally very happy, very self confident. Fantasies: Doing an online sex chat having a tree some, with 2 guys partner get them to have sex with each other. She gets extremely hot when she reads chat stories (guess that’s RP) with descriptions of very realistic sex situations. I remember writing her a story a few years back, she was supervising a written test, so she had time to read, she had to call another teacher and run to the bathroom to avoid cumming in public, finish her up, clean herself and change her pad since it was soaking wet. The story was about cheating her husband with an ex BF who was also a patient at the same GP, and they ended having sex in a hospital OR. The story described in detail the not only the places, but the emotions of the lovers. She wanted a realistic chat story of 2 women having sex with or without a guy present (I got blocked and couldn’t write it). Her fantasies were extremely emotional sex situations, could be a bit kinky, but she’s not into porn

Woman 4: Early 50’s, mother of one, had 2 partners before we got married (almost 20 years), LL after her pregnancy. Never saw her masturbate I bought her vibrator never used until we separated. Unknown fantasies.
 
Hell yes, I fantasize. Sure, there are times for me that just touching myself is all I need. But most of the time, I do cook up little scenarios, usually girl/girl or FFM these days (Hubby is almost always the male lead for the FFM, rarely random dudes), or remember something from my past.

Having said that, before I met Hubby, I rarely relied on fantasies. I tended to go more toward remembering whatever guy I most recently blew or the most exciting recent BJ I gave. But that's because I'd given up on vaginal sex unless I was drunk, and I didn't like guys going down on me or fingering me. So, I gave BJs and then used that to get myself off later. If I did fantasize, it tended to be girl/girl, although I was in denial about being bi back then.
 
I tend to fantasize about things that could happen but haven't. Like accepting a naughty offer to take a shower with one of our guests, or my supervisor calling me into a conference room and telling me that my dress is too short followed by her touching my bare leg at the hemline and scolding me for being inappropriate at work as her hand gently discovers that I'm not wearing any panties. :devil:
 
I'd forgotten about that book. As a young man that was a great help.
Same here! That book was so damn hot! It’s still in a box in the attic somewhere. I’ve held onto it for 35 years! Might have a bit of trouble with some of the pages though. 😏
 
I fantasize about my next secret meeting with my FB.

What I will wear and what I won't.

And his kisses. All thr kisses
 
Are you really a guy? The reason I ask is because you seem to totally understand what most of us are going through.
Having a career, and also being a wife, mother, sister, friend takes up enough of our time that when we are not living the rigors of our hectic lives we would rather just curl up with a good book.
I don't pretend to speak for all women but for myself I'd rather just read a good romance story with a little steamy sex mixed in. It doesn't mean I want to be in any particular sexual situation myself but reading can allow me to escape to that fantasy world.
My husband often asks me about my fantasies and so just to please him I might tell him some details of past experiences or make up some hot stories to get him worked up.
He loves "pillow talk" and I've gotten pretty good at letting him think he is married to a women who has a much sexual prowess than I really have.
I'm sure that sounds dishonest to some, but it keeps our relationship exciting, and open just in case I ever decide to be the "Hotwife" he wants so bad and thinks I might be.
I do welcome your comments and thoughts.
💞 mm
This is about as honest of a comment as I’ve ever seen on this site.
 
Of course we do. How else would we orgasm? I fantasize about being used by three nice cocks. About having a passionate long term partner where the passion doesn’t die. About taking load after load of fertile cum inside me and being bred and having milk filled tits sucked while I’m pumped full of more cum. The list goes on and on. 😉
What a coincidence, I think of all of these exact same things as well. Plus a few other fantasies and kinks but these are the main ones for me too!
 
We men make no secret about what we fantasize about but I want to hear about what women fantasize about. Be descriptive. Are you married or single? Are there fantasies you tell your husband or boyfriend about? Are there those that you keep secret to yourself? What do you think about when you masterbate?
Actually I almost never discuss what I fantasize about. Even in an anonymous chat. It just seems way too intimate. It makes me very self conscious to let people (including my wife) know these things about me. I feel like I’m being judged.
 
When I am happy with my sexlife, I don't fantasise that much - or then just when he's away, and it will probably be about him doing something, maybe even memories. There simply isn't need for anything else! Unless it is a common fantasy, of course. I think I might still have an old SMS-story or two saved... They were chain stories between me and my ex, about 15 years ago.

When I am not happy with my sex life I do fantasise, but usually then it also feels difficult to tell my partner anything about them. It may be small things like a man touching me just so which he has never learned. (I may walk around the town wishing I had a guiding hand at the small of my back, for example.) Or then it may be wildly impossible situations in an alternative reality, like ritual group sex or ritual breeding.

While single I have also had a fantasy about meeting a man and the first time we end up in bed. Really material for a story, except that I always get distracted before the end.

But then again, I am actually more likely to just read stories here at Lit.
 
Lit is a great site for exploring fantasies by reading erotica, without giving anything away. There is something for almost everyone here!
 
Hmmmm.......to be honest I much prefer nice cuddles, chocolates, champagne and a slow, sexy fuck these days. BUT - when I do want to let my mind go a bit I adore thinking about being licked as I am being fucked. No matter how many toys I have tried, the best orgasms ever were still with a nice cock inside me and a hot, wet slippery tongue on my clit. MMm.........get's me everytime I have the need.
 
We men make no secret about what we fantasize about but I want to hear about what women fantasize about. Be descriptive. Are you married or single? Are there fantasies you tell your husband or boyfriend about? Are there those that you keep secret to yourself? What do you think about when you masterbate?
hello, I'm separated at the moment, but even when with my husband masturbated everyday. I got off thinking about previous exciting encounters and future ones with known and unknown lovers in dangerous situation were i could be seen being fucked
 
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