What happened to the xxxjessica thread?

[4bidnfruit]

Well of course it was obvious. No offense but how "kind" is it to issue insincere compliments to a person? That is just as bad IMHO. I predominantly post on the guys AmPic threads and I don't say things that I don't 100% mean.
Unlike most people and sorry I'm calling men on this one...I'm not into complimenting people w/ the ill-disguised thought of "I want a full strip tease free of charge, no hiding, no pretense" or what have you. Hell I would enjoy a guy MORE who had the ability to keep my mind stimulated verbally as opposed to stimulation via pictures...but I digress, I understand men are more so visual than women.

Her issue from the get go seemed to be that she wanted to try to outshine all the other AmPic posters - powr2theblondes, _me_, omgitselaine, ShyNaughtyGirl, Rawrrx, Begcil etc., From what I know (as I never saw only heard) she did it the only way she knew how and that was to try to go all out and try to be a bad girl, and she may have been a firework for what 3 weeks but the point is, she had no clue on how to be a tasteful tease. She left no air of mystery, nothing to tease the senses, she just put herself on display from the get go and what did it gain her?

Frankly IMHO she needs a shrink and a dose of reality!

I agree that she wanted to shine them but powr2theblonds, _me_, omgitselaine, shynaughtygirl, and Begcil, and others were confident and mature enough in their own sexuality that they didn't feel the need to feed into her insecurities. Which takes us back to my inital post about childish behavior.

I don't know if she was tasteful tease or not, i just read the thread but from what I seen, I will agree that you are probably right on her inability to be tasteful but I didn't even realize that was an issue. But it does seem to be one for many young girls that come thru.

I think complimenting someone is a bit different than kicking a dog when shes down (no insult to jessica, i just couldn't figure out a better way to say it).

anyway... I've said my peace. I was just trying to reply to the OP and didn't intend to stir the pot.


apologies to the names involved in this thread and i hope i at least spelled them correctly..

 

[fstuck]

Also.. I find it HIFUCKINGRADLARIOUS that people are still defending her. SHe was fucking crazy.. nobody pushed her off any sort of cliff.. she did it all to herself. WHen you act a fool on the internet, other people who spend a lot of time on the internet, are NOT going to let you go unnoticed.

 

[Sensualdreamer]

I must disagree that "the Best" should charge for their pictures.. I have way more respect for the girls who are on the ampics forum who just post for the exhibitionism and the fun of having the thread. But that's just me and my assho.. er, I mean opinion.

I do agree that she was completely unprepared for what she was getting herself into and that honestly, she didn't realize the full scope of what she was doing (i.e. giving everybody plenty of chances to put her down and take shots at her crazy personality). She probably didn't realize just how big this site is and that hardly anyone here is looking to commit their loyalty to ONE pic thread.. it's stupid. THat being said, I must say that I do kind of miss the drama show from her pic thread but I DO NOT miss her painfully awkward pictures and videos.. (that Kate would coerce me into looking at! God I love that girl) lol.. it's almost like she was an actress in a movie TRYING to be awkward and insecure.. it was just too cliche.

Oh I get what you're saying about the paying for pics, I admire the ladies on here that post on the threads...they're much braver than I am

I was just being sarcastic thus my mindset says if she were "the best" she wouldn't be on Lit, meaning by now surely Hugh Hefner would've discovered her

 

[Corbal]

 

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[Corbal]

Sorry! I thought this was the 'I Love' thread..........

 

[Jayzus]

I enjoyed the white knights personally. Whit knights are so transparent it's amusing.

 

[rawrrx]

I agree that she wanted to shine them but powr2theblonds, _me_, omgitselaine, shynaughtygirl, and Begcil, and others were confident and mature enough in their own sexuality that they didn't feel the need to feed into her insecurities. Which takes us back to my inital post about childish behavior.

I don't know if she was tasteful tease or not, i just read the thread but from what I seen, I will agree that you are probably right on her inability to be tasteful but I didn't even realize that was an issue. But it does seem to be one for many young girls that come thru.

I think complimenting someone is a bit different than kicking a dog when shes down (no insult to jessica, i just couldn't figure out a better way to say it).

anyway... I've said my peace. I was just trying to reply to the OP and didn't intend to stir the pot.


apologies to the names involved in this thread and i hope i at least spelled them correctly..

Haha, subtle exclusion of my name in there, eh?

Chances are you have no idea what my involvement in that thread was, so do not pretend you do.

I never fed into her insecurities at all, unless you count that one time I advised her to be careful about her pictures so that they don't get stolen and posted all over the internet - which, may I mention, I also advised pwr2theblondes and others with as well.

And going off-topic is not "kicking the dog when she's down" either. If you actually read the thread, you would realize I had no clue that you guys would consider me talking about popcorn with a fellow thread member a terrible thing to do. (Not to mention, that person I was discussing popcorn with didn't get any flak from it - no, only me, because apparently jessica hates me for no reason other than that I get attention from guys.. and so everyone else hates me on her thread, too.)

You're probably just like every other person who's jumping on the bandwagon to suggest I consciously contributed to jessica's mentality.

Ignorance is a bitch.

 

[k_m_d_]

...like a fat kid likes cake .

 

[4bidnfruit]

Haha, subtle exclusion of my name in there, eh?

Chances are you have no idea what my involvement in that thread was, so do not pretend you do.

I never fed into her insecurities at all, unless you count that one time I advised her to be careful about her pictures so that they don't get stolen and posted all over the internet - which, may I mention, I also advised pwr2theblondes and others with as well.

And going off-topic is not "kicking the dog when she's down" either. If you actually read the thread, you would realize I had no clue that you guys would consider me talking about popcorn with a fellow thread member a terrible thing to do. (Not to mention, that person I was discussing popcorn with didn't get any flak from it - no, only me, because apparently jessica hates me for no reason other than that I get attention from guys.. and so everyone else hates me on her thread, too.)

You're probably just like every other person who's jumping on the bandwagon to suggest I consciously contributed to jessica's mentality.



Ignorance is a bitch.

Yes.. ignorance is a bitch.

Personally, i don't chat with jessica, never have and i don't give a damn who she hates. I am capable of thinking for myself and I didn't call anyone out. I apologize if i hurt your feelings for not noticing your maturity.


I Forgot to add that I don't blame anyone for contributing to jessica's mentality. she is a product of her enviroment, so please don't put words in my mouth. I would never put that blame on anyone, especially on a public forum.

 

[fstuck]

Oh I get what you're saying about the paying for pics, I admire the ladies on here that post on the threads...they're much braver than I am

I was just being sarcastic thus my mindset says if she were "the best" she wouldn't be on Lit, meaning by now surely Hugh Hefner would've discovered her

Ah misunderstood. Yeah... she's def not the best.. lol

 

[rawrrx]

Yes.. ignorance is a bitch.

Personally, i don't chat with jessica, never have and i don't give a damn who she hate. I am capable of thinking for myself and I didn't call anyone out. I apologize if i hurt your feelings for not noticing your maturity.

*shrug* You can not notice the fact I have a penis too, and that wouldn't hurt my feelings either.

Feelings not hurt. I'm just tired of people trying to tell me I'm a terrible person. Sorry if you didn't mean any harm and I just jumped on you. Let's just say I'm a bit oversensitive to it.

 

[Legion_7]

Haha, subtle exclusion of my name in there, eh?

Chances are you have no idea what my involvement in that thread was, so do not pretend you do.

I never fed into her insecurities at all, unless you count that one time I advised her to be careful about her pictures so that they don't get stolen and posted all over the internet - which, may I mention, I also advised pwr2theblondes and others with as well.

And going off-topic is not "kicking the dog when she's down" either. If you actually read the thread, you would realize I had no clue that you guys would consider me talking about popcorn with a fellow thread member a terrible thing to do. (Not to mention, that person I was discussing popcorn with didn't get any flak from it - no, only me, because apparently jessica hates me for no reason other than that I get attention from guys.. and so everyone else hates me on her thread, too.)

You're probably just like every other person who's jumping on the bandwagon to suggest I consciously contributed to jessica's mentality.

Ignorance is a bitch.

Those of us who did do this resent being compared to you.

 

[darkbeast]

Deleted by her request.

 

[rawrrx]

Those of us who did do this resent being compared to you.

Sorry to not be as devious and malicious as you are.

But hey, I said consciously - apparently, I unconsciously contributed to her mentality.

(Apparently, even NOW she still hates everyone who talks to me and orders them not to. Crazy.)

 

[darkbeast]

My God, you read my mind!

The colors are shown.

 

[rawrrx]

By the way, I forgot to mention, Corbal.. I enjoyed those random pictures, especially that one.

I love cookies too!

 

[Legion_7]

Sorry to not be as devious and malicious as you are.

But hey, I said consciously - apparently, I unconsciously contributed to her mentality.

(Apparently, even NOW she still hates everyone who talks to me and orders them not to. Crazy.)

*shrug* Who knows? I give up even trying to understand. I mean, I understand the urge to try and help her. Even when I criticized her, I tried not to be cruel about it (joking aside). But at some point, you just have to give up and admit that the girl has issues, and has no business being in place like this. And with that, I feel that I've devoted enough of my time to that drama.

 

[darkbeast]

I find the tenor of this entire thread to be distasteful.

Let me start a thread about each of you to talk about you behind your back while you are trying to take a break from Lit and take a deep breath and gain perspective. Really hard to do when you want to respond to people talking about you, right?

 

[4bidnfruit]

Sorry to not be as devious and malicious as you are.

But hey, I said consciously - apparently, I unconsciously contributed to her mentality.

(Apparently, even NOW she still hates everyone who talks to me and orders them not to. Crazy.)

Whoa~ I am a bit unclear on how any of my comments could make anyone feel that I believe they are responsbile for her mentality. That is just silly and quite honestly, you are too damn young to even think you could be responsible for that. The only way that could be possible is if you had a child of your own and then you would hold some responsibility.

If anyone told you that than that is their ignroance. I wasn't even trying to defend jessica when this started. I was defending the fact that this is an adult forum and it seemed to get petty and childish.

Seriously~ i do apologize if you felt that i held you accountable for her mentality. that mess is on her and I do think you are too young to even consider such bullshit.

 

[pwr2theblondes]

I find the tenor of this entire thread to be distasteful.

Let me start a thread about each of you to talk about you behind your back while you are trying to take a break from Lit and take a deep breath and gain perspective. Really hard to do when you want to respond to people talking about you, right?

I agree. This thread has become a little tacky.

 

[rawrrx]

Whoa~ I am a bit unclear on how any of my comments could make anyone feel that I believe they are responsbile for her mentality. That is just silly and quite honestly, you are too damn young to even think you could be responsible for that. The only way that could be possible is if you had a child of your own and then you would hold some responsibility.

If anyone told you that than that is their ignroance. I wasn't even trying to defend jessica when this started. I was defending the fact that this is an adult forum and it seemed to get petty and childish.

Seriously~ i do apologize if you felt that i held you accountable for her mentality. that mess is on her and I do think you are too young to even consider such bullshit.

Oh no, I didn't mean you at all. A few people PMed me previously saying I shouldn't have posted in her thread and because I posted in there, I was partially (read very) responsible for her getting upset and her leaving. It wasn't what you said at all.

Of course I realize I'm not responsible for her mentality. Far from it.

The only responsibility I have right now is MY mentality - speaking of which, I should get on with preparing for my midterm so that I don't end up getting an emotional breakdown from not being prepared come tomorrow.

With that, I tip my hat to the participants of this thread and wish you all well. If you insist on discussing this with me, feel free to take it to PM. No promises on a reply though.