An ex girlfriend I had cussed on occasion and was ashamed of it. She would even cover her mouth after letting one out sometimes. I found it hot! It might be because of her reaction. And it wasn’t like every other word. Hearing other women cuss does nothing for me, just when she would do it.
I am a really tall guy and have big hands. Every once in a while, a woman will put her hands up against mine to compare hers to mine. Women’s hands are sexy, and I like playing it cool when they do this.
I'm not sure what it's called in English. Talking smack? Talking back? Gift of Gab? Anyways, what I mean is when a girl always has a comeback for anything I say. I have an example. I was just hanging out at my favorite pub and stopped by the darts corner on the way back to my booth. I watched as this redhead threw a dart and I said: "Well, that wasn't very good, was it?" The next thing I know I'm invited to the game and eating my words, and when it was over me and her stuck together just trading sly remarks and humorous insults for hours. Always looking for an opening, always parrying. Kinda like that bullshit scene in Gone Girl when Affleck meets Pike for the first time, except our conversation didn't sound like it was scripted by someone straight out of school. That shit turns my brain on.
I have been known to say (especially in real life) there is nothing more fun than throwing a woman around on the dance floor. I think the hottest sexual experience I've had was with one partner when she came home on Christmas break from college.
Contra (see my signature) is a very plastic form of dance which easily integrates other dance forms. The current (i.e. pre covid) fashion for the last 10 years or so has been integrating swing dance moves.
We are dancing in the contra line and definitely putting in some swing. We get to the end of the line, where you sit out, and we just went into overdrive. There were jaws dropping and comments made for that minute or so of intense athletic dancing, where I, while under control, threw her every which way. We came back up the line a few times round before the music ended, at which point we panted (as in out of breath) to each other how much we missed dancing with each other.
For me it was pure primal dominance, with flair and grace. Over two years later I continue thinking about it (the fact that she's smart, sweet and has a killer figure didn't hurt).