What is a non-sexual thing that you find super hot?

[Deleted member 1405174]

A woman who has enough confidence and natural appeal to knock me off my feet in her jeans, t-shirt, and lightly applied pre school teacher makeup. We are coming up on 21 years.

 

[lanceGibs]

Stretch marks in a woman's back .

 

[InterestingOne]

Men who have an organized and clean house. Especially the bathrooms.

Seems like a lot of women say this

 

[hulmule]

women that wear a ball cap.

 

[DrewM88]

hmm... I like a women that has a bit of sass to her personality and is sarcastic but in the right way. A bit of an attitude. Not mean, not passive aggressive. It's hard to describe lol. A sense of humour.

A smart women who knows what she's talking about when she opens her mouth and doesn't "um" and "i don't know" a lot.

 

[hulmule]

A beautiful smile.

 

[slavemelanie]

An unshaven Man...Confident and assertive but never arrogant

 

[MissPennyLane]

Rolled up sleeves, preferably a white shirt but doesn't have to be. I don't know why but that forearm-bare wrist area on a man is like the hottest thing, I am honestly getting hot thinking about it now.

 

[DarkDecurion]

Good Dads always make me melt..

Good mothers do the same for me

 

[Goldenfinger]

For some odd reason, I am a sucker for pony tails, and when a lady has her hair up, with just a few strands framing her face. Knocks me for a loop every time.

I like hair buns. But I was conditioned. In the navy women with long hair wore in a bun. Then when my wife performs oral sex she always puts her hair in a bun.

 

[Bbl87]

I find girls that are outdoorsy very attractive. Whether it's hunting, fishing, hiking, etc.. Kinda bordering on tomboy, but a tiny bit more girly I guess. Especially with their hair back in a pony tail to do all the outdoorsy stuff.

 

[EarlyDawn1973]

I find that a woman who likes doing yard work, mowing the lawn, powerwashing..whatever..is incredibly sexy. Sounds silly but that's just me.

 

[Bisexguy70]

A woman who tells jokes. Female comedians turn me on.

 

[Bbl87]

Something like this? Although I wouldn't be caught dead drinking budweiser. And I can't afford a Subaru View attachment 2186640

Haha, kinda. Some of that comes across as a little more hipster outdoorsy (specifically the Instagram and the Subaru! ), but the general idea is there. I'm a bit of a redneck, so I like an authentic country woman!

 

[Bisexguy70]

I always loved watching my teachers in class. Teaching me lessons. Anytime other students disrespected them i wanted to just hug them and tell them how much i appreciated their hard work.

 

[Bisexguy70]

Oh yea. And a woman driving a big truck! I watch all those trucker gals on youtube. Huge Lisa Kelly IRT Fan

 

[Paligirl]

ok. for guys: Youre handy. You figure it out and get it done. You dont wait for it to show up for ya. And in shape...take care of yourself, and groomed well. Long thorny toenails- vomit! Too much hair, NO!
for women; cleverness and good manners. thought out and considered conversation responses. not morally ambiguous. pretty but not assuming.

 

[AnnyMouse28]

When a guy does something unexpected because they know it will make you happy.

 

[Ingenue844]

We were watching the first episode of Yellowstone and my husband, who grew up on a Montana ranch, mentioned how much he missed riding horses and branding with all his siblings and neighbors.

I was floored. Told him to go put his wranglers and boots on

 

[Goldenfinger]

Hair bun
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[TallGlassOfSarcasm]

A confident assertive woman

 

[emme8]

Watching my husband teach my kids geometry or calculus.
I'm always amazed that he can explain something so complicated so simply.

 

[Nekidinaz]

A guy who can dance. I don't mean pretending to have sex on the dance floor. I mean dancing. Even ballroom dancing. That shit is hot to me.

Love to dance ...country, west coast swing, some ballroom but mainly the first two...you're right...dancing is hot

 

[AlexBailey]

When someone can sing and play a song in a crowded room, and when they finish you can hear a pin drop.

 

[lanceromance37]

Smoking/Vaping. HUGE turnon, no idea why. Bonus points if they don't turn away while doing so and blow the smoke in my face.

Getting a hug from someone just *slightly* sweaty/after working out. Just, sweaty people in general, honestly haha

I used to have a t-shirt that said 'Don't sweat the petty. Pet the sweaty' which I wore to raves. Sadly it was damaged beyond saving in an unfortunate spilled bleach accident.