What is normal anymore

That's a good question, about the shaving. If you mean legs and underarms, for me it's just because I like how those parts look when they're smooth (and I find hairless armpits to stay more ... fragrant ;))

If you mean pussy, then for me it's about the feeling as much as the look. I started with that form of exfoliation 25 years ago, when it wasn't (I think) the 'norm' as it is now, but I liked how it felt, both during sex and otherwise, so I kept doing it, to differing extents.

I agree with previous posters though, that you shouldn't hold yourself up against one idea of male beauty and feel that you are wanting. That hairless, circumcised depiction of males certainly isn't everyone's ideal.
 
That's a good question, about the shaving. If you mean legs and underarms, for me it's just because I like how those parts look when they're smooth (and I find hairless armpits to stay more ... fragrant ;))

If you mean pussy, then for me it's about the feeling as much as the look. I started with that form of exfoliation 25 years ago, when it wasn't (I think) the 'norm' as it is now, but I liked how it felt, both during sex and otherwise, so I kept doing it, to differing extents.

I agree with previous posters though, that you shouldn't hold yourself up against one idea of male beauty and feel that you are wanting. That hairless, circumcised depiction of males certainly isn't everyone's ideal.

Agree with how much nicer shaving is, legs, arm pits, even pussy. But i do like a small amount of hair...off subject sorry.

They will re standards i know in my heart i could not live up too. Guess that is why i am confused wirh it. Is circumcision that big of a deal? I had a female freind recently that we have known each other sometime...no in a sexual way...see my penis and was rather put off by it...just kind of touched it, laugh or snicker a couple of times then excussed herself and left.
 
I grew-up having much pride , in my skills in the" art of fellatio" ...I've only been with a few gentlemen who were uncircumcised ...There is definitely a diffidence on how one should handle a man's cock ...I was told that a gentleman enjoys , and this is just what he told me personally,...he enjoyed when I was sucking on his cock He like me to slowly work my tongue down between the loose skin and his hard stiff cock...but, you had to be careful not to stretch or pull to tightly his skin...mmm swirl my tongue's tit on the slit of his cock and a coat my full lips with his sweet. clear, glistening...precum yummy:rose:
 
<snip> I had a female freind recently that we have known each other sometime...no in a sexual way...see my penis and was rather put off by it...just kind of touched it, laugh or snicker a couple of times then excussed herself and left.

IMHO you had a lucky escape there. If you treated any part of her body in that way you'd get called an insensitive so and so (or worse) wouldn't you? Well, the same goes for her behaviour towards you.

You can't always help what you prefer, but if she was that insensitive and unkind just looking at you, I'd rather not think about what she'd be like to have sex with.
 
IMHO you had a lucky escape there. If you treated any part of her body in that way you'd get called an insensitive so and so (or worse) wouldn't you? Well, the same goes for her behaviour towards you.

You can't always help what you prefer, but if she was that insensitive and unkind just looking at you, I'd rather not think about what she'd be like to have sex with.

Exactly. I am normally secure with myself hell i am 44. But that played with my head. I can say i have not talked to her since.

Could you imagine if i were to touch her pussy and then snickered and got up and left....holy shit.
 
I grew-up having much pride , in my skills in the" art of fellatio" ...I've only been with a few gentlemen who were uncircumcised ...There is definitely a diffidence on how one should handle a man's cock ...I was told that a gentleman enjoys , and this is just what he told me personally,...he enjoyed when I was sucking on his cock He like me to slowly work my tongue down between the loose skin and his hard stiff cock...but, you had to be careful not to stretch or pull to tightly his skin...mmm swirl my tongue's tit on the slit of his cock and a coat my full lips with his sweet. clear, glistening...precum yummy:rose:

Wow...let me adjust my jeans.
 
good luck man, i share your pain.

being an uncut guy myself I dont' see myself getting naked with a woman ever again.
 
Weekender, allow me to come in on this, me a British man and, as is typical of us, hairy in various places not least my pubes, and most definitely not circumcised and Oh So Thanking My Lucky Stars that the society I am a part of values the natural maleness of men and the entirety of their equipment un-tampered with.

OK I must accept that you live in a society where a lot of women have been 'conditioned' into wanting or needing the kind of male body which in the British view is a reduction of masculinity. But plenty, plenty of American women are not thus conditioned. If you have got personal with one or two who can't take you as you are, Move On my friend, and live your life to the full with your body the way you want it to be - and YES without an operation which certainly reduces the sexual pleasure a man can enjoy [How Abusive Is That!!!] - There are women out there who are waiting to be All Over You!

Simon - hairy, whole, and sexy as fuck. :cool:
 
Weekender, allow me to come in on this, me a British man and, as is typical of us, hairy in various places not least my pubes, and most definitely not circumcised and Oh So Thanking My Lucky Stars that the society I am a part of values the natural maleness of men and the entirety of their equipment un-tampered with.

OK I must accept that you live in a society where a lot of women have been 'conditioned' into wanting or needing the kind of male body which in the British view is a reduction of masculinity. But plenty, plenty of American women are not thus conditioned. If you have got personal with one or two who can't take you as you are, Move On my friend, and live your life to the full with your body the way you want it to be - and YES without an operation which certainly reduces the sexual pleasure a man can enjoy [How Abusive Is That!!!] - There are women out there who are waiting to be All Over You!

Simon - hairy, whole, and sexy as fuck. :cool:

Thaks for those words. I have been with many women myself and never had an issue. Actually most found me being uncut rather different and more enjoyable.

But i will take your advice and move past her...not good for me anyway. Thanks
 
Agreed...had much confidence before. Now that i am single again...struggling with my appearance naked again in front of someone who has not seen me naked

I think that is a normal feeling, especially being out of 'the dating scene' for a while. That being said, confidence is sexy, being able to hold an interesting conversation, clean and well groomed is a starting point. Well chiseled, hairless chest.. they're sexy... but so is a wonderfully hairy chest that one can rest her head on and run her fingers through.

So... I started a thread because I love hairy chests...
 
I think that is a normal feeling, especially being out of 'the dating scene' for a while. That being said, confidence is sexy, being able to hold an interesting conversation, clean and well groomed is a starting point. Well chiseled, hairless chest.. they're sexy... but so is a wonderfully hairy chest that one can rest her head on and run her fingers through.

So... I started a thread because I love hairy chests...



the clean and well groomed thing is great and easy for some.

but i am always working with my hands, and some things aren't easy to wash off entirely or if you do get your hands clean etc, they just get dirty again repeatedly.

I used to be I think pretty well groomed, I used to clean shave with a razor weekly etc. but I've gotten away from it because its a lot of work, I got tired of cutting my face, and it didn't really seem to matter to the ladies anyways.
 
Just wanted to let you in on a secret.

I have had both cut and uncut cocks. Preference? Uncut.
I can do more with it. And there are studies about the difference in sensation between cut and uncut. By all means, I am not saying one is better than the other they both have their pros and cons over all (The thought that uncut will be saggy and gross in old age. Small price to pay for more sexual pleasure your whole life?)

Also I may be old school but I prefer men with more body hair than me. But we all have our own preferences.

Love yourself, you sound wonderful. 💋🌹
 
... (The thought that uncut will be saggy and gross in old age. Small price to pay for more sexual pleasure your whole life?) ...

Love yourself, you sound wonderful. 💋🌹

Nice post, babygirl. I'd like to comment on the piece I've quoted. I've not heard that this might happen. But for the sake of general knowledge: here's me, 63, with equipment which has had raucous use frequently my whole adult life, and my foreskin is as 'trim' on my glans when I'm flaccid and as 'disappeared' on my shaft when I'm fully erect - as it was when I first played around.

I notice the wrinkles around my mouth from all the smiling, and oh dear the hairline, but ... in my pants seems much the same as decades ago I have to say!
 
Just wanted to let you in on a secret.

I have had both cut and uncut cocks. Preference? Uncut.
I can do more with it. And there are studies about the difference in sensation between cut and uncut. By all means, I am not saying one is better than the other they both have their pros and cons over all (The thought that uncut will be saggy and gross in old age. Small price to pay for more sexual pleasure your whole life?)

Also I may be old school but I prefer men with more body hair than me. But we all have our own preferences.

Love yourself, you sound wonderful. 💋🌹

Guess that is me as well...old school. Before now never uad a big issue with the exception of maybe high school.
 
If you mean pussy, then for me it's about the feeling as much as the look. I started with that form of exfoliation 25 years ago, when it wasn't (I think) the 'norm' as it is now, but I liked how it felt, both during sex and otherwise, so I kept doing it, to differing extents.

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Pussy hair collects your secretions and diffuses them into the air like little wicks giving a more intense aroma in the immediate vicinity. I want to drown in that smell. Hair please! :D
 
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