What makes sissies tick?

[Kantarii]

Nothing makes me tick, but there were a few guys in my days that made me fucking purr and OMG!
Kant

 

[Lucia_slt]

Thank you, Jamie. I appreciate your experience. It's been a journey since that original post and hubby has sucked cock dozens of times now and loves to be fucked like the sissy 'she' is.

So what ticks in a sissy's wife mind?
Does sucking cocks and being fucked make your husband gay for you? Do you still perceive her as your husband and man?

 

[BiiCuz]

It's not a tick, it's a lifestyle of where you submit, worship, and obey...

The thought or action of pleasing

 

[newhere2learn]

why such labels ??
Cds love being feminine, some love being erotic and pleasing others may just enjoy the feeling. Sissy ?? Not sure what that really means ?

Very much agree. For me, it's ass play. Get my ass excited and I go from a tall and stocky guy in control to a tiny sissy begging for a cock in me.


Nothing will ever equal the pleasure of cumming soft, from p spot massage alone

 

[dacoach44]

Well Annie...

Thank you, Jamie. I appreciate your experience. It's been a journey since that original post and hubby has sucked cock dozens of times now and loves to be fucked like the sissy 'she' is.

You dont know where it winds up. Of course its scary. Wives have to be concerned when hubs finds sexual delight in something else. Its a test of your tolerance, i would say. Sex is powerful, but doesnt have to run you whole life. Most of the CD's I have been with have felt like being femme for decades. Most are in the closet as well. They love it all; the makeup, the dressing, the going out, the sucking and getting fucked. Some even get into HRT. At least its out in the open, and you know whats going on.
Men will use your sissy, but wont try to take her away from you.

I hope you are getting your own delights as well. Seems that would lessen the chances of you feeling cheated. I would bet that if the rest of the marriage is on an even keel, the money, the work, all of that; that you will weather this OK.

 

[jackstud]

Nothing makes me tick, but there were a few guys in my days that made me fucking purr and OMG!
Kant

One that wants to make you PURR

 

[SweetAnnie40]

So what ticks in a sissy's wife mind?
Does sucking cocks and being fucked make your husband gay for you? Do you still perceive her as your husband and man?

We're all bi-sexual to varying degrees. Hubby is just embracing her bi-sexuality. Hubby is a man, a husband, and a sissy. They overlap.

 

[sub2femdom]

Hi. I'm not a sissy, though I wondered for a time if I were before coming out as a trans woman, so maybe I can throw some light on it?
There's a thread here too called 'why do older men become Bi' or something like that and that might be worth a look - you don't say how old your fella is.

This may sound corny, but all men in western societies are expected to perform a perceived/imposed role as 'What a man should be' whether he likes it or not. Most men don't mind, are happy to be privileged and enjoy every aspect of the role. By that I mean the macho, doesn't cry, looks after his wuman, can use power-tools, never reads instructions - you know, the regular guy - oh and they're nearly always homophobic: even the slightest suggestion of saying or doing something gay will horrify them.

But then there are men who don't quite fit that stereotype - maybe they've secretly questioned their own sexuality (as 90% of kids do around puberty as part of growing up). Maybe they prefer reading a book to taking apart the lawn-mower, maybe they love soap tv and not the science documentary, maybe they prefer fishing to playing football? Maybe they find they don't fit the hairy-chested stereotype and pulling ring-pulls off with their teeth? ( These are all horrible stereotypes and I hate myself for repeating them because I do science )
Most importantly, they've had the courage and intelligence to question that stereotype and not blindly accept it.

From what you've described, I'd say you have a great relationship because he's had the courage to open up to you about those feelings. He's not changing - he's still the man you fell in love with, you're just discovering more of him. Lady - he really trusts you - how special is that?! Now what you've gotta do is discuss it openly and talk it through. If you're worried, then say so, but maybe do that with the perspective that this is a part of him he's kept hidden, until he found someone he trusts. What may happen is that all those bottled up feelings may splurge out at first, so he'll need to get past that and find a balance where he feels happier expressing those feelings without freaking you out.

I hope this helps

^^^ This is so spot-on accurate !

As a sissy cuckold, I'm pretty much the anti-stereotype male mentioned above. I don't take apart lawnmowers, and would rather enjoy a drink and listen to a Carole King record. It's not just that though, I never fit into the whole guys club machismo thing, I'm that sensitive guy who always ends up friend zoned, etc..

But more than anything, I was always bi, just not able to come out to even myself about it until my late 30's, and then to act on it took another 5 or so years.

I found videos online, realized I'm not alone, then began my self discovery of my wife's panty drawer, which eventually led to full crossdressing (although I'm still in the closet, this is behind closed doors only).

So what makes us tick? I don't know, but spending my entire life having to be the MAN, and man up all the time, take care of everyone, my family, her family, etc.. I wore down. When I go into the bedroom, call me lazy or whatever, but I don't want to be responsible for orchestrating the sexual encounter. Let someone else conduct, I'll just play whatever instrument the conductor tells me to.

Being bi just allows me to accept the desire to play a female role in the bedroom, and dressing up in sexy lingerie helps me mentally fall into that role.

I suspect the OP's husband is bi, and just hasn't come to terms with it, but encouragement and support in playing the feminine role may ease him enough to open up about it.

Keep in mind, bi isn't gay. He's not going anywhere if he's bi, although he would probably want to experiment. Support him and let him, he isn't going anywhere if you keep a safe and comfortable atmosphere at home for him.

 

[cuckoldbill]

^^^ This is so spot-on accurate !

As a sissy cuckold, I'm pretty much the anti-stereotype male mentioned above. I don't take apart lawnmowers, and would rather enjoy a drink and listen to a Carole King record. It's not just that though, I never fit into the whole guys club machismo thing, I'm that sensitive guy who always ends up friend zoned, etc..

But more than anything, I was always bi, just not able to come out to even myself about it until my late 30's, and then to act on it took another 5 or so years.

I found videos online, realized I'm not alone, then began my self discovery of my wife's panty drawer, which eventually led to full crossdressing (although I'm still in the closet, this is behind closed doors only).

So what makes us tick? I don't know, but spending my entire life having to be the MAN, and man up all the time, take care of everyone, my family, her family, etc.. I wore down. When I go into the bedroom, call me lazy or whatever, but I don't want to be responsible for orchestrating the sexual encounter. Let someone else conduct, I'll just play whatever instrument the conductor tells me to.

Being bi just allows me to accept the desire to play a female role in the bedroom, and dressing up in sexy lingerie helps me mentally fall into that role.

I suspect the OP's husband is bi, and just hasn't come to terms with it, but encouragement and support in playing the feminine role may ease him enough to open up about it.

Keep in mind, bi isn't gay. He's not going anywhere if he's bi, although he would probably want to experiment. Support him and let him, he isn't going anywhere if you keep a safe and comfortable atmosphere at home for him.

Very well put, thank you sub2. I can empathise with almost everything you have written.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

Hey girls... who loves to watch the Awards Shows to see what the women are wearing? Do you dream of what it would feel like to wear those gowns?

 

[bimori]

We're all bi-sexual to varying degrees. Hubby is just embracing her bi-sexuality. Hubby is a man, a husband, and a sissy. They overlap.

I think whatever gets you off everyone should embrace from get the labels and just enjoy what you love to do. What ever gets you off and / or your partner just have fun with in.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

If a sissy is fully indulged, as my husband has been for a year and a half, do they all lose interest in regular sex? It's been forever since we had traditional sex, or since he would get hard for me outside of the context of me playing sissy games with him. Just sadly wondering if this is typical. It isn't super-critical now that my sexual energies are totally focused on my Mistress but I'm still curious.

 

[htobeme5]

sissy

There are days i like being a sissy (like today!). and love wearing ice skating tights, bra, and always discreet disposible panties. Other days, i am all hormonal male, who loves to please a woman, and get her off several times, before i cum. Sorry your husbands male side hasn't come back more often.I love the smell of a wet pussy on me, weather given to me by a partner, or left over from me giving fertile sperm to a partner.He may need to go to the low testosterone dr., to get him hard and sexual with you again. Are you still on any birthcontrol?

 

[vizio]

If a sissy is fully indulged, as my husband has been for a year and a half, do they all lose interest in regular sex? It's been forever since we had traditional sex, or since he would get hard for me outside of the context of me playing sissy games with him. Just sadly wondering if this is typical. It isn't super-critical now that my sexual energies are totally focused on my Mistress but I'm still curious.

I don't believe I fit into the "Sissy" category. Ever since my ex first dressed me I cant get enough of feminine attire especially when it comes to sex. However where I live now it is difficult to find a woman that finds my dressing as appealing as my ex did. We both agreed that when I dressed for sex it was the best we both had ever had which led to me being dressed for most of our sexual activity. We did on occasion have sex in the " typical " manner and it was good.
I love to dress when ever I can which is most weekends especially in the winter months. I have found that my orgasms are far more intense when I'm fem both during sex with a partner or masturbation.

 

[jackbird]

why??

Everyone has some fetish they enjoy. Why do some love big tits or big cocks or big balls. Can't answer why people enjoy different things when it comes to sex. I don's know if you can call me a sissy or not. I enjoy wearing women's sexy under things. Started at 14 moms stockings then went farther. Then started sucking when dressed.
I love pussy but there's a special place that I enjoy pleasing a man when dressed plus he wants me might have something to know I can pleasure him.

 

[justasissy]

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph56600ef63953d
long, but so good !

yessssssssss

 

[jackstud]

yes baby

 

[justasissy]

i'm like totally all yours

 

[sweettalk4u]

That is perplexing. In my case it was because I was submissive and my Dom told me to. Maybe the kink between you has grown so much and gotten so hot that he is trying more and more. Maybe he is doing it as a task like I did?

 

[diaperedtiffany]

I have been with my wife for 18 years. I’m still introducing new things I want to try. It took 15 years to asked to be pegged.

 

[bicurious19]

A cock in my mouth
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph597f74d433d9d

 

[keitht6]

for me

I was always a leader at work and at home, always in charge, one day I just wanted to switch roles even if just in fantasy. I saw online that men enjoyed men that dressed in womens clothes, I tried it and I had never been so turned on and aroused. men online started seeing that when I got on cam. I truly enjoyed someone else being in charge and take control. it was humiliating especially when I showed my face dressed like that. I even enjoyed letting things.. personal things slip out of me..

 

[irishblade]

We're all bi-sexual to varying degrees. Hubby is just embracing her bi-sexuality. Hubby is a man, a husband, and a sissy. They overlap.

Oh my god that’s beautiful. There’s things I need to embrace but my wife wouldn’t be nearly as supportive as you seem to be.

 

[irishblade]

It's difficult to explain; I'm not gay, not attracted to men at all. I couldn't kiss one or get hard and fuck a man's bottom.

But I do enjoy being a submissive sissy slut, I go weak at the sight of a huge, erect, spunking cock, and love wearing lingerie, heels and make-up.

It's the whole female glamour thing that does it for me, dressing like a girl and doing what a girl does.

This is me also!

 

[SweetAnnie40]

This is me also!

Hubby is similar. He's never had feelings for another man or wanted to date one or kiss one. But put on his finest sissy satin slutwear and he would do anything to wrap his lips around a cock and get it to cum. I guess its just a sissy thing.