What to do with an Attention Whore?

[leomasoch]

In the world of BDSM it is possible to put a positive twist on being ignored. The attention whore should try it.

In my vanilla life I enjoy being the centre of attention, enjoy telling a funny story, enjoy people laughing at my jokes.

What a contrast that is to situations I have been in with my Mistress. For example: wearing nothing but a frilly satin apron one afternoon, I served drinks and canapés to her and a girlfriend.

While they chatted, I spoke not a word for over two hours, standing silently to attention, unless called upon to replenish a glass or proffer food.

The humility of such subservience is an experience of intense subspace.

leo

 

[the captians wench]

So on the topic of attention whoring, do any pyl's who participate in public play find themselves doing everything in their power to be a 'better' pyl?

Occasionally, and usually around a specific pyl, I catch myself wanting to out bottom, for lack of a better term. To take more, to go further, to give that extra something. And there is a satisfaction in being able bottom in a way (to a degree?) that draws a crowd to the scene. It isn't something plotted out in advance, it just ends up happening sometimes.

ETA: IThe challenge factor also holds a great deal of appeal for me, so please don't think that my People are pushing this. I doubt they're even aware of it since I am so naturally drawn to the challenge.

I've had simular experiences but not quite the same.

I've been in the middle of demos at clubs (not public playing, just the shop I was with was demenstrating different items using me as the bottom and the music as the insperation). I pushed harder to get to the end of the song, to hold up and not show any weakness or sign of cracking, so that I would get to be in the center of this demo again. Be it later that night or another one.

I also did this in private situations. I wanted the Top to be so happy with how well I could take anything he dished out that he would want to use me again. And whether it was because of this, or because they just generally liked me, I'll never really be sure, but that doesn't bother me.