What word(s) do you use when refering to having sex?

[GentlemanJunkie]

I can't say any word really bothers me all that much. Terms I don't like are *cutesy* ones that use. Like "mousy" or "hoo hoo" for vaginas. That just makes it seem gross to me. Ha.

 

[DarkPleasures]

Dark Pleasures, I think I love you

Giggle.

 

[Beck31]

I apologize if i came across as a jerk. perhaps will try to work on not getting mad.
Thank you for your honest replies.

 

[Aurelia_Malys]

I can't say any word really bothers me all that much. Terms I don't like are *cutesy* ones that use. Like "mousy" or "hoo hoo" for vaginas. That just makes it seem gross to me. Ha.

*cringe and laughing* Oh GJ, I have a friend who refers to women and men as "peaches and pickles" ... and will *never* deviate and will even cringe if I use anatomically accurate terms!

 

[DarkPleasures]

I apologize if i came across as a jerk. perhaps will try to work on not getting mad.
Thank you for your honest replies.

This is a great post.

(Not trying to beat a dead chicken here or anything, but wanted to say thank you for manning up.)

Certainly, the Net is nothing to get mad about! Life's too short. For all you know, I'm your next door neighbor, your kid's teacher, your sister. You may be Obama or my ex husband. Or, of course, a man I'll never know anything about or meet in my lifetime.

Take things at face value, or with a grain of salt. Some people may post just to get under your skin. (Commonly most of us call them trolls for being "trouoble makers" on purpose.) As you know, others will have other opinions and sometimes disagree with you. That's the beauty of having a discussion board that only allows legal adults in it!

 

[JustImagineMe]

And *this* is why I quote you now Beck ... I think it is really rotten that when conversations don't go the way you want, you edit or delete your posts! I can even understand rephrasing the op if you thought the question you were asking wasn't clear. But to come back and edit your other replies feels underhanded to me. If you want to clarify your view, then a subsequent post to that effect seems to me to be the most upstanding way to do that. As always, jmho.

It shows character to either 1.) defend yourself and your posting, or 2.) admit if/when you're wrong, perhaps apologize if you're such a person, and then move on.

To edit content and totally change it as you did, and then pretend that the original comment was never said (so noobs walking in here remain clueless), shows bad character.

And, that is my opinion. Not "fact", per se.

I'm late to this thread but, once again, Aurelia_Malys and DarkPleasures, I find myself agreeing with you both

OK, to take this conversation in a more constructive direction ....

What are your preferred terms for body parts such as penises, vaginas, breasts?

If I'm talking with my children, it's willy, bits and boobs which, writing them down here sound rather daft, but I'm happy with those names, and if I'm talking to adults it's usually cock, pussy and tits or breasts

Had to giggle at 'mousey' and 'hoo hoo'

 

[Beck31]

You're welcome. Thanks for posting. You are a nice person.

 

[Edensgarden]

I tend to say either shag (British slang) or making-love (most accepted). Very rarely use the "F" word.

I agree that it depends on who you are speaking to as to how you might refer to sex.

I have never been one to refer to having sex as making love. I certainly don't want anyone to tell me they want to make love to me either.
I would have a hard time not laughing. It is just a cheesy term in my opinion.

Sometimes I want to have sex. I occasionally enjoy quickies.

I love to play. Playing and exploring each other is so much fun.

Sometimes just suggesting getting naked together does the trick.

Nothing compares to the word fuck as far as I'm concerned. Fuck would be my favorite fucking choice of words for having sex.

 

[Wingsfan45]

Lame, but ours...

If the kids are around and one of us is in the mood the phrase "we need to pay the bills" lets the other know. Yes, its cheezy..I know, but it works for us. If were alone, their are endless ways we express our desires and wants, and dirty talk turns us both on. The words fuck, cock, cunt, pussy, tits, are used regularly, and turn us both on.

 

[Edensgarden]

If the kids are around and one of us is in the mood the phrase "we need to pay the bills" lets the other know. Yes, its cheezy..I know, but it works for us. If were alone, their are endless ways we express our desires and wants, and dirty talk turns us both on. The words fuck, cock, cunt, pussy, tits, are used regularly, and turn us both on.

Oh yeah...the dirty talk is a huge turn on.

 

[Aurelia_Malys]

I'm late to this thread but, once again, Aurelia_Malys and DarkPleasures, I find myself agreeing with you both

See, the great minds of gorgeous lit women think alike

If the kids are around and one of us is in the mood the phrase "we need to pay the bills" lets the other know. Yes, its cheezy..I know, but it works for us. If were alone, their are endless ways we express our desires and wants, and dirty talk turns us both on. The words fuck, cock, cunt, pussy, tits, are used regularly, and turn us both on.

This made me laugh ... we used to tease my sister that every Friday night she and her husband would order "chicken cheesesteaks" for dinner. So of course that then became our euphemism for her "Why didnt you answer my phone call? Were you and your husband having chicken cheesesteaks?" *with eyebrows wiggling of course*

Oh yeah...the dirty talk is a huge turn on.

I completely agree ... my husband can arouse me in a word!

 

[iwantyoufuckme]

fuck.

 

[TheLaughingGod]

If the kids are around and one of us is in the mood the phrase "we need to pay the bills" lets the other know. Yes, its cheezy..I know, but it works for us. If were alone, their are endless ways we express our desires and wants, and dirty talk turns us both on. The words fuck, cock, cunt, pussy, tits, are used regularly, and turn us both on.

Just as long as one of you doesn't say "I hate having to pay bills"

 

[GentlemanJunkie]

I'm glad some of you all got a kick out of mousey and hoo. The sad thing is my sister-in-law says that all the time. She has a little girl, but still. Ugh. Makes me want to vomit for some reason.

As for when I am actually having sex, the filthier the better. And I want whispered and groaned into m ears, lips brushing them.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

Personally I love to fuck and I love to say it that way. If hubby and I are trying to be discreet we'll ask the other if we want to be naughty. When talking to others, I refer to sex as playing, or fucking. The term make love rarely comes out of my mouth, and when it does it's often with a sarcastic tone.

As for the relevant bits, well I often refer to them as bits, though when dealing with my son, I give things the correct names. He has a bit of a speech delay and calls his penis his peanut. it's cute. When talking to my husband everything is crude.

2 words I hate; panties and the word horny in reference to women. Women lack the horns with which to be horny. Panties just has been over used and sounds scummy to my ears. I like crude, but there's a big difference between crude and sleazy.

 

[whisperinginthegrass]

It shows character to either 1.) defend yourself and your posting, or 2.) admit if/when you're wrong, perhaps apologize if you're such a person, and then move on.

To edit content and totally change it as you did, and then pretend that the original comment was never said (so noobs walking in here remain clueless), shows bad character.

And, that is my opinion. Not "fact", per se.

is that a dangling participle?

LOLOLOL

 

[xBuxombabex]

I usually just tell him 'I want you!' That's enough for us. During the act any words go - the dirtier the better.

I also hate the words panties & horny for a woman but struggle to think of other words to use - suggestions would be gratefully received!

 

[basic_desires]

Personally I love to fuck and I love to say it that way. If hubby and I are trying to be discreet we'll ask the other if we want to be naughty. When talking to others, I refer to sex as playing, or fucking. The term make love rarely comes out of my mouth, and when it does it's often with a sarcastic tone.

As for the relevant bits, well I often refer to them as bits, though when dealing with my son, I give things the correct names. He has a bit of a speech delay and calls his penis his peanut. it's cute. When talking to my husband everything is crude.

2 words I hate; panties and the word horny in reference to women. Women lack the horns with which to be horny. Panties just has been over used and sounds scummy to my ears. I like crude, but there's a big difference between crude and sleazy.

So how do you then refer to your underwear...?

 

[laurenstone]

i use

the words fuck, cock, pussy, tits, but the more i get turned on them the crude i get lol

 

[shyandhorny69]

The usual words like fuck, pussy etc but with my gf it is usually u fancy doing me, or u want to put that mouth to good use.

 

[RedHotMamaTN]

We dont use any certain word or words to let the other know were in the mood. We just kinda.. start grabbing each other, little love taps on the butt, kissing. But were always alone so its not like we have to worry about our kids seeing. BUT... the word Fuck is used during sex. Usually by me..lol I see no problem if someone has a problem saying the word for what ever reason.

 

[upforfunNJ]

well

unfortunately, with the way my wife doles out the sex, my word would most likely be

PLEASE!!!

 

[Tomahawk26]

I'm glad some of you all got a kick out of mousey and hoo. The sad thing is my sister-in-law says that all the time. She has a little girl, but still. Ugh. Makes me want to vomit for some reason.

As for when I am actually having sex, the filthier the better. And I want whispered and groaned into m ears, lips brushing them.

Ooooo, yes! We use "fuck" pretty much--sometimes when I'm talking to friends, I call it "doin' it" just to be a dork. One of the women on our roller derby team told us once that she and her husband call it "quality time" in front of their kids. And as for all the other words, even in talking with people other than my husband, I prefer the more crass words: pussy, cunt, cock, etc. . .

 

[Beck31]

Thanks to all who responded. Interesting replies and very sorry if I acted like a jerk earlier.

 

[MatthewVett]

It shows character to either 1.) defend yourself and your posting, or 2.) admit if/when you're wrong, perhaps apologize if you're such a person, and then move on.

To edit content and totally change it as you did, and then pretend that the original comment was never said (so noobs walking in here remain clueless), shows bad character.

And, that is my opinion. Not "fact", per se.

I love you, too, DP. On another forum I use, you can +1 posts, and if I could, I would +1 this.