What word(s) do you use when refering to having sex?

[Beck31]

okay.

 

[DarkPleasures]

I love you, too, DP. On another forum I use, you can +1 posts, and if I could, I would +1 this.

Thank you. On Lit you can only rate the whole thread. There's a star system. Five stars is the highest, but it seems not every thread gives you the option to "vote".

 

[GentlemanJunkie]

Ooooo, yes! We use "fuck" pretty much--sometimes when I'm talking to friends, I call it "doin' it" just to be a dork. One of the women on our roller derby team told us once that she and her husband call it "quality time" in front of their kids. And as for all the other words, even in talking with people other than my husband, I prefer the more crass words: pussy, cunt, cock, etc. . .

Tomahawk26. Sounds like we would get along great. I like crass words quite a bit. Specificall cunt but lots of women disagree wih me on that.

 

[Tomahawk26]

Tomahawk26. Sounds like we would get along great. I like crass words quite a bit. Specificall cunt but lots of women disagree wih me on that.

I used to feel that way, I guess. But when my husband used it once, it turned me on so much; now it's a regular word around here!

 

[Beck31]

I dislike that word. I don't know why but it sounds degrading to me. But if you like it and it turns you on if/when your hubby uses it then more power to you I suppose

 

[southern_gal]

I like being talked to like that but it has taken me quite some time to express it. My husband is a patient man because what I tell him regarding my wants and desires does not compare to what is really going on inside. He will not do something that makes me uncomfortable ever, so I am forcing myself to tell him things about me that previously was embarassing to admit. Now if a man were to ever call me that and we were NOT in the bedroom. Uh Oh.

 

[Beck31]

I see. Well yeah anyone who refers to a woman that way and is uninvited should get their a** beat. An ex friend of mine used that word constantly as a way to verbally abuse his wife. I think that is why I hate hearing it.

 

[GentlemanJunkie]

I don't think I have ever used cunt outside of being with a woman. Well, maybe once or twice calling some miserable sap a cunt. But, otherwise not so often.

 

[Beck31]

Interesting. A few mates of mine in Edinburgh have done that. I strongly dislike it. I usually refer to having sex with my sweetheart as making-love. Or I do use the word shag sometimes which in essence is the equilivant to the American word f**k.

 

[TheLaughingGod]

Interesting. A few mates of mine in Edinburgh have done that. I strongly dislike it. I usually refer to having sex with my sweetheart as making-love. Or I do use the word shag sometimes which in essence is the equilivant to the American word f**k.

Sorry, the American word fuck? I must have missed the news bulletin on that one. I guess I'll have to stop using it then Or do you somehow believe it originated there?

 

[Beck31]

Was always under the impression that f**k was primarily an American term in context of having sex. Sure it is a common word and probably used world wide to tell someone to feck off.

 

[Tomahawk26]

I dislike that word. I don't know why but it sounds degrading to me. But if you like it and it turns you on if/when your hubby uses it then more power to you I suppose

And that's the point. . .

 

[MatthewVett]

Was always under the impression that f**k was primarily an American term in context of having sex. Sure it is a common word and probably used world wide to tell someone to feck off.

It predates English as a distinct language. It's definitely not distinctly American.

 

[Yachtsman69]

George Carlin

Whenever I think about words to describe sex, or our organs, I have to think of George Carlin (may he rest in peace). Here is his list..

His skits on the words for cock and pussy are classics.

ball
baloney ride
bananas and cream
bang
beef injection
belly ride
belt
blanket drill
blow off the loose corns
board
boff
bone
bore
bump fur
bump uglies
bury your wick
bury the bone
bush patrol
buzz the brillo cane
change your luck
chuck a tread
cock up
dance the mattress jig
daub of the brush
dick
dunk
diddle
dig your stinger in the honey
dip your stick
dip your wick
dirty work at the crossroads
do
do a dive in the dark
do a slide up the board
dog
do it
do the dirty deed
do the horizontal bop
do the nasty
feather-bed jig
feed the dummy
fiddle
firk
fit end to end
fix her plumbing
flesh session
flop
flop in the hay
four-legged frolic
fuck
get a crumpet
get a little
get a piece
get a snipper
get a wet one
get into her pants
get it on
get jack in the orchard
get laid
get lucky
get your ashes hauled
get your leather stretched
get your noodle wet
get your oil changed
get some
get some action
get some ass
get some stuff
get some tail
get some tweeze
get your bean waxed
get your pole varnished
give her a stab
go all the way
go like a belt-fed motor
go to bed with
go to it
go to town
go vaulting
grease the wheel
grind
grind your tool
hanky-panky
have a bit of giblet pie
have a bit of summer cabbage (huh?)
have a blow through
have sex with
hide the ferret
hide the salami
hit on the tail
hock
hop on
horizontal bop
horizontal hula
horizontal refreshment
hose
hot roll with cream
hump
impale
introduce charlie
invade
irish whist
jazz
jink
job
join paunches
jounce
joy ride
jug
juke
jump
jump your bones
knock
knock off a piece
know
lay
lay some pipe
lay the hip
make feet for children's shoes
make it
make love
make babies
make the beast with two backs
make whoopie
mate
mattress dance
mess around
mingle limbs
mix your peanut butter
mount
mugg
nail
nib
nub
nut
park your yacht in the hair harbor
peel your best end
peg
pestle
pile-drive
pin
plant your oats
play at all fours
play hide the bone
plow
pluck
plug
pocket the red
poke
pole work
pop
pork
post a letter
pound
pump
put a finger in the dyke
put the boots to
put the tool in the shed
quimstick
ram
ride
rites of venus
roast the broomstick
roll
roll in the hay
rock
rod
roger
romp
root
roust
rub bacon
rub up
rumble
rumple
rut
saw off a chunk
score
screw
scutz around
service
shack up
shaft
shag
shake the sheets
shoot between wind and water
shoot your wad
short arm practice
shove
shtup
sink the sausage
sink the soldier
slam
slip her a length
slip into
split
spoil
squat on the hog
squat jumps in the cucumber patch
squeeze and a squirt
stab
stable your naggie
strop your beak
strum
stuff
swing
tail-work
take a turn in the stubble
take a turn on shooter's hill
tear off a piece
the disappearing cane trick
the matrimonial polka
thread the needle
throw a hump
throw a leg over
thump
tie the true lover's knot
tip the long one
tool in the woods
trim the buff
trip up
the Rhine tumble
tumple
turn up
twiddle
varnish one's cane
vitamin F
wap
wham
what mother did (I'd rather not think about that)
wind the clock
work out
work the hairy oracle
yard
yentz

 

[Aurelia_Malys]

Whenever I think about words to describe sex, or our organs, I have to think of George Carlin (may he rest in peace). Here is his list..

His skits on the words for cock and pussy are classics.

George Carlin was awesome, especially his early stuff.

 

[Yachtsman69]

George Carlin was awesome, especially his early stuff.

Yes indeed.

 

[Sam37]

Of course women have a horn with which to be "horny". It's typically rather small, but it IS there.

We don't really use words for it often. "Sex" works. We even call sex, "gettin' jiggy wid it".

Words typical do not offend me. However, I believe that in public settings vulgar language is inappropriate.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

So how do you then refer to your underwear...?

undies, knickers, girly jocks, underwear, boylegs, g-string....

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

I usually just tell him 'I want you!' That's enough for us. During the act any words go - the dirtier the better.

I also hate the words panties & horny for a woman but struggle to think of other words to use - suggestions would be gratefully received!

For horny, I usually say itchy, toey (though I hate that term too), aroused, turned on, damp (as opposed to fully wet). Usually itchy or damp.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

Of course women have a horn with which to be "horny". It's typically rather small, but it IS there.

I hadn't considered that, though I still wouldn't say horny because in that reference nubby would probably be more accurate.

 

[callmeismael]

There's a time and a place for every word. It's absolutely marvellous to find the perfect setting to utter 'fuck' and have it mean everything it can mean. Personally, I never use it as a curse as a noun, or anything other than a very rare and precise verb. Overuse always diminishes a word's effectiveness.

Strange thing, but when it comes to anatomy I have a bit of fondness for 'quim'. I like the sound of it, the way the word feels in my mouth. I realize that historically, the connotations are as harsh as 'cunt'. But the almost melodic sound of the word, combined with its archaic quality make it a pleasure to use. Again, the moment and the company need to be right.

 

[Beck31]

Interesting.

 

[monkeyman057]

I dislike the word moist.
It depends on who your conversing with when the subject of coitus is discussed. Next it depends on context, all text depends on Context. What matters is the style the act of coitus unfolded in. There is no one answer, but ridiculing people who give thought (granted not much thought w.the F, F, F, we love to F) is beside the point. If you took offense, you simply shouldnt have asked the question, or not bothered to read the responses. You knew that would be mentioned. So maybe you're just looking to get mad at something. There is enough to be mad at, even with your eyes closed.
I suggest two things:
Dont look at things that could more than likely cause offense
Find something to be happy about

Sorry to quote an older post in the thread - but from the first time you used the word 'coitus' in this post, I immediately started hearing the voice of Sheldon Cooper from Big Bang Theory in my head. And it worked through the whole post. Made me lol.

I try to switch it up. I hate having 'one word' for it. Depending on our mood, I'll use different words - Wanna fuck? I want to fuck you. I wanna play. I need some attention. Feel like playing tonight? I need to be inside you. Are you in the mood for some fun tonight? I need you. I want you.

If we're in mixed company, I'll whisper something into her ear. Or out loud I'll tell her, I need you to help me with something later. It's very ambiguous and not at all sexy until she winks at me and smiles.

If I'm talking to friends about it - depending on the friend I'll use 'fucking', 'taking care of business', 'doin our thing', 'getting dirty'...

Honestly I try to find different and creative ways of letting her know or asking if she's in the mood. Sometimes I make her laugh (which I consider a win, even if I was trying to be sexy) because I'll say something that sounds good in my head but when I say it outloud it's just goofy. Other times I'll say something that I can tell just makes her melt a little bit. It's great fun whether I get a laugh or that melty 'omg fuck me now' expression.

But never ever ever ever do I say 'make love'. If I wanna 'make love' I'll go cook her fucking dinner. There - I made something out of love for you. Enjoy your meal! I think she actually likes the phrase 'make love' but it's just too cute for me.

 

[Beck31]

Lol. Too funny.

 

[monkeyman057]

Oh, and for the record, I LOVE the word 'cunt'. It's such a deliciously nasty word... it's better than 'fuck'.

And the word I hate? 'Clitoris' or even 'Clit'. Can we have a better word for that part? Please? It's just such a lame fucking word for such a great piece of anatomy!