what's real lesbian porn?

[cryingalien]

Agreed

 

[Magnetron]

Hmm, I think strap-on sex is quite common in lesbian porn, especially considering that it's a type of sex the general public often imagines lesbians engaging in when they do think about lesbians having sex.

There are particular sponsor sites catering to strapon sex as a niche, but it is usually performed very poorly and the membership areas involve content cobbled together from various producers who don't really comprehend what they make is more awkward than erotic.

Woman usually guides clumsy device with her hand the entire scene; rarely is the intercourse ever hands free involving the effort required by a male partner. It ends being rather lame and defeats the purpose of utilizing such a device.

I've only seen a few strapon scenes over the course of the last decade that I enjoyed watching.

 

[joelafayette]

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[joelafayette]

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[Mrdarkblueeyes]

Thanks for this thread. It's nice to learn the “shades" to all the “colors" of sexuality.

 

[followmenow6969]

The ones my GFs an I make

 

[CNYCarol]

I had no clue there are "tops" and "bottoms" between lesbians too. Is this true? Are they really lesbians that only like to give pleasure and others that like only receiving it or am I missing something?
Doesn't the "top" want some attention too?

I dated a woman ONCE in Dallas who was strictly Top.

We went to her house and she surprised me by slipping into her "strap-on". Foreplay was limited , and when she entered me it wasn't "loving and tender".

After she came , she rolled off an got out of bed, leaving me "high and dry".

I later learned that was her style.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I dated a woman ONCE in Dallas who was strictly Top.

We went to her house and she surprised me by slipping into her "strap-on". Foreplay was limited , and when she entered me it wasn't "loving and tender".

After she came , she rolled off an got out of bed, leaving me "high and dry".

I later learned that was her style.

Eeew.


eeeeeewwwwwwwww.....

 

[bdsmshade]

It seems such a new idea to the world that women can even enjoy sex not that long ago women who made such claims would be diagnosed as nymphomaniacs and treated as insane. So is it any wonder that most porn is still targeted at men and their limited fantasies.

Hopefully as women start to become more open and connected to their securities the world of sex and porn will become better. Unfortunately that will require everyone communicating and listening so scratch that. Me and my stupid ideas.

Seen some dvds around by a group called girlfriends have almost picked some up but somehow feel like I would be intruding, aimed at women and not using porn stars but a diverse cross section of women. Only ever seen them in the kinds of hardcore sex shops that are women friendly.

 

[leftie]

I have no idea if I'm right in thinking this, but as a male I've always found Sinn Sage's girl-girl scenes to at least appear 'real'. As in she genuinely seems to enjoy having sex with other women and getting them off.

Though of course 'real porn' is really one helluva oxymoron...

 

[PricelessT]

Eeew.


eeeeeewwwwwwwww.....

LOL, Stella!! Mind elaborating on that? It's not often that I see you repulsed on this forum, so I just want to know what made you repulsed in this case.

 

[CNYCarol]

Eeew.


eeeeeewwwwwwwww.....

OOPS...

 

[CNYCarol]

Eeew.


eeeeeewwwwwwwww.....

My sentiments exactly...

 

[Stella_Omega]

LOL, Stella!! Mind elaborating on that? It's not often that I see you repulsed on this forum, so I just want to know what made you repulsed in this case.

haha yeah. My thoughts are that this woman is basically rubbing her clit against her strapon, while it happens to be inside some woman who is nothing more than a semi-innocent bystander. Like, why does she need another woman there at all? Seems like the only reason she needed another woman there at all was to add a notch to her belt, and I just...

I mean...

All the notches on my belt? Are other people's orgasms.

Well, most of them, anyway...

 

[PricelessT]

haha yeah. My thoughts are that this woman is basically rubbing her clit against her strapon, while it happens to be inside some woman who is nothing more than a semi-innocent bystander. Like, why does she need another woman there at all?

I don't know. Maybe she simply likes dominance and/or imagining that she is penetrating a woman with a penis? Maybe she likes staring at a woman while only getting herself off? Maybe she always thinks that her partner likes what she's doing, due to a woman having faked liking the experience, or maybe a few having liked it? The world may never know, LOL.

Seems like the only reason she needed another woman there at all was to add a notch to her belt, and I just...

I mean...

All the notches on my belt? Are other people's orgasms.

Well, most of them, anyway...

Yep, a person should be into pleasing their partner during sex, at least at some point.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Well sure Precious, there are always reasons for skeevy behavior.

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Seen some dvds around by a group called girlfriends have almost picked some up but somehow feel like I would be intruding, aimed at women and not using porn stars but a diverse cross section of women. Only ever seen them in the kinds of hardcore sex shops that are women friendly.

Dude, trust me-- buying a DVD supports their business. It's a good thing! That's why the things are in the store!

I have no idea if I'm right in thinking this, but as a male I've always found Sinn Sage's girl-girl scenes to at least appear 'real'. As in she genuinely seems to enjoy having sex with other women and getting them off.

Though of course 'real porn' is really one helluva oxymoron...

Sinn Sage? Thanks for the rec!

 

[bdsmshade]

Dude, trust me-- buying a DVD supports their business. It's a good thing! That's why the things are in the store!

Good point Stella. I really should at some point in the future but find them in a fetish sex shop in Brighton that l love and have tendency to get like a kid in a sweet shop. Never get out without an arm full of porn or a toy or two for my toy box. Lately they been getting DOM productions dvds and they just jump off the shelves into my arms so what can I do. They are real professional mistresses in their dungeons most of the guys are punters so lots of gimp hoods. You would think they were ashamed of what they are doing. Very little girl on girl stuff tho the masks do mean can imagine that's your mp, bank manager or tax man

 

[m2m]

Well sure Precious, there are always reasons for skeevy behavior.


Dude, trust me-- buying a DVD supports their business. It's a good thing! That's why the things are in the store!

Sinn Sage? Thanks for the rec!

I really enjoy the Girls Kissing Girls series. I wish there was a men's version of that.

 

[unnissa]

yes .

i too have had my share of real lesbian porn searches. because , most of the porn sites are showing frentic licking of cunt and even wilder ass licking by woman of all ages !
as far as my expee concerned, nobody licked my ass ever and most of our lesbian affairs starting with soft kisses and fondling of tits and sliding of hands between the wet places and make it so hot for the final culmination of our erotic bodies. despite many age differences, this is the normal thing for lesbians ;

so , i too is searching for real lesbian porn ?

 

[Tsotha]

See us gals are not like guys, we don't rub something for five seconds and shove it in our lover and call it perfect. We kiss and rub, our hands explore each other.

Men don't have hands, then? Or lips?

 

[bdsmshade]

Think the point of the statement is the 5 seconds. As in guys all to often don't put in the effort that women need. Has nothing to do with lack of the equipment to do the job just the knowledge and will to use them. And since guys are in charge of porn that lack of skill is reflected.
And let's not forget how many girl on girl scenes end up with a guy walking in towards the end to satisfy the women since the porn industry thinks only a man can get the job done.

 

[Tsotha]

Think the point of the statement is the 5 seconds. As in guys all to often don't put in the effort that women need. Has nothing to do with lack of the equipment to do the job just the knowledge and will to use them. And since guys are in charge of porn that lack of skill is reflected.
And let's not forget how many girl on girl scenes end up with a guy walking in towards the end to satisfy the women since the porn industry thinks only a man can get the job done.

And I'm just making fun of the generalization.

 

[Rose101]

Well, as another woman and lesbian, I don't have anything to add to the discussion that hasn't already been stated...except that, if it's not obvious to some, scissoring is not the only way to achieve vulva-to-vulva contact when it comes to tribbing. It can certainly be achieved in the missionary position, which is a common sex position among women for that aspect of tribbing (far more common than scissoring, it seems), and some women prefer to rub their vulva on the other woman's pubic bone while in the missionary position.

Oh, and I definitely feel that lesbian porn is generally catered to men.

Absolutely. It's fine if I've an urge that needs taking care of but that's as far as it goes. I can spend hours making love to my GF....hours of teasing and tender touches, soft light kisses, whispering, stroking.....you ladies will know the rest. I've yet to see a porn film that goes anywhere near that but the majority of lesbian porn is made by and for men and their natural attitude to sex is the emphasis on the visual resulting in tits and clits and very, very little of the tenderness and real loving that make the reality so very special.

 

[CNYCarol]

Well, as another woman and lesbian, I don't have anything to add to the discussion that hasn't already been stated...except that, if it's not obvious to some, scissoring is not the only way to achieve vulva-to-vulva contact when it comes to tribbing. It can certainly be achieved in the missionary position, which is a common sex position among women for that aspect of tribbing (far more common than scissoring, it seems), and some women prefer to rub their vulva on the other woman's pubic bone while in the missionary position.

Oh, and I definitely feel that lesbian porn is generally catered to men.

I have always preferred Missionary. Straddling Diane's thigh and mutually stimulating each other through grinding is what we refer to as "Riding Side Saddle".

To me lying face to face makes it MUCH more intimate.

 

[MrRandyWatson]

Well, no shit lesbian porn isn't real. Most porn isn't. Even straight porn is riddled with production issues and a high amount of surrealism. It's one hundred percent fantasy, and from my point of view, that's just fine and dandy.

That said, I do like a scene with a little bit of a story behind it. Even just casual conversation beforehand is good. A scene where it's just ten minutes of sex with no context is really not that exciting, especially where the sex is limited or focused too much on toy use.