Are gay or bi men interesting to women?

Someone commented in a completely unrelated thread in a completely unrelated forum:

Sure, I've seen this. But it made me think of some of the reactions that I (bi guy) have seen which weren't excessively weird but were still surprising.

After I dropped out of college and "went back" as an unenrolled person just to hang out with friends and party, I was fuckbuddies with a bi girl. After I spent the night with her in her dorm single, and her dorm friends met me the next day, she introduced me as gay to everyone. I was like "teehee, sure" and went along with it. After a few weeks of regular overnight visits, I realized she had a boyfriend in the dorm and was covering up for me. Teehee!

Another girl was like, "Is my pussy good enough for you?" I was like, "hell yeah, of course." I hadn't even brought up anal sex at all and she thought it was inevitable that I would. Keep in mind this was >40 years ago, before every straight porn went anal before the end.

One time I was at a bar and three girls I knew from around, came to hang out and drink with me. One of them liked me but her girls told her, sotto-voce, "Good luck with that, he sucks dick." I think they figured they wouldn't offend me because I was "out" and it wasn't any secret, but I'm not sure if they thought I was gay or were told I was bi and didn't quite get it. Anyway, I whispered in the one girl's ear, "I'll eat you out and fuck you, too." She ignored her friends after that and we went home together that night.

I love bi girls and through no particular effort on my own part, a majority of the women I dated or had sex with before my wife turned out to be bi. I guess I have a "type" and my bi-dar works unconsciously?

I was in a LTR with a gay man. For several years, he was a huge pain in the ass about constantly being insecure and fearful that I would cheat on him and/or leave him for a woman. I never did* but had at least 6 different opportunities - with very forward women who all knew I was in a gay relationship.

And a bi woman in a lesbian relationship made me her fuckbuddy. These two had an agreement that, if someone wanted cock, then outside sex with a gay man would be OK. I never knew whether her partner was aware I was bi and not gay, or that we were even doing it at all.

I don't know, just seems like I've seen a lot of horny eyes for the queer guy.

How about all you-all?

* Not until the very end, anyway, when things were already very clearly falling apart. It wasn't over a woman at all, there were other reasons, and I didn't leave him, he was the one who left rather than lift a finger to work things out, but I did cheat with a woman before it officially ended, and she and I wound up together afterwards.
I actually would prefer a bi man sadly, I’m 0 for 0 in that category.
 
from experience …what a woman doesn’t know won’t influence them. I am a bi fem bottom that has never had an issue of engaging women for conversation to sex.
 
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