Are gay or bi men interesting to women?

[celined]

Someone commented in a completely unrelated thread in a completely unrelated forum:

Sure, I've seen this. But it made me think of some of the reactions that I (bi guy) have seen which weren't excessively weird but were still surprising.

After I dropped out of college and "went back" as an unenrolled person just to hang out with friends and party, I was fuckbuddies with a bi girl. After I spent the night with her in her dorm single, and her dorm friends met me the next day, she introduced me as gay to everyone. I was like "teehee, sure" and went along with it. After a few weeks of regular overnight visits, I realized she had a boyfriend in the dorm and was covering up for me. Teehee!

Another girl was like, "Is my pussy good enough for you?" I was like, "hell yeah, of course." I hadn't even brought up anal sex at all and she thought it was inevitable that I would. Keep in mind this was >40 years ago, before every straight porn went anal before the end.

One time I was at a bar and three girls I knew from around, came to hang out and drink with me. One of them liked me but her girls told her, sotto-voce, "Good luck with that, he sucks dick." I think they figured they wouldn't offend me because I was "out" and it wasn't any secret, but I'm not sure if they thought I was gay or were told I was bi and didn't quite get it. Anyway, I whispered in the one girl's ear, "I'll eat you out and fuck you, too." She ignored her friends after that and we went home together that night.

I love bi girls and through no particular effort on my own part, a majority of the women I dated or had sex with before my wife turned out to be bi. I guess I have a "type" and my bi-dar works unconsciously?

I was in a LTR with a gay man. For several years, he was a huge pain in the ass about constantly being insecure and fearful that I would cheat on him and/or leave him for a woman. I never did* but had at least 6 different opportunities - with very forward women who all knew I was in a gay relationship.

And a bi woman in a lesbian relationship made me her fuckbuddy. These two had an agreement that, if someone wanted cock, then outside sex with a gay man would be OK. I never knew whether her partner was aware I was bi and not gay, or that we were even doing it at all.

I don't know, just seems like I've seen a lot of horny eyes for the queer guy.

How about all you-all?

* Not until the very end, anyway, when things were already very clearly falling apart. It wasn't over a woman at all, there were other reasons, and I didn't leave him, he was the one who left rather than lift a finger to work things out, but I did cheat with a woman before it officially ended, and she and I wound up together afterwards.

I actually would prefer a bi man sadly, I’m 0 for 0 in that category.

 

[drobert44]

All the women I play with now do.

Life of Riley.............

 

[drobert44]

I actually would prefer a bi man sadly, I’m 0 for 0 in that category.

I would love a bi girl...........but have no clue how to find one in this vanilla town.

 

[drobert44]

LOL, Klip. None of the women I have fucked know I am bi....

This is the vanilla Midwest right here.

 

[Swuq]

from experience …what a woman doesn’t know won’t influence them. I am a bi fem bottom that has never had an issue of engaging women for conversation to sex.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I would love a bi girl...........but have no clue how to find one in this vanilla town.

While it could be interesting, I wonder how much bisexual girls and guys would be attracted to each other at the same time.

 

[Swuq]

I would love a bi girl...........but have no clue how to find one in this vanilla town.

How about a fem bi bottom? Meet me in Austin.

 

[ImpishSeraph]

Yes

 

[Smileyouronnow]

This is the vanilla Midwest right here.

I suggest you go to alternative clubs where they hang out. You could subscribe to a bisexual dating app, but you will need to understand there will also be bi men there to. Bi women will be repulsed if you mistreat another person including bimen who they tend to appreciate and like.
Maybe trying a swinger's club, but single guys are normally not allowed in. A dating apps sounds like your best choice since there are hundreds.
Good luck.

 

[drobert44]

I suggest you go to alternative clubs where they hang out. You could subscribe to a bisexual dating app, but you will need to understand there will also be bi men there to. Bi women will be repulsed if you mistreat another person including bimen who they tend to appreciate and like.
Maybe trying a swinger's club, but single guys are normally not allowed in. A dating apps sounds like your best choice since there are hundreds.
Good luck.

Thanks, I do get on Fetlife. I wont date local women; they wanna own me.

 

[bijedi]

My experience has been that most women aren’t attracted to gay or bisexual men. But the ones that are, are really into them.

Most of my and my wife’s friends that we have told about my bisexuality haven’t ever commented on it (to us). But several have let me know they find it hot, and are much more flirty with me than before they found out. Some have even asked how to get their partners to try.

And my wife is obviously into it. It was her fantasy that started it I all in the first place.

 

[Elle4u2use2]

Yes. Such a turn on to watch

 

[SPARTAN047]

My experience has been that most women aren’t attracted to gay or bisexual men. But the ones that are, are really into them.

Most of my and my wife’s friends that we have told about my bisexuality haven’t ever commented on it (to us). But several have let me know they find it hot, and are much more flirty with me than before they found out. Some have even asked how to get their partners to try.

And my wife is obviously into it. It was her fantasy that started it I all in the first place.

You said it. Mostly true. The number of wives who were happy to blow their husbands with me was amazing.

Not that they were everywhere but the ones who genuinely like the actions, or you, will let you do anything to either of them. I love how slutty they can be.