Or even the option they bray on and on about: Just going out and getting some gay sex.
True. It's one thing to make a decision to stay in a bad marriage for other reasons but you shouldn't complain about a choice that you made.
Sometimes for several reasons…
let me say i am not qualified to answer this, nor will i return to argue any posts after this. i only offer what i believe and believe is true. to answer your question will be a dissapointment for all i feel. what is wrong with it? from what i gather is it is a practice that goes against the sanctity of what God wanted for man and woman and marriage between them. i'm sure from some quotes in the Bible it's easy to assume it angers God. also i feel this is similar to the question of why do babies get sick and suffer and die. before you stone me for that i'll explain...i say that the question is one that God may not answer. it may come down to simple trust. that is, God says it's wrong. we trust Him and believe that or we don't. i hope i've made some sense.I'm horny and need to vent:
Like so many other men here, I have always been straight, but began realizing and accepting I have strong homosexual desires. Perhaps not to the point of deciding I am gay, but I know I am not totally as straight as I publicly act and claim. From confusion, guilt, embarrassment, and shame evolved a man that can admit I am submissive, a bottom, I have a femme side that I wish to explore, I prefer older gay men, especially tops, I am more comfortable around older gay men, I want to suck cock more than I want to be sucked, and I want to get my ass fucked by an older gay top. Never did I ever think I would say those words, but they are the truth. So what is wrong with having perfectly natural sexual interests and desires? Because I desire them with another man? If sucking cock feels so good, why should I deny myself that experience? If women enjoy the feeling of having a nice hard cock inside of them, why shouldn't I enjoy the same feeling? Why does the prostate provide intense sexual pleasure to a man, but is located in a place that requires anal penetration?
I am married to a woman, our sex life and marriage are dead, and while divorce is coming, that doesn't mean I will immediately turn to men. I still have a strong preference for women, but I am also seeking the one kind of relationship that is forbidden, but necessary as men age. I would like to find one man with whom I can be sensitive around, vulnerable, but still be masculine. A close public friendship that can become, but not required to become, a much closer intimate and affectionate relationship. Truth is, I am open to the idea that my next partner may be another man, He may be a crossdresser or she may be a transgender woman, also. But, I am open to the possibility that my next intimate relationship may be with a non-traditional partner. Really, it all comes down to the person, not to the orientation, preferences, sexual practices only.
I have been unsuccessful in finding someone just to play with much less anything else. As usual, them men that I am the most interested in are too far away, or maybe they are married. While I am in no hurry, it can be pretty frustrating to have these desires, needs, and fantasies with nobody to share them with and perhaps explore them.
So I feel better now. Thanks for listening
Well, I'm an old "asshole" and my wife and I have an open marriage. She has other male lovers and since I made her aware of my bi-sexual desires and she was supportive, so do I. It has nothing to do with love and everything to do with sex. Can you be friends with your lovers? I sure hope so, but love doesn't enter the picture at all.
I support your opinion, but also the opinions of the others on here. Your response shouldn't have been offensive to anyone, and for those who got their panties in a bunch, it's a them problem. I think many on here believe that some people should be able to have their cake and eat it, too, at all times.
Take your Bible and kindly leave, please. That study group is down the hall.
My first response to your post is to ask you why, if you are a religious man, are you a member of a obvious sexually based internet page? Does God approve of that?
Well said. It reminds me of what my girlfriend says when I overthink being her bottom. She says, relax, it's just our sex.
i doubt He does, i doubt He approves many things i do. i didn't state i was a religious man.
If you are not religious then why bring God and the Bible into the discussion.
I concur
i didn't say i wasn't religious. why do you hassle me and my response to a question? i'm not here to bicker. i gave a reply to another, they didn't question it.
So which is it? You are or you aren't a religious man? Above you said you weren't, here you say you are. The point is this is an adult erotica site, if you are a religious man you shouldn't be here, That's the plain truth. Further no one here needs a sermon. Either you are conflicted or a hypocrite.
I was curious for years and finally had my first encounter about 10 years ago with a guy I met on this site. Fast forward, im addicted to cock, have a small group of guys I get together with on a regular basis. Love sucking cock and getting fucked, and now it’s about once a week. Wife has no idea.
Happy that you found an outlet, that sounds like a dream x
no, you said those things. i'm not a religious man but i'm a believer. a person asked a question, i gave my opinionated answer. you came alomg putting words in my mouth wanting to start some shit. why don;t you go read somewhere in the corner and leave me the fuck alone trailerbitch. in other words just fuck off.
Agreed.
Why don't you stop reading my posts you sanctimonious asshole? Probably shouldn't have brought it up of his convictions weren't strong enough to defend what he said. He backed down so fast and waffled I just sat here laughing at him.
If you are, as you say a believer, what does you being here say about what is really in your heart? Because I doubt your deity looks on this site as being something a believer should partake in.
