What's so wrong with gay sex? (Hint: Nothing)

[Escierto]

Listen . . . . my response was about cheating, in a marriage. END of STORY.
Make your own response to the OP's question, and stop criticizing MY OPINION !!
** Maybe read my response.... it SAYS I'm "old school", when personal integrity mattered.

I read your response and it reflected an extremely rigid hostile POV. Why is it always my way or the highway with you old assholes?

 

[tristantrotsky]

There is nothing wrong with accepting that you have non-straight sexual desires and you are open to new experiences. In fact, I would celebrate it...

The only thing wrong about men having Gay Sex is that there's not enough of it going on...

 

[Boonerboy]

So here’s a simple fix…… swap out the “?” for a “!”
“What’s wrong with gay sex!”

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Listen . . . . my response was about cheating, in a marriage. END of STORY.
Make your own response to the OP's question, and stop criticizing MY OPINION !!
** Maybe read my response.... it SAYS I'm "old school", when personal integrity mattered.

If you don’t want people to criticize your opinion, then keep it to yourself. People disagreeing with you is not abusive language. I guess you could take issue with him calling you an asshole, but when you reply with insults (like alleging he has no or doesn’t value integrity, then what credibility do you even have with regards to the complaint. You can lodge insults, but others can’t?).
Use the ignore feature for posters you don’t want to see, but please save the report feature for posts actually violating forum rules.

 

[Britva415]

I thought that is what DIVORCE is for ?!

You sound like those people who thought other people's gay marriages somehow threatened their own.

Divorce is for people who want to divorce. What you want for them doesn't matter a bit. Other people's agreements to non-monogamous behavior within their own marriages are just as valid as the choice to not agree to such a thing within one's own marriage. And they aren't your business to come and denounce.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I never insulted anyone. PERIOD ! I was answering a poster's question. If we aren't supposed to voice our opinion, what is the purpose of a discussion thread?

Voicing your opinion doesn’t mean people must agree with you.

 

[Britva415]

So glad you "get it" that I have MY opinion, and you have yours !!

I get that your opinion is about other people's lives, yeah. Live your own however you want.

 

[Pkbnewbie16]

The only thing wrong about men having Gay Sex is that there's not enough of it going on...

I'm certainly not getting enough!

 

[drobert44]

I'm certainly not getting enough!

Me too, no cock in years.

 

[Wanking_Frank]

I think you vastly underestimate how many people in sexless marriages would not care at all if their spouses got sex somewhere else. At some point the spouses are just friends or roommates if nothing else.

Yes I agree - it may depend on how long the drought is though.
In my case I didn’t actually sock cock or have gay sex until we separated but I was on here and on craigslist long before that seeing what’s out there. Is it cheating to look at porn or sites like these? To jack off to them? Some people would say yes to that. Some people don’t think it’s cheating if it’s gay sex and not with another woman, or just a blow job. It’s not for me to say what’s morally acceptable and what isn’t. Each person has to figure that out for themselves.

 

[CdKimMajick]

I'm horny and need to vent:

Like so many other men here, I have always been straight, but began realizing and accepting I have strong homosexual desires. Perhaps not to the point of deciding I am gay, but I know I am not totally as straight as I publicly act and claim. From confusion, guilt, embarrassment, and shame evolved a man that can admit I am submissive, a bottom, I have a femme side that I wish to explore, I prefer older gay men, especially tops, I am more comfortable around older gay men, I want to suck cock more than I want to be sucked, and I want to get my ass fucked by an older gay top. Never did I ever think I would say those words, but they are the truth. So what is wrong with having perfectly natural sexual interests and desires? Because I desire them with another man? If sucking cock feels so good, why should I deny myself that experience? If women enjoy the feeling of having a nice hard cock inside of them, why shouldn't I enjoy the same feeling? Why does the prostate provide intense sexual pleasure to a man, but is located in a place that requires anal penetration?

I am married to a woman, our sex life and marriage are dead, and while divorce is coming, that doesn't mean I will immediately turn to men. I still have a strong preference for women, but I am also seeking the one kind of relationship that is forbidden, but necessary as men age. I would like to find one man with whom I can be sensitive around, vulnerable, but still be masculine. A close public friendship that can become, but not required to become, a much closer intimate and affectionate relationship. Truth is, I am open to the idea that my next partner may be another man, He may be a crossdresser or she may be a transgender woman, also. But, I am open to the possibility that my next intimate relationship may be with a non-traditional partner. Really, it all comes down to the person, not to the orientation, preferences, sexual practices only.

I have been unsuccessful in finding someone just to play with much less anything else. As usual, them men that I am the most interested in are too far away, or maybe they are married. While I am in no hurry, it can be pretty frustrating to have these desires, needs, and fantasies with nobody to share them with and perhaps explore them.

So I feel better now. Thanks for listening

I've been crossdressing and bi since I was in my teens. I am 53 now and while I have had my share of male/male sexual encounters it took til about 2 years ago to admit I was bi.

I fully understand where you are coming from because I was some what ashamed to admit to myself I was bi. I've been married 3 times and 2 of them loved me dressing and 1 didn't. All 3 however saw me with another guy. The one who didn't like my dressing didn't like that at all.

I've never "dated" a male but I am at the point like you where if I find the right person be they male/cd/trans I don't care anymore

 

[drobert44]

I've been crossdressing and bi since I was in my teens. I am 53 now and while I have had my share of male/male sexual encounters it took til about 2 years ago to admit I was bi.

I fully understand where you are coming from because I was some what ashamed to admit to myself I was bi. I've been married 3 times and 2 of them loved me dressing and 1 didn't. All 3 however saw me with another guy. The one who didn't like my dressing didn't like that at all.

I've never "dated" a male but I am at the point like you where if I find the right person be they male/cd/trans I don't care anymore

I began dating sissies and CD's at 70, loved it, went gay, and love it all.

 

[easyoff]

I don't get enough of it, that's what's wrong with it.

 

[DaddysSissySlut24]

I'm horny and need to vent:

Like so many other men here, I have always been straight, but began realizing and accepting I have strong homosexual desires. Perhaps not to the point of deciding I am gay, but I know I am not totally as straight as I publicly act and claim. From confusion, guilt, embarrassment, and shame evolved a man that can admit I am submissive, a bottom, I have a femme side that I wish to explore, I prefer older gay men, especially tops, I am more comfortable around older gay men, I want to suck cock more than I want to be sucked, and I want to get my ass fucked by an older gay top. Never did I ever think I would say those words, but they are the truth. So what is wrong with having perfectly natural sexual interests and desires? Because I desire them with another man? If sucking cock feels so good, why should I deny myself that experience? If women enjoy the feeling of having a nice hard cock inside of them, why shouldn't I enjoy the same feeling? Why does the prostate provide intense sexual pleasure to a man, but is located in a place that requires anal penetration?

I am married to a woman, our sex life and marriage are dead, and while divorce is coming, that doesn't mean I will immediately turn to men. I still have a strong preference for women, but I am also seeking the one kind of relationship that is forbidden, but necessary as men age. I would like to find one man with whom I can be sensitive around, vulnerable, but still be masculine. A close public friendship that can become, but not required to become, a much closer intimate and affectionate relationship. Truth is, I am open to the idea that my next partner may be another man, He may be a crossdresser or she may be a transgender woman, also. But, I am open to the possibility that my next intimate relationship may be with a non-traditional partner. Really, it all comes down to the person, not to the orientation, preferences, sexual practices only.

I have been unsuccessful in finding someone just to play with much less anything else. As usual, them men that I am the most interested in are too far away, or maybe they are married. While I am in no hurry, it can be pretty frustrating to have these desires, needs, and fantasies with nobody to share them with and perhaps explore them.

So I feel better now. Thanks for listening

The answer? Not a goddamn thing. What I find interesting is if you took a gay guy and somehow got him to agree to eat pussy, what do you think would be the long-term result? When a curious guy finally sucks a cock? OMG! I think probably 80%+ of guys after the initial experience, deeply desire to repeat tha experience.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

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I'm horny and need to vent:

Like so many other men here, I have always been straight, but began realizing and accepting I have strong homosexual desires. Perhaps not to the point of deciding I am gay, but I know I am not totally as straight as I publicly act and claim. From confusion, guilt, embarrassment, and shame evolved a man that can admit I am submissive, a bottom, I have a femme side that I wish to explore, I prefer older gay men, especially tops, I am more comfortable around older gay men, I want to suck cock more than I want to be sucked, and I want to get my ass fucked by an older gay top. Never did I ever think I would say those words, but they are the truth. So what is wrong with having perfectly natural sexual interests and desires? Because I desire them with another man? If sucking cock feels so good, why should I deny myself that experience? If women enjoy the feeling of having a nice hard cock inside of them, why shouldn't I enjoy the same feeling? Why does the prostate provide intense sexual pleasure to a man, but is located in a place that requires anal penetration?

I am married to a woman, our sex life and marriage are dead, and while divorce is coming, that doesn't mean I will immediately turn to men. I still have a strong preference for women, but I am also seeking the one kind of relationship that is forbidden, but necessary as men age. I would like to find one man with whom I can be sensitive around, vulnerable, but still be masculine. A close public friendship that can become, but not required to become, a much closer intimate and affectionate relationship. Truth is, I am open to the idea that my next partner may be another man, He may be a crossdresser or she may be a transgender woman, also. But, I am open to the possibility that my next intimate relationship may be with a non-traditional partner. Really, it all comes down to the person, not to the orientation, preferences, sexual practices only.

I have been unsuccessful in finding someone just to play with much less anything else. As usual, them men that I am the most interested in are too far away, or maybe they are married. While I am in no hurry, it can be pretty frustrating to have these desires, needs, and fantasies with nobody to share them with and perhaps explore them.

So I feel better now. Thanks for listening

Nothing.

 

[drobert44]

The answer? Not a goddamn thing. What I find interesting is if you took a gay guy and somehow got him to agree to eat pussy, what do you think would be the long-term result? When a curious guy finally sucks a cock? OMG! I think probably 80%+ of guys after the initial experience, deeply desire to repeat tha experience.

I was fucking sissies, then panties, then sucked a cock......love it!

 

[GentlemanJedi63]

I began dating sissies and CD's at 70, loved it, went gay, and love it all.

Honestly, if it came down to it, I think I would prefer sissies and CDs to other men, and I wouldn’t rule out I might prefer them over women.

 

[ABiGuy84]

Absolutely nothing wrong with consensual sex between two or more consenting adults.

 

[kccasey]

I'm horny and need to vent:

Like so many other men here, I have always been straight, but began realizing and accepting I have strong homosexual desires. Perhaps not to the point of deciding I am gay, but I know I am not totally as straight as I publicly act and claim. From confusion, guilt, embarrassment, and shame evolved a man that can admit I am submissive, a bottom, I have a femme side that I wish to explore, I prefer older gay men, especially tops, I am more comfortable around older gay men, I want to suck cock more than I want to be sucked, and I want to get my ass fucked by an older gay top. Never did I ever think I would say those words, but they are the truth. So what is wrong with having perfectly natural sexual interests and desires? Because I desire them with another man? If sucking cock feels so good, why should I deny myself that experience? If women enjoy the feeling of having a nice hard cock inside of them, why shouldn't I enjoy the same feeling? Why does the prostate provide intense sexual pleasure to a man, but is located in a place that requires anal penetration?

I am married to a woman, our sex life and marriage are dead, and while divorce is coming, that doesn't mean I will immediately turn to men. I still have a strong preference for women, but I am also seeking the one kind of relationship that is forbidden, but necessary as men age. I would like to find one man with whom I can be sensitive around, vulnerable, but still be masculine. A close public friendship that can become, but not required to become, a much closer intimate and affectionate relationship. Truth is, I am open to the idea that my next partner may be another man, He may be a crossdresser or she may be a transgender woman, also. But, I am open to the possibility that my next intimate relationship may be with a non-traditional partner. Really, it all comes down to the person, not to the orientation, preferences, sexual practices only.

I have been unsuccessful in finding someone just to play with much less anything else. As usual, them men that I am the most interested in are too far away, or maybe they are married. While I am in no hurry, it can be pretty frustrating to have these desires, needs, and fantasies with nobody to share them with and perhaps explore them.

So I feel better now. Thanks for listening

I feel very much the same as you. From what I read here on lit and other places, I am thinking it is natural for men to turn to each other as we age. I never had gay sex as a young man or child, as many have. Now as I age I find the desire to do so very strong. My marriage is also sexless.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Me too, no cock in years.

Sex is a beautiful thing when you do it right.
It can be even better when you do it wrong!

 

[Bisnjguy]

I feel very much the same as you. From what I read here on lit and other places, I am thinking it is natural for men to turn to each other as we age. I never had gay sex as a young man or child, as many have. Now as I age I find the desire to do so very strong. My marriage is also sexless.

I agree. As a younger man I experimented with guys at times. Really just in a whim, I’d stop at a bookstore and get sucked or just jerk off. But as I aged and sex at home stopped, I found myself actually searching for men. Luckily now at 65 I have a very good friend here in town that I get together with a lot. We enjoy our time together. Hopefully we will be together tommorow.

 

[drobert44]

Honestly, if it came down to it, I think I would prefer sissies and CDs to other men, and I wouldn’t rule out I might prefer them over women.

They try hare, suck and fuck first date, and no drama.

 

[DaddysSissySlut24]

The sole thing wrong with gay sex is that I'm not getting nearly enough of it. So I'm pouting. Meh!

 

[SmokingFap]

Why suggest that there's anything wrong with it?

Outstanding question.

 

[SmokingFap]

Why this all or nothing POV? Many couples stay together for financial or family reasons even though they are just friends. You seem to have this idea that you think everyone should conform to.

I think the point is that many people stay in sexless, loveless marriages, but then just constantly bitch about it to everyone else when divorce is always an option.