Wild_Honey_66
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'Okay! Okay!' whispered breathlessly, half laughing, as i pat his arm or whatever's in reach.
What's your safe word?
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HappyToBeAlive
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I use close for my yellow as in he is close to hitting my limit. Enough is my stop word. Enough isn’t a word that usually escapes me often. I have never used it, but I have used close a few times. I think sometimes he secretly loves it when I say close because he knows he is pushing up to the limit. Sometimes it’s just to see how much I can take.
Wild_Honey_66
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If he's trying something new and it turns out to be a negative experience for me, i pull away, my brow furrows, i shake my head and tell him i don't like that.
We've never discussed safewords, he just pays attention.
We've never discussed safewords, he just pays attention.
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We’ve never had a safe word, if I don’t like something or it’s too much for me to take then I tell her. Tone of voice helps as well so she knows it’s not a feint and I really do want to stop.
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Safe Word
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So... funny thing about this post. My kids (students) have never ever seen this show, and yet this year I have somehow some awesomely ridiculous twist of fate... one of my old boys who has not been in my class in THREE YEARS .... is on the same floor as my class now, so one day he walks past my class and hollers a version of this using my name into the room. i turned around and shut the door, but now every single time he passes my class he does the same.
and it has stuck. So now every time i walk in to my class the boys take turns greeting me this way. I remember this post every time and have to fight to suppress a laugh. Because of this... it has now been changed to a joke i thought was pretty darn funny... and so did he. "Meatloaf" because https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9X_ViIPA-Gc
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"Pseudopseudohypoparathyroidism, and it must be recited in a proper sentence, in the form of a question, audibly and clearly, through a gag."
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AlwaysSoaked
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i dont need one because i have so much trust in my Man that there is never a moment that isn't safe.
PrisonPerv
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The only safe word I allow my subs and slaves to use is butterfly. Doesn't come up in the normal course of bdsm talk. And think of all that the creature is known for and you'll see why I use it.
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I have a private one from when KumquatConsort and I first played - causing much confusion when I said it to someone else (who stopped and sad 'you what?', being a decent human being).
Usually I just say 'safeword' as needed, or amber. I've learnt to have the discussion even with good trustworthy people, because when I get to satisfying points, I like screaming stop and no and it's disappointing if they stop when part of me prefers they don't. So they function as 'amber', too.
Usually I just say 'safeword' as needed, or amber. I've learnt to have the discussion even with good trustworthy people, because when I get to satisfying points, I like screaming stop and no and it's disappointing if they stop when part of me prefers they don't. So they function as 'amber', too.
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Safeword and yet
Long ago, i was scening with someone i trusted, exposing a new to the lifestyle Dom have a glimpse into my place with bdsm. i have an amazing high tolerence to pain.After an hour of scening, it could have stopped, 2 hours i was gone in my own little happy place. 3 hours the Dom who was delivering the paddle at this time. His sub stepped in and said enough. Moral of my post, don't scene without someone who knows your limits. Because at least for me, having a safeword didnt do me any good if i couldnt even be coherent enough to say it.
I ended with my ass and upper legs solid black from bruising. It went away about 3 weeks later. My most important lesson learned.
I have not scened since then, beyond a flat human hand spanking and that was 12 years ago.
Long ago, i was scening with someone i trusted, exposing a new to the lifestyle Dom have a glimpse into my place with bdsm. i have an amazing high tolerence to pain.After an hour of scening, it could have stopped, 2 hours i was gone in my own little happy place. 3 hours the Dom who was delivering the paddle at this time. His sub stepped in and said enough. Moral of my post, don't scene without someone who knows your limits. Because at least for me, having a safeword didnt do me any good if i couldnt even be coherent enough to say it.
I ended with my ass and upper legs solid black from bruising. It went away about 3 weeks later. My most important lesson learned.
I have not scened since then, beyond a flat human hand spanking and that was 12 years ago.
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You were lucky his sub had the sense to step in and stop your scene. Both you and the Dom should have known better if you were solid black. It is both of your responsibility to know something of your limits and if your not stopping when you are bruised to that point he should take notice of it before He could cause you some damage that might not have healed later at all.
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Rhudabaga.
Nothing sounds like it and it has no purpose in normal conversations.
Nothing sounds like it and it has no purpose in normal conversations.
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Iiiiiiii Mee LORD
I recently watched the movie "Sisters" and a character in the movie says his safe word is "Keep Going".. It got me wondering about the different safe words people have...
Let's hear 'em
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That's mine too. The only time I've used it, I was strapped down with hospital restraints. I was naked and spread eagle on his king sized bed.
His thing was ball torture and as a nurse he knew exactly where and how to squeeze to make me scream. It was our first time together, so I offered to be his toy for 30 minutes. He talked me into almost twice that long.
As we approached the end of the hour, he would count the seconds each time that he started to apply that vise like grip, and was up to two minutes. I was sobbing and wailing and thrashing, and he loved it.
As we neared the 2 minute mark, he tells me "Lets make it 4 minutes. You can do it baby."
I say "nononononononono" but he just laughs. I plead "please. Please, pleasepleasepleaseno" and he squeezed and pulled just a bit harder. I can feel the pain all the way up through my stomach. I've never felt such pain.
Then it hits me that if I'm injured the pain might never stop. I panic, and all I can manage is
Roo. Ruh and Roo Over and over.
Thank god he stopped.
It helps to make sure that your safeword is recognizable when you are in tears and gagged too.
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Don't have one.
I only do consensual. She has to want it and ask and beg for it.
Having a scenario in which someone begs to stop is not sexy. It is kind of awful.
In my opinion.
I only do consensual. She has to want it and ask and beg for it.
Having a scenario in which someone begs to stop is not sexy. It is kind of awful.
In my opinion.
Saintdragonslayer
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This isn't a safe word as such, but it's the same principal.
What good is a safe word if your partner can't speak?
When getting a partner to learn how to deepthroat, have them place their hands on your thighs, with their fingernails lined up against your skin. Then place your hands on the back of their head and, very slowly, pull their head forward. When they reach their limit, they can use their nails to warn you to stop/pull back.
Pulling, or pushing a partners head during a blowjob is frowned upon by many, but an inexperienced giver will usually always stop before, what they imagine is their safe limit.
If your partner trusts that you will do this, without fail, every time it can encourage them to push their limits, a little more on each occasion.
What good is a safe word if your partner can't speak?
When getting a partner to learn how to deepthroat, have them place their hands on your thighs, with their fingernails lined up against your skin. Then place your hands on the back of their head and, very slowly, pull their head forward. When they reach their limit, they can use their nails to warn you to stop/pull back.
Pulling, or pushing a partners head during a blowjob is frowned upon by many, but an inexperienced giver will usually always stop before, what they imagine is their safe limit.
If your partner trusts that you will do this, without fail, every time it can encourage them to push their limits, a little more on each occasion.
