What's your safe word?

For me depends on the situation. If I have a mouth gag then I have to have a way to pull it out. When I am spanked by the group I'm on all fours... they tie my hands and feet to a board. You probably saw them on websites. But I am not gagged so I can say the safe word. Never really had to say it with them. The two older men that run it are always making sure I am good. The rest of the group is older men 55+ 60+ so they want me to enjoy more than hurt me! It's mutual!
 
Not mine but a girl a dommed said her safe word was 'Spongebob'.
Although she said the only thing that made her want to leave was she didn't like the coffee I gave her. Cheeky bitch.
 
Safe word

This is a interesting thread.

I gave my sub her safe word. It’s “ Out “.

If she’s restrained or gagged she snaps her fingers.

If I share her with others they given her safe word and/or signal.

Works very well.

Sailor
 
Wow! Same... All depends on what way I can communicate to them! The key is everyone there has to know the safe word or signal.

This is a interesting thread.

I gave my sub her safe word. It’s “ Out “.

If she’s restrained or gagged she snaps her fingers.

If I share her with others they given her safe word and/or signal.

Works very well.

Sailor
 
In my prior relationships, we were pretty basic with a Yellow (feeling uncertain) and Red (STOP) safe word plan. I don’t have a safeword in my current relationship, but I’d also say we play at BDSM Lite. If I say Stop (or slow down, etc), he’d stop or slow down or whatever I said.
 
I keep thinking of the scene in Euro Trip where one of the kids goes to the brothel in Amsterdam and the Mistress (Lucy Lawless!) gives him a ridiculously long unpronounceable Dutch/German safe word. A stupid, silly and (to me anyway) very funny movie.
 
Rock is my slow down word and elephant is my stop. Both words I wouldn’t use in a scene and easy to say and remember
 
We don’t have one. I’ve been with my wife a long time, she can tell by how my body reacts. I’m not quite as in tune and am overly cautious with her. She will make a face of pleasure and I will stop thinking I hurt her.
 
I don't have one with Bob. Neither of us are really sadists. And we also watch each other carefully and know each other very well. I trust that he would just know from my breathing, my reactions, and what I am telling him where I am and if I need to stop.
When I'm on my top I'm always checking in on with him. Asking for feedback possibly too often. Doing thing I like and I know that he likes also.

We push limits, but do so slowly, we have the rest of our lives to enjoy using each other
 
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