Who are you thinking about when you fuck your partner?

[curiouschattycouple]

I think of her - sucking someone else as I fuck her. Or someone else fucking her too DVP. Or someone else fucking her while she sucks me, or I watch, or I hold her legs or hands.

 

[Deleted member 4038640]

I imagine someone coming into the room who’s very open minded

 

[Luganis]

Most of the time, no one, not even the woman I’m having sex with. While making out it has happened that I fantasize with someone else, someone I may have or had a crush.

It happened to me twice, making out with a GF and saying the name of someone else we mutually knew.
The reaction was not nice at all...

Having sex, never.

 

[PMarky2]

I've forgotten - it has been so bloody long since we last had sex where 'being careful' was not the number one consideration.

Actually - it has been a while since we had sex of any sort.

 

[Conquen69]

I typically imagine her sucking another guys cock or getting a really good fucking by a young stud with a nice ( bigger) cock.

One night I told her I didn't care who she thinks about as long as I'm getting off. I was fucking her missionary when she said " fuck me Michael". My name isn't Michael. It got me so fuckin hot and I picked up the pace. She said it again with a tone of desperation in her voice. I slammed harder and faster until we both exploded. Great night.

 

[One_ping_only]

I typically imagine her sucking another guys cock or getting a really good fucking by a young stud with a nice ( bigger) cock.

One night I told her I didn't care who she thinks about as long as I'm getting off. I was fucking her missionary when she said " fuck me Michael". My name isn't Michael. It got me so fuckin hot and I picked up the pace. She said it again with a tone of desperation in her voice. I slammed harder and faster until we both exploded. Great night.

That's absolutely wonderful that she's entertaining you by asking Michael to fuck her. I'm sure it was a huge turning......... my wife would be this way occasionally but only after a bottle of wine or some strength serum which is what we call tequilla haaaaa!!!

How would you feel if she mentions two different guy's names one night hmmmm??

 

[Driven2b]

If I’m thinking of anyone other than my partner, it’s usually previous partners or some of our swinging experiences.

 

[ned63]

The first yrs after getting married I thought of wife. When the sex got to be far an few times a yr then I was thinking of ladies I know or some lady I saw at the store. For the last 9 yrs or so since Iv had any sex with the wife, I think of those ladies still but I think of ladies on here as my hand takes care of me.

 

[Paddydrack]

I typically imagine her sucking another guys cock or getting a really good fucking by a young stud with a nice ( bigger) cock.

One night I told her I didn't care who she thinks about as long as I'm getting off. I was fucking her missionary when she said " fuck me Michael". My name isn't Michael. It got me so fuckin hot and I picked up the pace. She said it again with a tone of desperation in her voice. I slammed harder and faster until we both exploded. Great night.

That would be fine for me as long as I didn’t know any Michaels related to here lol

 

[lil_jenni]

The vast majority of the time, I'm thinking about Hubby when I am with Hubby. I'f I'm not exclusively thinking about him, I'm thinking about him and another woman (usually both of them with me, sometimes just him and her). On rare occasions, I might get lost in thinking about another woman with no involvement by Hubby. But like I said, that's rare.

 

[GikiceGikice69]

My sister

 

[fingerman075]

i had a gf who just switched off when we fucked for about a year before we broke up. So i know she was thinking of someone else. I just got into the habit of thinking of high school crushes, work colleagues i wanted to fuck etc. Now im with a hot woman and we have a great sex life. We fuck every day. But i still find myself drifting off to her friends, my female colleagues / crushes. Dont get me wrong i love this woman. Does anyone else experience this? Has i been a problem in their relationship or is it just a kinky behavior?

yes I admit my brain goes off too a other gal pussy. this 1 gal really really milked my dick but the one I'm doing now just warm and wet . she about 12 years younger all my life it's like gals chose me . this one chose me when her hubby was alive dying of cancer. I took him too hosp few times ya she was in the car too. they rented a room from me she smokes cig would come out in the car smoke and talk I now no longer smoke

 

[Swuchmann]

So why not just open the marriage? If neither of you have ended it because of the affairs then why not just make it ok?

We are considering an open marriage.

 

[plesmoreagain]

If I still had time to get to work lol

 

[nightowl75]

If he initiates it then he's all I'm thinking about. But if I initiate it, which is usually the case, then I'm thinking about my imaginary son

I love your imagination.

 

[sixfoot4]

The sequence for replacing the classic car's engine head gasket. Simply a diversionary tactic to delay my ejaculation.
Once I've completed that, and test fired the engine, then it's time to test fire my 'engine', switch back to the fucking and....ooooh - How was it for you?

 

[NancyPan]

Only Her! She is my Queen!

 

[Easyvirtue]

My exs daughter,

 

[LexiSmiles92]

My partner. Always.

How? Well, my husband and I are "free" to sex-it-up with others (with respectful permission, of course). With that being our case, and speaking for just myself and not my husband, sex is about the moment and the person I'm choosing to be with. The person I've chosen to be with in that moment is because of how that person draws me sexually ... therefore my mind is less likely to wander and the level of my enjoyment is entirely attached to that person (he's not a "stand in" for who I really want).

I hope I articulated that well enough and no judgment on those who use mental "stand ins". This is just me.

 

[haventdonethat]

98% of the time it is my present GF partner. It is all about her pleasure.

B U T , occasionally she has said something, not sure what it is, that brings back memories of first wife when I am fucking her and our friend has his cock in her mouth.
Her triggering comment does not have anything to do with the memories that I can understand, just boom, there is the memory.
Is there a shrink in the house??

 

[tnhardon]

Very very rare that I wouldn’t be thinking of her. I mean that’s who is in front of me having sex with me.

Now masturbation I think about others frequently. But not during sex.

 

[Soccerfanpen21]

Always about the person I am with. Unless they bring up another's name and my imagination can go astray.

 

[Missthefriz]

Whoever I'm with at the time

 

[BongoGal]

There have been plenty of times while having sex with a friend with benefits when I have closed my eyes and have mentally placed myself in a completely different place and time with someone completely different. Doing that with a fwb is almost what fwbs are made for. With a significant other, I might feel some measure of guilt that I was imagining that someone else was plowing me. With a fwb, who cares? There's no romance or deep feelings, so why not picture that handsome new neighbor taking advantage of my accidentally getting tied spread eagle on the bed? Afterward, I could tell the fwb or not. Heck, he may have been fantasizing that he was fucking the new cutie at work.

 

[gbhl44]

i think about the younger guy at she is fucking behind my back. a stay-at-home husband who is in my wife's bible study group.