Who are you thinking about when you fuck your partner?

i think about the younger guy at she is fucking behind my back. a stay-at-home husband who is in my wife's bible study group.
What about him are you actually thinking about if I may kindly ask?

His cock stretching your wife's wet pussy perhaps and both is hands squeezing her breasts and pinching her nipples while said cock slides in and out of her?!?

I'm curious and TIA.
 
this husband imagining the wife getting fucked by someone else is definitely a theme in this thread. Personally thats would be a boner killer for me.
Which is understandable but to each their own.

If I ever watched my wife it'd be as if she was my own personal porn star. I've been fortunate where she's masturbated in front of me and I cant think of another woman who would looked eexier than her.
 
Most of the time, no one, not even the woman I’m having sex with. While making out it has happened that I fantasize with someone else, someone I may have or had a crush.

It happened to me twice, making out with a GF and saying the name of someone else we mutually knew.
The reaction was not nice at all...

Having sex, never.
Sorry but , I been there done that :ROFLMAO:.
 
What was the reaction? How many times did it happen being with the same one?
She was pissed . In the heat of the moment to get back at me she blurted " I think of my ex when we fuck". I replied "that's fair"and smiled.
It only happened that once. Afterwards I sincerely apologise to her and she said she knew I loved her.
 
Perhaps I am odd but I only think of my wife when fucking. I do think of her sucking my friends dick or in a sexy outfit. But my thoughts are always her.
 
Most of the time, no one, not even the woman I’m having sex with. While making out it has happened that I fantasize with someone else, someone I may have or had a crush.

It happened to me twice, making out with a GF and saying the name of someone else we mutually knew.
The reaction was not nice at all...

Having sex, never.
Isn't that known as rodeo sex? In the middle of fucking a woman call her by another woman's name, then see how long you can stay inside her before she manages to buck you off. :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:
 
I'm thinking about my partner. Why would I be fucking her if someone else is on my mind?
 
I don't often think of others when I am with my wife. However, when I do, it's usually near the point that I'm going climax or if I need that extra little push to climax, I will think about someone I know watching my wife and I. We have a few mutual friends that I can picture in my mind standing next to our bed encouraging us or something and it's enough to get me over the edge.
 
I’ll preface this by saying my wife controls my orgasms and I haven’t cum in 4.5 weeks.

I was at a work conference and had to stay at a hotel near the office to be close. I’m a horny guy anyway, but withholding my orgasm for 4.5 weeks turns me into a VERY singular minded man!

I find most women attractive anyway, and practically everyone there was someone I wanted to fuck. after conference dinners and drinks only made it worse and learning that a very attractive co worker lives very close to me made it worse.

On the last night of the conference we made arrangements for my wife to join me at the hotel, abt an hour away. She went to a local second hand store that always has some sexy outfits while I had dinner and drinks.

I was already a few drinks in, hanging and networking with people when she arrived.

I went up to join her. We actually didn’t fuck that night, but she had bondage tape, bought a really sexy see thru top, and taped my hands together and gave me a really long edging handjob. It was maddening. I didn’t cum.

The next morning we fucked spoons position from behind and later shifted to missionary. I was imagining those dozens of women I’d been ogling over for two days as I fucked her. All of those sexy open toed shoes, dresses, skirts, beautiful women, average women, sexy women, larger women, tiny women…

She came 3x and I stopped before I came which is our agreement. It was really hot thinking about all of those other women. We’re close enough that I could tell her… (not like she didn’t know)

Post story: she’s gonna release me this weekend. My orgasms is that much more intense.
 
As far as I can remember, as a rule I don't think of much except pleasuring my partner and getting my rocks off.
 
I think of my girlfriends sister all the time I wish they would both play with me her sister has one of the nicest asses I ever seen it’s literally perfect all the way and her body I just cant contain how hot she makes me feel she used to live with us and she wore extra short shorts these pink ones and she would pass out on the couch with me sitting next to her and her legs spread pointed right at me I could always see part of her pussy sometimes the whole thing i want her pussy so bad i just want her so so bad i would pound her and cuddle her sexy ass at least three times a day🤤
 
Just her and that I won't be happy until she is screaming with pleasure.
 
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MOST of the time I'm focusing on her and thinking about her.

However, there have been occasions when I could tell she wasn't into it which made it hard for me to keep myself in a good headspace. In those instances, I've thought about "friends" from here on Lit and it has helped.
 
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