Who was the person your wife/spouse told you not to “worry about”?

[write_or_wrong]

Fascinating thread, glad it got bumped into the present. Hope there will be more feedback.

 

[screwher]

Seemingly, most people, at some point, have heard from their spouse/partner “Oh you have nothing worry with ____.” You have that gnawing feeling about the time your partner is spending with that person. When you confronted your spouse about it, they simply brushed it off. But as it turned out you were right - your spouse was getting naked and nasty with someone else.

For me, it was the first time my wife cheated years ago. She was working at a coffee shop. She developed an attraction to a regular customer. Started hanging out with him and his friends outside of work. She told me I had nothing to worry about. Soon after, that guy took my wife to a hotel and screwed her!

So who the person your spouse/partner told you not to worry about? We’re they cheating with that person after all? And what was effect on your relationship?

I feel there are more stories to tell. Let’s hear them.

 

[vandelayatx]

Her HS bf who she still keeps in touch with 35 years later.

 

[Sgts19]

Her HS bf who she still keeps in touch with 35 years later.

Same here old BF

 

[screwher]

Her HS bf who she still keeps in touch with 35 years later.

I think a lot of people will go with “old boyfriend/girlfriend from HS”. Maybe the sexual attraction is still there. Or it’s an ego thing. “Look what you’ve been missing out on”.

 

[screwher]

Seemingly, most people, at some point, have heard from their spouse/partner “Oh you have nothing worry with ____.” You have that gnawing feeling about the time your partner is spending with that person. When you confronted your spouse about it, they simply brushed it off. But as it turned out you were right - your spouse was getting naked and nasty with someone else.

For me, it was the first time my wife cheated years ago. She was working at a coffee shop. She developed an attraction to a regular customer. Started hanging out with him and his friends outside of work. She told me I had nothing to worry about. Soon after, that guy took my wife to a hotel and screwed her!

So who the person your spouse/partner told you not to worry about? We’re they cheating with that person after all? And what was effect on your relationship?

Everyone who has ever been cheated on has heard “don’t worry about him/her.” Who was it your spouse said this about.

As well, if you’ve ever said this to your partner, who was that person?

And please share some details.

 

[RTFLDGR]

my first wife (ex) went to a friend of mine's house for massage therapy. dumb ass me. He was a legit MT. He had his license and was going on to other professions. He was a weight trainer. He had a hot tub in his basement next to his massage therapy rooms. and he was married to a really nice woman.

He was as much a horn dog as my first wife. She teased him. She moaned and spread her legs and tortured him. She acted all hot & bothered and pulled the sheets off her, taunting him with her being perfectly comfortable naked in front of him.

just a friend ...

https://photos.google.com/share/AF1.../AF1QipNfSLqkzdVKFmkQzdUYNhr-vwI1rB6gYJBSdVW4

 

[Dreamer110]

Her HS bf who she still keeps in touch with 35 years later.

Wonder how close they keep in touch?

 

[BlueChamisa]

My wife knows I get off on "worrying about" her fucking other men, so she plays along with sexy texts and more. Has she done it? She won't say!

Update: She definitely has done it now. Six times (that I know of).

One of them was her ex bf, who I used to hate and be jealous of (decades ago). She flew to our old hometown and spent the weekend with him. She fucked him 3 times in one day! She hasn’t done that to me in years.

The guy looks way older than me and isn’t in shape. I felt flattered when she said her standards for “big cock” changed with me, because she “used to think he had a big dick.”

But she LOVED fucking him with me 1500 miles away. Her texts afterwards and our phone conversations were super hot. When she got home I was out of my mind with lust.

 

[vandelayatx]

Wonder how close they keep in touch?

all the way

 

[Marie1772]

my first wife (ex) went to a friend of mine's house for massage therapy. dumb ass me. He was a legit MT. He had his license and was going on to other professions. He was a weight trainer. He had a hot tub in his basement next to his massage therapy rooms. and he was married to a really nice woman.

He was as much a horn dog as my first wife. She teased him. She moaned and spread her legs and tortured him. She acted all hot & bothered and pulled the sheets off her, taunting him with her being perfectly comfortable naked in front of him.

just a friend ...

https://photos.google.com/share/AF1.../AF1QipNfSLqkzdVKFmkQzdUYNhr-vwI1rB6gYJBSdVW4

That’s hot because my massage therapist is a man and I wish he would fuck me because I get so wettt

 

[RTFLDGR]

That’s hot because my massage therapist is a man and I wish he would fuck me because I get so wettt

exactly. You prove an excellent point. If your wife is going to a male massage therapist, the sex is right there. Her pussy is wet. Her mind and body want it. She will tease with parted legs, wet pussy and moans. He will tease with his hands and touch. He knows how to arouse her with non-specific touch. He will place her hand near his penis. She makes the move or he does. More women get fucked on an MT's table than men know.

Go have fun, Marie. Tease him already. Make his day. When he positions you face up, simply pull the draping sheet off you with intention and drop it to the floor. Say nothing. Make him massage your naked body face up and let him see you fully. See what he's made of. ;-) If you need to, lead his hands.

OTOH, for men, if you do not want your wife fucked by her male MT, insist she go only to a female MT or not at all.

 

[Marie1772]

exactly. You prove an excellent point. If your wife is going to a male massage therapist, the sex is right there. Her pussy is wet. Her mind and body want it. She will tease with parted legs, wet pussy and moans. He will tease with his hands and touch. He knows how to arouse her with non-specific touch. He will place her hand near his penis. She makes the move or he does. More women get fucked on an MT's table than men know.

Go have fun, Marie. Tease him already. Make his day. When he positions you face up, simply pull the draping sheet off you with intention and drop it to the floor. Say nothing. Make him massage your naked body face up and let him see you fully. See what he's made of. ;-) If you need to, lead his hands.

https://photos.google.com/share/AF1...?key=ZGtKZGQ3ZlVnTWZxdlZZMm5wTXJtc09DMlc5UGt3

https://photos.google.com/share/AF1...?key=ZGtKZGQ3ZlVnTWZxdlZZMm5wTXJtc09DMlc5UGt3

OTOH, for men, if you do not want your wife fucked by her male MT, insist she go only to a female MT or not at all.

Oh fuck yes I wish he would bend me over and massage this wet pusssssy

 

[Kolejdayz]

She mentioned all her male friends at college and grad school, but gradually it came out that she had fucked them all

 

[dr2brd]

My wife told me not to worry about one of her colleagues. They were hanging out together after hours quite often discussing some business problems and sometimes at his place, cause he rented an apartment close to their office. Well, my wife was totally true, I should not worry about that guy. But one day she met one of his friends at his place. And he fucked her for next several weeks,

 

[ElannaCalli]

Everyone who has ever been cheated on has heard “don’t worry about him/her.” Who was it your spouse said this about.

As well, if you’ve ever said this to your partner, who was that person?

And please share some details.

It's what your wife or significant other wears when she sees these men