slavemarissa
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Dec 7, 2008
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Of course your view matters..Not that it matters, but just for the record I disagree with the views expressed by most on this thread.
In my view, power and pain are integral aspects of human sexuality - as are tenderness, humor, sensuality, and so on. The mix varies from person to person and context to context, of course. But in general, I don't see the world as divided between those who belong under some so-called "BDSM umbrella" and those who do not.
What i was saying was that although some people, and i'm pressuming a fair amout of us, count ourselves as being under this 'BDSM umbrella' in my oppinion i dislike how BDSM is all inclusive in a way. I don't believe that BDSM is all about fetishes - that's what fetish threads are for - of course it can include fetishes (from reading the threads on this forum people have bondage fetishes ect. which are included in BDSM) but not everyone does have a fetish.
I don't know, this is all completely off-topic now, i just think that there should be another forum for it, and people who want to be part of both can...
Any ideas where we can ask about that?