Northsidejoe
Really Experienced
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- Mar 12, 2023
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I think as time moves on, you'll be doing it more and more and I doubt you'll ever use that safe word! It really does become addicting, and I can't say why, only that it does.Well…. we talked again and had some play time tonight. She played the part perfectly and fed me my delicious treat. It was awesome. We ended up doing the 69 position again, which worked out well. I’m going to have to work her up to straddling my face. I’m really looking forward to when she feels confident enough to do that.
It was interesting because she totally got into it once she let go. Afterwards we had a little debrief and talked about what we liked and what we didn’t. No negatives were mentioned, only positives. She said she liked it but didn’t want to do it all the time, which is fine because neither do I. It turns out she really enjoyed bossing me around and that she’d be happy to play the part now and then. We also agreed that from now on, if I finish before she does, she’ll make me clean up (we climax at the same time more often than not). But I have a safe word if I’m not into it that particular day.
I still don’t understand why this is such a turn on for me…. but at least I seem to be on the right path to enjoying it. While we were talking about it afterwards, I was already starting to fantasize about doing it again. I’m still interested to hear theories on this….