Wife has a rape fantasy, anyone else's partner?

[SoftToTouch]

So what happened? You want to tell us about your experiences?

In both cases, I met them online and arranged to meet.

The first one, we ended up at my BFF house, I was house/pet sitting, and he licked my pussy like a champ.. SO good then we fucked on the couch.

The other one, I met him behind a local closed fast food place and we fucked in the car.

 

[Naughtygirl201]

The majority of my female friends admit to having this fantasy in some form. It is probably some evolutionary leftover from times before consent was a frequent part of the female sexual experience.

 

[tristianc]

The majority of my female friends admit to having this fantasy in some form. It is probably some evolutionary leftover from times before consent was a frequent part of the female sexual experience.

Agreed

 

[Meeh81]

My wife expressed to me that she has a ravishment, or rape fantasy.
This suprised me, as it's not a fantasy I usually think about, but Im open-minded.
She told me that she wanted to me surprise her, and tie her up and use her, forcefully.
We even talked about her allowing me to pick another man, or men, that were safe to gangbang "rape" her tied up and blindfolded.
Any women out there relate? Anyone with experience in this type of play? Just curious about the fetish now.

Sounds hot i would like to try it also i love hardcore fucking

 

[Gbchris]

Yes and we have roleplayed it

Hi, where in the UK are you?

 

[TrainMePlease]

My wife expressed to me that she has a ravishment, or rape fantasy.
This suprised me, as it's not a fantasy I usually think about, but Im open-minded.
She told me that she wanted to me surprise her, and tie her up and use her, forcefully.
We even talked about her allowing me to pick another man, or men, that were safe to gangbang "rape" her tied up and blindfolded.
Any women out there relate? Anyone with experience in this type of play? Just curious about the fetish now.

Don't have a wife, but I have the same fantasy.

 

[gtnlynn]

Yes, we have played that game a few times. She was never actually raped in real life, but she was forced to do some things that she didn't want to do during consensual sex: cum in mouth, anal, and other things. We enjoyed the fantasy, but it was nothing like the real thing.

 

[Lucy4646]

How does your fantasy play out?

 

[windwater]

Consensual Nonconsent has always been my number one kink.

Many years ago, when in my early 20's and as naive as you can imagine, I was fucking this girl pretty regularly and each time, she became more and more passive. The night she told me to 'rip my bra off' was hot as fuck, but again, I had no idea. After that, she was just a ragdoll, 'do anything you want to me' she said. I look back and hope that an early experience did not make her need this for a negative reason, and frankly, it got a bit boring - but had I known what she really wanted, it would have been a hell of a time for the both of us.

 

[haventdonethat]

Maybe just consensual non consent?

When first dating the one who would become wife 2, she subtly gave me hints about what she liked.
While lying naked in bed and us intimate, she would raise her arms over her head with wrists crossed, Not saying what she wanted It took me a while to figure it out.
I would grasp her wrists together in one hand and hold her arms outstretched while my body weight kept her struggling body in check. She was always sopping wet when I entered her.
I graduated to four pieces of soft nylon rope, each one attached to a leg of the bed.
I would pin her with my body and tie her in a spread eagle fashion while she struggle (?) against me. It would take some time. Then the fucking would start, her struggling all the time.
Sometimes I would insert a vibrator in her, sit in a chair and call some friends. This always got the best results, she so stiff when she orgasmed only her head and heels were touching the bed. She knew she had to be quiet.
When I finally untied her, she always said the same thing . . . “ohhh, thank you that was great”.

 

[Lucy4646]

Maybe just consensual non consent?

When first dating the one who would become wife 2, she subtly gave me hints about what she liked.
While lying naked in bed and us intimate, she would raise her arms over her head with wrists crossed, Not saying what she wanted It took me a while to figure it out.
I would grasp her wrists together in one hand and hold her arms outstretched while my body weight kept her struggling body in check. She was always sopping wet when I entered her.
I graduated to four pieces of soft nylon rope, each one attached to a leg of the bed.
I would pin her with my body and tie her in a spread eagle fashion while she struggle (?) against me. It would take some time. Then the fucking would start, her struggling all the time.
Sometimes I would insert a vibrator in her, sit in a chair and call some friends. This always got the best results, she so stiff when she orgasmed only her head and heels were touching the bed. She knew she had to be quiet.
When I finally untied her, she always said the same thing . . . “ohhh, thank you that was great”.

So you would call friends with her tied to the bed? Did you have them come over?

 

[Lucy4646]

About five years ago, a married woman in her mid-thirties sought my advice on wanting to prompt her husband to rape her. He knew about her fantasy and she expressed her desire for him to rape her. He was hesitant and also at times he told her it needed the right environment.

The right environment? This was a hint he'd given that he was not against it.

I advised her to get the most out of a rape she'd have to provoke him. Upon questioning her about him, she mentioned that vulgar women and whores anger him. He comments bitterly when he sees one in public. So, I told her to dress in a vulgar way and like a whore and to role play being one.

I told her that I often play the role of a sexily dressed woman sitting at a bar of a plush hotel and have my hubby pick me up. In her case, she would have to dress much more osé and like a whore. The cheaper a whore is the more provocative she can be, at least visually. She said she won't be able to do it in public, but in private at home, she can. I guided her as to what to dress, in fishnet stockings, the wide (whale) type, preferably red, along with a garter belt. A short skirt with a contrasting colour, preferably black, a skirt that rides up her thighs and clearly shows the welt of her stockings or beyond when seated. Her breasts were small, and I could not tell her to show cleavage, and she read my mind and told me her husband likes her small breasts. So, I told her she should go without a bra and attempt to have her nipples (preferably stiff) jut against the thin fabric of a tightly fitting blouse. She told me she would have to order the stockings and garter belt online. I advised her that she would go a long way to provoke him more, if she does it in public. I also told her that she would have to do some dirty talking, like a whore, to provoke him verbally too. I told her, when we often role-play, I do charge my husband to fuck me! She told me she'd think about it.

About two months later, she called me and told me, "he raped me ..... he was a maniac .... it was super." He had a short two-day business trip, and she told him, she'll drive him to the airport and pick him up when he returns. She dressed as it was planned for the pick-up. His eyes popped out when he saw her in the driver's seat, and his first words, "what the hell..." She spoke to him with Cockney dialect, "where would you like to go." He was tongue-tied. She told him she charges 100 pounds (which is very cheap) and there is a hotel right next to the airport. He ordered her "drive home." Home was 20 minutes away with not much traffic at 11 pm. En route, he attempted to touch her between the legs but she won't allow him to reach her crotch. He called her "bitch." She kept her Cockney dialect and told him she wanted to see the money first, and he took it out of his wallet and threw it on her lap calling her "whore." After he paid her, she allowed him to touch her, knowing that she cannot be seen. They hardly entered the house when he threw himself on her pushing her on a settee in the entrance of the house. She told me after 12 years of being together (and married), it was the best sex she ever had.

This is a great story. I love all the details.

 

[haventdonethat]

So you would call friends with her tied to the bed? Did you have them come over?

Not at those times when she was tied, no.
It was a bit strange, when I talked to her about double fucking, usually when we were doing the deed ourselves; she became very wet and orgasmed quickly.
When we were finished and lying in the afterglow she was adamant that she didn’t want it.
It did happen later, but not in the tied up scenario.

 

[Lucy4646]

Not at those times when she was tied, no.
It was a bit strange, when I talked to her about double fucking, usually when we were doing the deed ourselves; she became very wet and orgasmed quickly.
When we were finished and lying in the afterglow she was adamant that she didn’t want it.
It did happen later, but not in the tied up scenario.

How did it happen? Does that turn you on?

 

[SubmissiveSnowflake]

Mine is a stranger in a black leather jacket shushing me while he takes what he wants and then leaves without saying a word. Or a friend losing control and then acting like nothing happened.

 

[Rob_Royale]

I decided to try a rape fantasy story. Really outside my wheelhouse but it was an interesting experiment.
https://literotica.com/s/the-ravishment-of-melody

 

[N2outdoors]

My wife expressed to me that she has a ravishment, or rape fantasy.
This suprised me, as it's not a fantasy I usually think about, but Im open-minded.
She told me that she wanted to me surprise her, and tie her up and use her, forcefully.
We even talked about her allowing me to pick another man, or men, that were safe to gangbang "rape" her tied up and blindfolded.
Any women out there relate? Anyone with experience in this type of play? Just curious about the fetish now.

 

[ALovelyNudist]

I’m not a wife to anyone but talking to other men and women on here it does seem to be more common than even I thought. If she says no though… it means NO. Don’t break their trust for you gentlemen

 

[screwher]

My wife has a rape fantasy, but claims to not want to act it out.

This is Mrs. Screwher too. She once confessed to me that she fantasizes about being taken by another man against her will. Her confession got us both really horny and we screwing right away.

I have thought in the past that maybe I could make the fantasy a reality for her. If I arranged it with her, then it really wouldn’t be rape. It would be just a guy I arranged to fuck her. But maybe I could arrange something with another man. I go out for the ebvening. Leave the back door open. Then he invades the house and does the deed. But I honestly don’t think doing it without her knowledge would be a good idea either. Even if she did secretly enjoyed it. There’s too many real world implications afterward.

 

[Elle4u2use2]

Ive told 2 men. One sexts/talks dirty to me about. One surprised me and wore a mask while fucking me

 

[Kenrychard]

My ex wife also. But never considered playing it out. For her it seemed there were 2 factors. One was the shadows left from actual events in her past, molested for years by a family member, and then too obviously a victim, raped 3 times in High School by adult males in authority positions. A dark drawing to re experience it. And some darker sexual desires that she said felt too immoral to consider doing willfully, and instead slipped into her fantasies as something she didn't choose but was forced to do.

 

[Rockwell12]

My wife doesn't have a rape fantasy as far as I know, but she does have the fantasy of being "taken" by a man that she finds to be attractive of course. Essentially forcing himself on her (although she could get out of the situation if she wanted).

 

[N2outdoors]

This is Mrs. Screwher too. She once confessed to me that she fantasizes about being taken by another man against her will. Her confession got us both really horny and we screwing right away.

I have thought in the past that maybe I could make the fantasy a reality for her. If I arranged it with her, then it really wouldn’t be rape. It would be just a guy I arranged to fuck her. But maybe I could arrange something with another man. I go out for the ebvening. Leave the back door open. Then he invades the house and does the deed. But I honestly don’t think doing it without her knowledge would be a good idea either. Even if she did secretly enjoyed it. There’s too many real world implications afterward.

 

[Lovealippy]

I've had these fantasies since my teens (so a very long time!). And the ravishment scenario is hugely common - back when I read Cosmo it was always in the top three fantasies in their annual survey.

I think mine stem from a) being a geeky, bookish teen who just wanted to be found desireable, and b) as I get older, wanting to convince myself that I 'still have it'

I'd never want such things to ever happen to me (in your own fantasy, you're still really in control) but the scenarios are hot.