Wife has a rape fantasy, anyone else's partner?

[dz2681]

My wife has had the same fantasy over the years. She enjoys rough sex and being held down as she resists somewhat, it’s gotten a little more aggressive with time although it’s been a while since she’s wanted it like that. We did a couple role plays where I’d surprise her when she would come home, she’d know what was going to happen but always wanted me to not tell her the day and would urge me to find someone that could help make it more realistic. She hasn’t brought it up in a long time but it was a very arousing fantasy for her.

 

[Buttboy7869]

My wife once confessed to fantasizing about be raped by another man. The conversation got us so hot we were in the bedroom in no time. I admit that the idea of another taking her like that arouses me too. So I tried to think of ways of making this a reality. But too many real life implications. Some fantasies are best left as that.

Yes. Some fantasies should remain fantasies. Playing them out with a partner can be great fun. My wife and I enjoyed acting out the fantasy many times but to expect it to be as arousing in real life is unrealistic. Real rape is a horror and causes lifelong trauma for the victim.

 

[curioustxn]

My wife expressed to me that she has a ravishment, or rape fantasy.
This suprised me, as it's not a fantasy I usually think about, but Im open-minded.
She told me that she wanted to me surprise her, and tie her up and use her, forcefully.
We even talked about her allowing me to pick another man, or men, that were safe to gangbang "rape" her tied up and blindfolded.
Any women out there relate? Anyone with experience in this type of play? Just curious about the fetish now.

There are a number of ways to create a rape fantasy for a woman; however, before you go down that road, you need to talk to your wife, (a lot), and understand why she wants this particular fantasy, as well as her expectations and limits. You have to understand as much as you can, because it is easy to go to far without realizing it.

With rape fantasies or role-plays, it isn't what you do to her, it's how you make her feel!

Sex for a woman, (when it's good), is a mix of intense emotions, and when she is forced, (I mean really forced against her will), it triggers intense emotions like anger and fear, which makes it just that much more intense.

If it is going to feel real to her, she has to defend herself, do everything she can to stop you: possibly including hitting as scratching. Seriously, she has to do everything she can to stop you.

When she comes to the point where she realizes that she can't stop you, and she is going to get fucked whether she likes it or not, it triggers fear, followed by anger. It can become so intense that she both hates it and craves it.

A woman can hate having no control over her body, and at the same time, crave the intense emotional and physical sensations.

A word of caution. You have to keep yourself under control, and pay close attention to how she is reacting. If she panics, you have to stop and talk her down.

And if she gets through it without panicking, (or using a safe word), after you force her, you still have to talk her down. The feeling of losing control over her body can be very intense emotionally for woman.

Also, if you wife has never been forced or raped when she was younger, I would suggest role-playing it a few times to let her get some idea of how it feels to be forced, before you take it all the way.

 

[Buttboy7869]

There are a number of ways to create a rape fantasy for a woman; however, before you go down that road, you need to talk to your wife, (a lot), and understand why she wants this particular fantasy, as well as her expectations and limits. You have to understand as much as you can, because it is easy to go to far without realizing it.

With rape fantasies or role-plays, it isn't what you do to her, it's how you make her feel!

Sex for a woman, (when it's good), is a mix of intense emotions, and when she is forced, (I mean really forced against her will), it triggers intense emotions like anger and fear, which makes it just that much more intense.

If it is going to feel real to her, she has to defend herself, do everything she can to stop you: possibly including hitting as scratching. Seriously, she has to do everything she can to stop you.

When she comes to the point where she realizes that she can't stop you, and she is going to get fucked whether she likes it or not, it triggers fear, followed by anger. It can become so intense that she both hates it and craves it.

A woman can hate having no control over her body, and at the same time, crave the intense emotional and physical sensations.

A word of caution. You have to keep yourself under control, and pay close attention to how she is reacting. If she panics, you have to stop and talk her down.

And if she gets through it without panicking, (or using a safe word), after you force her, you still have to talk her down. The feeling of losing control over her body can be very intense emotionally for woman.

Also, if you wife has never been forced or raped when she was younger, I would suggest role-playing it a few times to let her get some idea of how it feels to be forced, before you take it all the way.

Very good advise. The use of a safe word is extremely important.

 

[Daddysfatwhore]

I'm one of the broken ones. I had it happen to me and it's a big turn on since.

 

[chrisatb5]

I'm one of the broken ones. I had it happen to me and it's a big turn on since.

Being broken can hard, but you're not alone. Own it your own way.

 

[lil_jenni]

So, my situation is that I love the occasional rough, intense rape play (CNC play to be more politically correct). My Hubby, not so much into it as willing to make me happy. And he always does a good if uninspired job. But the handful of times he has really embraced his role... WOW! Not much can make me come harder than Hubby being forceful...

 

[lil_jenni]

I'm one of the broken ones. I had it happen to me and it's a big turn on since.

I used to think of myself as broken, and on my darkest days, I sometimes still fall into that trap. But most of the time, I see myself as someone who has taken control of my own life, and that includes sometimes ceding that control to a man I trust without reservation.

 

[tristianc]

I have the rape fantasy. I fantasise that two university students force themselves on me at the university library. This is my favourite fantasy. I have had it for more than 15 years. Incidentally, the rape fantasy is women's second or third most favoured fantasy. Mind you, it is rape without harm.

against the racks or on the table?

 

[stiv837]

My wife has also experienced the real thing many years ago when drunk. She was also gangbanged while drunk. I believe she is broken but I don't think it is from these things as much as a messed up family life growing up. At least this is what she told me many years ago.

 

[nfrrdscnnr1]

Maybe I can pm it to people but thats too much work…are pm’s truly private from Lit?

Count me in, please, if you do PM the story. And thank you for your efforts. Very interesting phenomenon.

 

[April602]

I will pm it to you.
If anyone else wants to read it let me know by pm’ing me.

Hope you read all my other posted true stories.

 

[Dreamer110]

I've role played this with my wife but she just loses control and wants the sex. Oh well.

 

[Justfantasies]

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My wife expressed to me that she has a ravishment, or rape fantasy.
This suprised me, as it's not a fantasy I usually think about, but Im open-minded.
She told me that she wanted to me surprise her, and tie her up and use her, forcefully.
We even talked about her allowing me to pick another man, or men, that were safe to gangbang "rape" her tied up and blindfolded.
Any women out there relate? Anyone with experience in this type of play? Just curious about the fetish now.

My wife confessed much the same thing. She is a university teacher and she says she often thinks about the young men in her class fucking her. Some of them are really hot and -- as she fantasies it anyway -- very well hung. In the fantasies she is dressed prim and proper in a skirt and blouse and the guys rip her clothes off and pull down her panties. Then two of the stronger lads hold her while the other guys fuck her one at a time

 

[nfrrdscnnr1]

A lady with whom I was intimate in the past never expressed a rape fantasy per se, but certainly did often talk about the wind shipping her skirt up over her head and how that would look and what she'd do. She also wore a skimpy bikini in our yard when we had no pool but neighbors could see. Wish I could have peeled her onion more than I did. My suspicion is that she had some sort of questionable relationship with her father who was a philanderer of the first order. Ah, mysteries!!

 

[N2outdoors]

I'm one of the broken ones. I had it happen to me and it's a big turn on since.

 

[N2outdoors]

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[N2outdoors]

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[Amygirl2122]

As others have said, this is a very common fantasy among women, although many won’t admit to it! I’ve never played it in RL but have enjoyed various online RP rape/coercion scenes and found them surprisingly enjoyable.

 

[xrockx1]

I will pm it to you.
If anyone else wants to read it let me know by pm’ing me.

Hope you read all my other posted true stories.

Hi, would love to read your story. My wy-wife was used by multiple guys when she was in her early teens.

 

[April602]

Hi, would love to read your story. My wy-wife was used by multiple guys when she was in her early teens.

Ok will send it later today. Anyone one else interested?
Please don’t forget to read my true stories or follow my thread where I post pictures.
Enjoy

 

[Medicalman13152]

Please PM Me!

I will pm it to you.
If anyone else wants to read it let me know by pm’ing me.

Hope you read all my other posted true stories.

 

[Buttboy7869]

Ok will send it later today. Anyone one else interested?
Please don’t forget to read my true stories or follow my thread where I post pictures.
Enjoy

I’m interested as well April. Thanks

 

[April602]

I’m interested as well April. Thanks

Ok hope I don’t forget anyone

 

[Dreamer110]

My wife had a rape fantasy but when we roll played it she couldn't wait to just get down to business. Pretty sure it had something to do with the three young men who took advantage of her before we met.