Women who like to be taken forcefully

[Kristal_1976]

This is how I told you I wanted you...

That's a good girl, doesn't that taste good...

Let's see how wet that made you

Now, cum for me...

No fair holding back...

That's it, keeping going...

Mmm, I knew you had more in there for me...

First, fourth and last are the best

 

[ImiGirrst]

And just a little more...

You love having my cock in you, don't you?

Your tits bounce so pretty...

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You want my cock all the time, don't you?

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[ImiGirrst]

That's it, baby girl, grip it hard on every stroke...

Now, take my cum, all of it...

So pretty, so beautiful, such a good girl...

 

[Cernunnos69]

That's it, baby girl, grip it hard on every stroke...

Now, take my cum, all of it...

So pretty, so beautiful, such a good girl...

GRRROOOWWWWLING in my deep bass voice, Gooood Girrrrrl!!!

 

[lit_ch3]

That's it, baby girl, grip it hard on every stroke...

Now, take my cum, all of it...

So pretty, so beautiful, such a good girl...

Good lord, that 3rd pic is blazing hot!!!

 

[ImiGirrst]

GRRROOOWWWWLING in my deep bass voice, Gooood Girrrrrl!!!

So, I take it you followed the storyline?

 

[eroticspank]

I understand how she felt. I also like to experience my arousal mediated through his. Having my own orgasm foregrounded is too intense, too humiliating. Watching him cum first puts that animal intensity at a safe distance. I can watch safely from afar and enjoy it. Sometimes I don’t even care if I cum. Just watching him get off on me is enough.

Exactly! It is about him losing control with you and in you vs you losing control first then him. You want to experience his passion and loss of control. It is like a gift and you get to receive it, over and over again.
ES

 

[TheEternalBeachBum]

Fascinating thread.

While I’ve had plenty of partners in my life, it’s been entirely what all of you would call vanilla. But since arriving on Lit, my eyes have been opened to how prevalent is the community of men and women with declared sub/dom preferences and practices.

Maybe it’s simply the fact that BDSM practitioners, being more open sexually, would be drawn to this place that’s rooted in sexual expression. I dunno. But it’s tantalizing to think that there are potentially so many women walking around who’d welcome being tied, controlled, teased and fucked to my satisfaction.

Oh, and yes; I’ve come to realize my own dom needs along the way. It’s there alright, Just needs an outlet. As an amateur artist, I’m dying to get trained in shibari.

Someday…

 

[ImiGirrst]

Fascinating thread.

While I’ve had plenty of partners in my life, it’s been entirely what all of you would call vanilla. But since arriving on Lit, my eyes have been opened to how prevalent is the community of men and women with declared sub/dom preferences and practices.

Maybe it’s simply the fact that BDSM practitioners, being more open sexually, would be drawn to this place that’s rooted in sexual expression. I dunno. But it’s tantalizing to think that there are potentially so many women walking around who’d welcome being tied, controlled, teased and fucked to my satisfaction.

Oh, and yes; I’ve come to realize my own dom needs along the way. It’s there alright, Just needs an outlet. As an amateur artist, I’m dying to get trained in shibari.

Someday…

I hope in these pages, you've learned that 50 shades of grey is really NOT BDSM. That is on the abusive side.

In true Ds, the dom understands the gift of control that the sub gives him or her. And the domme cherishes that gift of trust that comes along with it. It's not just about telling people what to do.

 

[Northernboy1956]

My wife is usually pretty conservative but when she get's in the right mood, she enjoys it rough, I can slap her around, abuse her ass and nipples and talk filthy to her. She loves having her hair pulled back while I am fucking her from behind. But this is not a regular occasion that I get to enjoy this side of her

Hi yes my wife is the same especially likes her ass slapped and some tossing around

 

[TheEternalBeachBum]

I hope in these pages, you've learned that 50 shades of grey is really NOT BDSM. That is on the abusive side.

In true Ds, the dom understands the gift of control that the sub gives him or her. And the domme cherishes that gift of trust that comes along with it. It's not just about telling people what to do.

Never saw the movie.

Nonetheless, what you say about the gift of control and about trust, is a large part of the allure for this inquisitive man. Our most cherished lovers, no matter the activities, are the ones who make the experience about their partner. This is how I approach intimacy today, and would (or will) be my aspiration as a dom.

 

[Cernunnos69]

I hope in these pages, you've learned that 50 shades of grey is really NOT BDSM. That is on the abusive side.

In true Ds, the dom understands the gift of control that the sub gives him or her. And the domme cherishes that gift of trust that comes along with it. It's not just about telling people what to do.

Exactly!! this si what I keep telling everyone who is interested in Dom/sub relationship, that it is a relationship based on trust and respect, that it's not about ABUSE! Sure the agreed upn playing can be tht BUT the underlying motivation and relationship for me must be one of respect for my sub as a complex Person! Trust must be gained and given freely.

So many ads and responses are just players for quick rp fun, not long-term real D/s or BDSM.

 

[lil_jenni]

I understand how she felt. I also like to experience my arousal mediated through his. Having my own orgasm foregrounded is too intense, too humiliating. Watching him cum first puts that animal intensity at a safe distance. I can watch safely from afar and enjoy it. Sometimes I don’t even care if I cum. Just watching him get off on me is enough.

It was similar for me with guys, except my husband. It's one reason I gave a lot of BJs, and why I didn't really care for receiving oral from men. Another reason for a giving BJs was sex could hurt, and I rarely came from it back then, so giving a BJ was usually my go to. I enjoyed making the guy come, and I got to take care of myself afterwards, alone, without pressure or expectation. And I had very few guys complain about not having to return the favor after I blew them.

Hubby was different, and I let him return the favor after the first BJ I gave him, and he did a fantastic job. But a lot of it was because I was so relaxed with him right from the start. He says it was because he's nice. And yeah, I could tell right away he was genuinely nice and not just acting that way to get some, but I'd hooked up with other nice guys. I can't tell you what is was, although his smile has always melted me, right from the moment I first saw it. All I knew was I was relaxed and willing and let myself enjoy what I normally wouldn't...

It's different with women— mutual gratification but without any pressure because the male physiological constraint it not an issue. With another woman, we both know the O's will come (pun intended), and it doesn't matter who is first or last or whatever.

 

[tristantrotsky]

It was similar for me with guys, except my husband. It's one reason I gave a lot of BJs, and why I didn't really care for receiving oral from men. Another reason for a giving BJs was sex could hurt, and I rarely came from it back then, so giving a BJ was usually my go to. I enjoyed making the guy come, and I got to take care of myself afterwards, alone, without pressure or expectation. And I had very few guys complain about not having to return the favor after I blew them.

Hubby was different, and I let him return the favor after the first BJ I gave him, and he did a fantastic job. But a lot of it was because I was so relaxed with him right from the start. He says it was because he's nice. And yeah, I could tell right away he was genuinely nice and not just acting that way to get some, but I'd hooked up with other nice guys. I can't tell you what is was, although his smile has always melted me, right from the moment I first saw it. All I knew was I was relaxed and willing and let myself enjoy what I normally wouldn't...

It's different with women— mutual gratification but without any pressure because the male physiological constraint it not an issue. With another woman, we both know the O's will come (pun intended), and it doesn't matter who is first or last or whatever.

A sad-happy confession.
No-one should ever feel pressured or coerced to do something for the wrong reasons, something that they're uncomfortable with or that they prefer as an alternative to something they consider to be worse. Sex should always be a mutual consensual joy. Anything other than that is a fraud.
I'm glad you found contentment. At a cost. But yes, the sapphic sex you describe is the way it should always be.

 

[lil_jenni]

A sad-happy confession.
No-one should ever feel pressured or coerced to do something for the wrong reasons, something that they're uncomfortable with or that they prefer as an alternative to something they consider to be worse. Sex should always be a mutual consensual joy. Anything other than that is a fraud.
I'm glad you found contentment. At a cost. But yes, the sapphic sex you describe is the way it should always be.

Thank you for the sentiment, but I think you misunderstood. Perhaps I could have expressed it better. Anyway, I didn't give blowjobs because of pressure to do so or to get out of sex. I did it because I liked it. I was usually the aggressor. It was empowering and submissive all at once, and I loved (and still love) doing it. Hell, I relived many a casual blowjob in my mind as I got myself off afterwards. The pressure I was talking about was the pressure to enjoy attempts at reciprocation when I wanted nothing because I really wasn't interested in what they could offer. I liked both vaginal and anal sex, but I had to be drunk to relax enough for it. And after my first year of college, I decided getting drunk like that and doing things with random guys was dangerous. The BJ now/masturbation later scheme was what I came up with so I could get that rush of hooking up and giving pleasure without the expectation that I wanted anything from them..I didn't. What was different with my Hubby is that I did want it, and it turned out he knew what he was doing. It was a win-win.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Thank you for the sentiment, but I think you misunderstood. Perhaps I could have expressed it better. Anyway, I didn't give blowjobs because of pressure to do so or to get out of sex. I did it because I liked it. I was usually the aggressor. It was empowering and submissive all at once, and I loved (and still love) doing it. Hell, I relived many a casual blowjob in my mind as I got myself off afterwards. The pressure I was talking about was the pressure to enjoy attempts at reciprocation when I wanted nothing because I really wasn't interested in what they could offer. I liked both vaginal and anal sex, but I had to be drunk to relax enough for it. And after my first year of college, I decided getting drunk like that and doing things with random guys was dangerous. The BJ now/masturbation later scheme was what I came up with so I could get that rush of hooking up and giving pleasure without the expectation that I wanted anything from them..I didn't. What was different with my Hubby is that I did want it, and it turned out he knew what he was doing. It was a win-win.

The psychology of sex and need can be complicated at times. I'm just glad that you arrived at a happy ending!

 

[eroticspank]

@lil_jenni I understand what you are saying and it makes a lot of sense. By giving a BJ, you are not on the "sex stage" for lack of a better term. You are just on the sideline enjoying the control you have giving the BJ. When you are done and back home, you can enjoy the memories of your experience in the comfort and safety of home and relax.

I had a similar experience where I just wanted to give her cunnilingus and not have intercourse or have her give me a BJ. The experience goes along with this thread because I forced myself down between her legs and started licking. She wanted to do something to me, but it was too late and soon she had an orgasm. Sure enough, by that point, she was exhausted and close to sleep. So I got up and kissed her goodbye. I really enjoyed the experience and relived it when I got home.
ES

 

[Not Normal]

Thank you for the sentiment, but I think you misunderstood. Perhaps I could have expressed it better. Anyway, I didn't give blowjobs because of pressure to do so or to get out of sex. I did it because I liked it. I was usually the aggressor. It was empowering and submissive all at once, and I loved (and still love) doing it. Hell, I relived many a casual blowjob in my mind as I got myself off afterwards. The pressure I was talking about was the pressure to enjoy attempts at reciprocation when I wanted nothing because I really wasn't interested in what they could offer. I liked both vaginal and anal sex, but I had to be drunk to relax enough for it. And after my first year of college, I decided getting drunk like that and doing things with random guys was dangerous. The BJ now/masturbation later scheme was what I came up with so I could get that rush of hooking up and giving pleasure without the expectation that I wanted anything from them..I didn't. What was different with my Hubby is that I did want it, and it turned out he knew what he was doing. It was a win-win.

If you don't mind my asking, would you discuss this with the people you gave blow jobs to, before you started? Not only do I think it would be good to know up front. I think that conversation could also be really hot foreplay (if desired)
Thanks

 

[SavannaT]

To an extent I feel like I missed out on the fun times in my teen years, though most of my friends were guys, they weren’t into me like that, and the girls thought ironically I was a slut, then quite late my tits came in and that changed, had my share of guy friends once I had a fiance and they groped me but never full on took me but always wanted it, I found myself watching rape scenes in movies and touching myself to em, fucked up I know but the fetish has never left me, not even years into my marriage. Ironically it was much much older men who noticed me developing late and I ended up fetishizing their hungry eyes as well.

 

[KaitlynW1993]

My fav style of sex.
I think all day. I just want to be manhandled and enjoyed. I like to turn my brain off and become his pleasure toy. This way i can mentally let go and enjoy it.

 

[DiscreteBaba]

If I may, I don't believe the foundation must lie in a Puritanical upbringing or socialization of sex as taboo. Rather, I feel for many women who are in positions of responsibility and power, that we are often viewed in more masculine terms and our positions often call for us to exercise our more masculine traits. Given we are not the traditional version or stereotype of a woman, we are seen as 'The Bitch' - hardly a sexual creature. Moreover, for women to rise to power and achieve a level of authority, we often must subjugate our emotions to be perceived as more rational. This is really the repression of the feminine, not the sexual.

This introduces a dual need for sexual submission or being 'forcefully taken.' First, it validates the woman as a woman. Being 'taken,' for me, signals that I can drive a man wild with my feminine and sexual prowess. That is reaffirming - I'm not just an intelligent, controlling, ice-princess.

Second, the 'forcefulness' removes the mental and emotional constraints that powerful women in their work-a-day worlds must operate within. When a man overpowers me, he breaks through and shatters the constraints I have carefully constructed. Because it is a forceful act, I needn't feel self-reproachment or shame or guilt - after all, I was overpowered.

Given my carefully constructed persona, developed with great tenacity and grit over a long period of time, it would be incommensurate and threatening to my self-image to just willfully submit to a man. However, if I am powerful enough to drive a worthy male, dare I say opponent (because everyone and everything is a challenge), over the edge with lust that he must simply rip the clothing from my body, throw me to the bed, and fuck the living daylights out of me... then I can still maintain my dignity when I wipe the cum from my tits.

presuming it does land on your tits and nowhere else, mutually agreed to of course.

 

[eroticspank]

I had a gf who liked to wrestle. So we would wrestle until I pinned her down face up. She would still struggle and try to push me off until I was inside her. I would push my dick deep inside to the hilt and she would swear at me but then give in to a nice fucking!

ES

 

[SubmissiveMom]

I have often wondered how many women really like to be taken forcefully with the man in control.
My wife is not normally into S/M or anything like it, but sometimes I take her quite forcefully holding her hands over her head while fucking her and sucking and biting her tits and when she sits on top of me I grab her hips and ass very hard and force her down on my cock - and when we have done this she says afterwards that it was really good to be taken like that and to be without control.
Ihave had a similar experience with an earlier girlfriend, who normally liked it very gentle and soft, but sometimes got off really hard when I took command.
I would like to hear from both men and women your experiences and whether or not this would be an indication of her wanting more in that direction - and how I go about it - your help will be appreciated.
You can either send me a private message or give your opinion here - Thanks!

Being taken forcefully is a kink of mine x not for everyone, but gets my juices flowing x I'm still a very fit, sexy mature 50 year old lady who still enjoys cnc/r4pe roleplay as a sub and have done for over 35 years now x x x

 

[Rescuemike]

My fav style of sex.
I think all day. I just want to be manhandled and enjoyed. I like to turn my brain off and become his pleasure toy. This way i can mentally let go and enjoy it.

I love finding ways to push a woman to that head space

 

[DaneCopenhagen]

Being taken forcefully is a kink of mine x not for everyone, but gets my juices flowing x I'm still a very fit, sexy mature 50 year old lady who still enjoys cnc/r4pe roleplay as a sub and have done for over 35 years now x x x

Sounds great - would love to try that with you!