Women who wear high heels in bed

[KentLondon]

I enjoy wearing them in bed and while having sex or fun. Especially if the guy or woman enjoys it

It always adds some hot spice to any sexy coupling, but I just wondered if you had injured anyone while wearing them! An ex-girlfriend ruined my car radio once while wearing them as we made out in the front seat.

 

[Crownvic]

It always adds some hot spice to any sexy coupling, but I just wondered if you had injured anyone while wearing them! An ex-girlfriend ruined my car radio once while wearing them as we made out in the front seat.

Love her heels in the car....gets me very hot..

 

[NiceSlice]

I have never worn high heels ‘in bed’ and really prefer not to have to wear them at all. The reason so many women wear them is that the angle the high heels places your feet in when walking enhances the shapeliness of your calves and makes the legs look more sculptured. Laying down on your back while wearing them doesn’t accomplish ‘leg shaping’….. but I do recognize a lot of guys LOVE the overall look of them. Stiletto heels in bed during sex are about as “safe” as if the man were wearing SPURS….someone may get hurt and a lot of sheets would end up punctured or shredded

 

[KentLondon]

Love her heels in the car....gets me very hot..

I now make sure we go in the back seat !!!

 

[Dave60ga]

My ex knew they were a fetish for me. I used to grab the heels when she was riding me.

 

[Crownvic]

My ex knew they were a fetish for me. I used to grab the heels when she was riding me.

Giddyup.....love it

 

[Dave60ga]

She thought it weird the first time, but loved it

 

[Crownvic]

She thought it weird the first time, but loved it

She loves his kinky stuff..

 

[Dave60ga]

that's why she started wearing them more often.

 

[claradollc]

I never thought of it as kinky but then it does say in bed.

 

[Dave60ga]

Heels are a fetish of mine and she knew

 

[Dave60ga]

That's very true. She would have been hot in anything

 

[cypressknee]

Getting ready for bed…does that count ?

 

[markchamberlain]

I've not really thought about it before, but now that you mention it, I do remember a really hot experience with a lover in her heels. We were in a hotel with a mirror beside the bed. We had been out to a nice place, and she had put on cute makeup and a very attractive hair style, perfume, elegant dress, and sexy shoes. We undressed bit by bit standing up, embracing and kissing, but we never removed her shoes. It was sexy hugging and kissing this taller version of her. But when we lay down in the bed and made love, it was even more amazing. I remember looking over in the mirror at the end and seeing her legs in the air, her cute sexy feet and shoes bouncing with each thrust. I had a deep soul-draining orgasm inside her. I remember laying there an cuddling afterward too, still in her shoes. She said she had an especially intense orgasm that time, and I know I did. Maybe it was the hair, the jewelry, the makeup, the dress, the mood, or whatever...but thinking back, the sexy shoes sure didn't hurt!

 

[Rm3452]

Getting ready for bed…does that count ?

Yes it does......she is smoking hot

 

[cypressknee]

Yes it does......she is smoking hot

I think so too

 

[KatieDoes]

I have a broad selection of options. If I am wearing lingerie such as stocking, heels etc. I favour patent leather pumps, but some guys like stripper heels as well. And I have lots of varieties of boots. Overall one of my favourites is an open toe strappy heel that is consistent with a nude look. I also wear heels for work so the selection of options is almost endless.

One consistent factor is that for me when I say high heels I mean high - a minimum of 3 1/2". That accentuates the legs the best. But I also find that it benefits the psychology. I want to look sexy and I want my man to really buy into my commitment to look sexy which means don't go halfway. Commit or don't do it at all is my approach.

3.5” heels make me over 6’ tall, though

Doesn’t matter so much lying down, of course. But I don’t generally like having to bend down to kiss a man.

 

[policywank]

3.5” heels make me over 6’ tall, though

Doesn’t matter so much lying down, of course. But I don’t generally like having to bend down to kiss a man.

Yes, I can see that point of view. I suppose that is one benefit of being a bit shorter.

Do you find that guys are also less than enthusiastic about you being taller than them in heels? Not a problem I run into too often at 5'5". But much as I would like to think otherwise I do occasionally cater to such sensitivities.

 

[Crownvic]

Yes, I can see that point of view. I suppose that is one benefit of being a bit shorter.

Do you find that guys are also less than enthusiastic about you being taller than them in heels? Not a problem I run into too often at 5'5". But much as I would like to think otherwise I do occasionally cater to such sensitivities.

I love it...Katie..

 

[BongoGal]

Do you find that guys are also less than enthusiastic about you being taller than them in heels? Not a problem I run into too often at 5'5". But much as I would like to think otherwise I do occasionally cater to such sensitivities.

All of 'my guys' have been significantly taller than me, so I have never found out how they would react. If I did wear heels tall enough to make me taller, they might find it so much of a novelty that it would be fun for them. (In my experience, guys who are shorter than I am tend to bristle and act uncomfortable about it.)

 

[markchamberlain]

... Stiletto heels in bed during sex are about as “safe” as if the man were wearing SPURS….someone may get hurt and a lot of sheets would end up punctured or shredded

Haha, never tried spurs. But anyway, during my most memorable experience with this, she was wearing a wedge kind of shoe. I've also seen heels where the heel part is kind of wide, like stripper shoes. Sorry, I'm sure all these things have proper fashion terms, but as a man I never learned them. Basically I just mean to say, not all sexy shoes are deadly weapons. I don't find the deadly kind to be sexier than the non-deadly kind, but I suppose some people might.

 

[KatieDoes]

Yes, I can see that point of view. I suppose that is one benefit of being a bit shorter.

Do you find that guys are also less than enthusiastic about you being taller than them in heels? Not a problem I run into too often at 5'5". But much as I would like to think otherwise I do occasionally cater to such sensitivities.

Some don’t like it. So I typically wear high heels to weed them out. I love my height. I love being tall and strong and competent. So if a man is going to feel some sort of way about my being tall, I’d like to find out early and not waste my time.


I’m not much for 3.5” heels, but most of my favorites are between 2”-2.5”
I slip out of them for intimacy. It’s just simpler logistically, as well as being more comfortable.
While I have been attracted to men who are shorter than me, I’d never be attracted to man who wanted me to not wear heels to appease his insecurity about it.

 

[policywank]

Some don’t like it. So I typically wear high heels to weed them out. I love my height. I love being tall and strong and competent. So if a man is going to feel some sort of way about my being tall, I’d like to find out early and not waste my time.


I’m not much for 3.5” heels, but most of my favorites are between 2”-2.5”
I slip out of them for intimacy. It’s just simpler logistically, as well as being more comfortable.
While I have been attracted to men who are shorter than me, I’d never be attracted to man who wanted me to not wear heels to appease his insecurity about it.

Tall, strong and confident with great tits too sounds like pretty awesome package. I suppose I can understand some guys being a bit intimidated, but you'd hope he has enough sense to know that it is up to him to deal with that. I can't quite imagine asking you to not wear heels, but I guess some would do that.

 

[Crownvic]

I never thought of it as kinky but then it does say in bed.

So beautiful in high heels..

 

[komesh]

I enjoy it. Over time I have come to appreciate just how much clothing in general enhances the experience when managed seductively and with purpose. But it is still rooted in the man's pleasure. If he didn't care at all I don't think I would do it because on its own it doesn't do enough for me to offset the potential discomfort and inconvenience. But when a man likes it - and it seems that most do - I really enjoy that feedback loop. So, it isn't just a matter of me doing it solely for him. I also do it for the response that it elicits.

It is a little bit like any aspect of presenting myself to be sexy. I like feeling sexy. I like doing it for him. And I like the response that I get.

I love to watch ladies in high heel shoes, they are much sexy than without high heels.