Shadowsdream
Dream Maker
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- Apr 29, 2002
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WillowPuss said:
(apologies for being late!)
"One should look behind them"
and perhaps ask themselves questions
- have I always be 100% honest, not only with myself, but with Mistress?
- have I always given every task, no matter how menial, or how trivial seeming, my whole hearted effort?
- have I always submitted with a smile on my face to morror the smile in my heart?
- have I always obeyed without questioning, even if the question has been left unasked?
If the answer to any one of these is a negative - then possibly the submissive has their answer.
Is that what you meant Shadowsdream?
all of your possibilities come right after one looks back to the initial conversations with the Dom/me.
Did that Dominant give the impression that they were looking for a sub..definately..possibly.*******..realtime?
Did that Dominant express what qualities (in the first moments or throughout the conversations) what they held up to value in the submissive they would accept?
Is the Dominant really ready yet to take on the responsibility?
When you have those answers as a honest foundation you will move onto the questions you have brought up.
It is always possible that it is as simple as no *magic* on one side or the other.
Not a failure in any way but simply human nature.