Your Married, What do you miss most about being single?

Yours is great but we have to throw in a little sharing with GF and her hub;) keeps the spice rolling:D
 
I'd say the newness of things - that rush of passion, that desire to please, discovering new personality quirks, first kisses, exploring every inch of his body for the first time.

However, what's new eventually gets old... There is also pleasure and comfort in the familiarity and partnership of marriage. You sometimes just have to work harder for it.

I have to agree with this. Well said.
 
Honestly, not a damn thing. I'm a horrible single guy. I need a woman to care for and to pamper. Now that I am married, I do wish I had spent a little more time finding someone more sexually compatible with me (or at least someone who is able to discuss at length what she wants).
 
Honestly, not a damn thing. I'm a horrible single guy. I need a woman to care for and to pamper. Now that I am married, I do wish I had spent a little more time finding someone more sexually compatible with me (or at least someone who is able to discuss at length what she wants).

True story. I'm right there with you.
 
I'm always curious about why/how a wife isn't getting sex. The concept is foreign to me as a husband whose wife never wants sex...I can't imagine ever saying no to an opportunity for sex.

On a separate note...there's no such thing as too wet!

There is such a thing when I'm wanting it and hubby isn't!
 
I agree. If ever you find the answer, please let me know. And I guess in the meantime I shall have to just keep entertaining myself! :devil:

I agree with dk. Sorta like the quote from Zorba:

“If a woman sleeps alone it puts a shame on all men. God has a very big heart, but there is one sin He will not forgive. If a woman calls a man to her bed and he will not go.”
― Nikos Kazantzakis, Zorba the Greek

For me...the problem is...the turn offs. Climb into bed nude(her) and say the words that every man loves to hear...

"Luke forgot his homework, can you check to see his grades"
"Did you check your freq flyer mileage account?" (this was not a double entendre)
"We have to get up early for 1st service"
 
Hahaha. Totally get what you're saying. 'Luke' isn't an issue though so I must be doing something else to turn him off.
 
The newness, the excitement, the sexual charge, pushing the boundaries, and the thrill of the chase. Plus if it didn't work out you just went your seperate ways.
 
Hahaha. Totally get what you're saying. 'Luke' isn't an issue though so I must be doing something else to turn him off.

He has a pulse? We haven't used the S E X word in a positive sense in about 3 years. We have had - code word - 'intimate moments' - 'time away'. And tried dating again - but some of the dates seemed like being on a date with a sister...whos a nun.
 
I hope it wasn't like a date with a Carmelite nun ... you know, the ones who don't speak! Then you'd have a double whammy to deal with.
 
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